What happens when your inner truth doesn’t match the life you're expected to live?

In this second installment of our Tell-All series, I sit down with Wanda—a trans-feminine, kinky individual navigating life with a family who doesn't yet know the full story. We dive into Wanda’s journey of growing up queer in New England, explore what turns them on, and unpack a wide range of sex and sexuality theories that have shaped their understanding of identity and desire.

This conversation is raw, real, and refreshingly unfiltered—we talk kink, queerness, longing, and the beautiful messiness of living a life that doesn’t fit in a box.

✨ What You'll Hear:

This episode gets into the nitty-gritty of Wanda’s life and desires—and it’s not one to miss.

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When I said the last thing in the interview I had two very specific things in mind, this poster which hung in my kitchen at the vintage store I owned, (a picture of the Buddha, saying “chill homie, you need to let that shit go”)

https://fakebuddhaquotes.com/chill-homie-you-need-to-let-that-shit-go/

And this meditation that helped me a lot during the same time period

F*ck That: An Honest Meditation- https://youtu.be/92i5m3tV5XY 

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