Mary and I invented a way for us to address hard issues. Because of it when she passed there was nothing unsaid between us. There were issues still to be untangled but there was nothing hidden.

I am offering you a tool to get there in your marriage.

Moving on from Episode 305, I offer more of an experiment than an explanation about keeping thoughts of a broken marriage for playing an endless loop in your head. Let me know if it helps.

I posed a similar question on Google. All the top answers sounded just like me in High School, back when I knew everything. But I think they left some key issues unaddressed. Maybe you can explain it to me so it makes sense.

Let me share with you the promise you should have made when you got married and how Mary and I discovered it.

Several years ago my functional conception of the promise I made to my wife changed. Join me as I try to conceptualize and articulate that change.

I have lent my support to several people struggling with a relationship and a brain injury. In this episode of my podcast I offer a hypothesis about approaching the challenges on a different axis.

I’ve wondered for a long time why the church seems to discourage laying up treasure in heaven as a motive for being good. Could it be that a motivation like that would illustrate too starkly how problematic it is to serve Christ as King in a defined organization.

Without the consequence of retribution there is little hope for immature narcissism. Is it possible that Christ laid the foundation for loving retribution rather than espousing cowardly self immolation in the face of childish self centered behavior.

Thanks so much for listening through to the end. I hope this becomes a useful tool for you and for others you share it with.