Welcome to the Unfathomable Podcast with Elizabeth Welles. In this episode, we delve into the profound themes of love, loss, spirit, and sorrow. Elizabeth explores the struggles many face—whether it's foreclosure, caring for a sick loved one, or grappling with overwhelming debt—and discusses the powerful act of surrendering when our backs are against the wall.

Join us as we navigate the complexities of human existence, from the freedom and relief found in surrender to the terror of the unknown. Through it all, we find that love is the constant that holds us together, offering support and grace in the most unexpected ways.

Elizabeth shares personal reflections and universal truths about the love that surrounds us, even in moments of distress and uncertainty. Discover the peace that comes from knowing that love binds us to each other and to the world around us.

Tune in for a heartfelt conversation that reminds us of the importance of helping and loving one another, and the transformative power of surrendering to the unfathomable.

Episode #7 On the Pathless Path Series

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Two years and then three years into grief, what happens when isolated all over again because of Covid-19. How is grief received at this time? Find out in this episode.

Podcast Episode #5

Be An Empty Vessel

When you see grieving friends, leave behind your brandishing swords of earthly wisdom:

Leave behind your healing ways.

Even the greatest of healers say foolish things.

Instead bow before grieving loved ones,

Be an empty vessel in their presence,

In Love.

Podcast Episode #4 of the On the Pathless Path Series

Highlights:

"Sometimes after loss we hear things differently...

People want us to have moved on, gotten better, gotten over it, but when you have lost the person who is your soul there is no moving on except with them. You never move on from them. There is no getting better, because you were never sick. You are grieving...

What happens is we start to feel more isolated and lonely...

Grief as path.

It’s the resistance to difficult emotion that presents the difficulty. We live in a culture that wants us to be happy like we are going to meet happiness on the other side of grief. We live in a culture that is swept into excessive positivity..."

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This is about our collective grief, humanity's grief.

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Podcast Episode Two

Highlights from Podcast Episode Two:

“The form changed … but the relationship continues on and expands and can even deepen…

“You have always been on the pathless path. There is no path from here to here, from there to here, from here to there, from here to here. How can there be when we are always here. There is no path for you. Only to realize that from here to here is already here.”

“Create spaciousness for them by a presence, by a sacred space … be with someone in their grief and suffering.”

“When your loved one leaves physically, you feel alone. When you say to someone I don’t want to be here, they get scared … they think what does she mean? Is she going to lie down and go to sleep? Is she going to take her own life? No. That’s not what it means.”

“Yeah, sometimes you don’t want to be here and it’s a part of grief and it’s a part that needs to be spoken to and given voice. It’s better to give it voice than to keep it tucked in one’s own heart.”

“I don’t move on from. I don’t move on from my mother or father or best friends, who have all passed. I move on with … we move on with our loved ones.”

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Love Holds Me

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8TG4HQKvheY

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Episode #3 Notes & Highlights

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How do you start to feel tethered again?

A Little Bit About Secondary Loss:

Secondary loss zaps your concentration, your energy, and your motivation to want to do

Fear, anxiety and terror may suddenly creep into your day or explode full on into your

You can’t push someone into better or to move through grief into some other mythical happy side of it because there’s no other side to get to, it’s a part of life. Validation is huge.

Tears of grief are often mixed with tears of love.

Can You Trust That Everything Is All Right? https://youtu.be/1adP7V674ew

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Podcast Episode One

Highlights from Podcast Episode One:

“When we can’t be true to what is in ourselves and safely reveal ourselves to one another, then we are split into two or into a thousand pieces more. When grief is not shared or witnessed or seen, it breaks

“Give sorrow words, the grief that does not speak whispers the o’er fraught heart and bids it break” ~ William Shakespeare.

“Sometimes I think the collective grievers of this world weep for the unshed tears of others who do not know how to be with grief. We weep for their losses that remain ungrieved, pushed aside, disenfranchised in this world. And what a world it is…

“And often the tears are not pure grief. They are mixed with love and some strange joy that I don’t even understand but other people have said they sense in me when I cry so deeply.”

Companioning Philosophy

1. Companioning is about being present to another person’s pain; it is not about taking away the pain.

2. Companioning is about going to the wilderness of the soul with another human being; it is not about thinking you are responsible for finding the way out.

3. Companioning is about honoring the spirit; it is not about focusing on the intellect.

4. Companioning is about listening with the heart; it is not about analyzing with the head.

5. Companioning is about bearing witness to the struggles of others; it is not about judging or directing these struggles.

6. Companioning is about walking alongside; it is not about leading or being led.

7. Companioning means discovering the gifts of sacred silence; it does not mean filling up every moment with words.

8. Companioning the bereaved is about being still; it is not about frantic movement forward.

9. Companioning is about respecting disorder and confusion; it is not about imposing order and logic.

10. Companioning is about learning from others; it is not about teaching them.

11. Companioning is about curiosity; it is not about expertise.

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