In this episode of Unfiltered with Love, Kerry Love reflects on what it really means to feel gratitude for past relationships — without wanting to go back to them.

As we grow and gain clarity in the present, the way we see our past begins to shift. Kerry explores the difference between gratitude and approval, and how it’s possible to recognize what something taught you… without minimizing the pain or the reasons it ended.

She shares personal insights on:
 ✨ learning from past relationships
 ✨ letting go without resentment
 ✨ forgiveness as a form of release
 ✨ emotional growth and self-awareness
 ✨ and how relationships evolve — including friendships

Kerry also touches on the idea that not all relationships are meant to last, and that growth doesn’t always happen at the same pace for two people. Sometimes, it’s not about something going wrong… it’s about evolving in different directions.

At the heart of this episode is a simple but powerful perspective:

You can be grateful for what something gave you… without wanting it back.

✨ This episode also marks a natural close to Season 1 — a season of reflection, growth, and looking back.
 Season 2 will be coming soon, shifting into more present, real-time conversations about relationships and life.

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In this episode of Unfiltered with Love, Kerry Love explores the evolving language and expectations around modern dating — from “situationships” and “connections” to labels, commitment, and clarity.

After noticing how unclear relationships can feel today, Kerry reflects on the shift from past generations — where dating was a process — to today’s world of constant communication, fast emotional connection, and hesitation to define anything at all.

She dives into the difference between monogamy and true commitment, and why being on the same page matters more than any label. Through personal reflection, Kerry shares her own experience navigating the dating world after divorce — including what it feels like to be in a vulnerable place, question your emotions, and still recognize when something isn’t right.

This episode also explores the role of intuition in relationships — how “knowing” can show up in both positive and negative ways — and why the hardest part isn’t always recognizing the truth, but accepting it.

In this conversation, Kerry covers:
 ✨ Situationships and modern dating dynamics
 ✨ Labels vs. clarity in relationships
 ✨ Monogamy vs. commitment
 ✨ Generational differences in dating
 ✨ Intuition and emotional awareness
 ✨ Dating after divorce and vulnerability
 ✨ Why confusion in relationships matters

At its core, this episode asks a simple but powerful question:

Are we building something… or are we just drifting?

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In this episode of Unfiltered with Love, Kerry Love sits down with longtime friend and former police detective Scott Furlong for a deeply personal conversation about trauma, healing, and transformation.

Scott shares his journey from serving as a homicide detective in Queensland, Australia, to experiencing PTSD after years of exposure to trauma. He opens up about the culture within law enforcement, the challenges of seeking support, and how untreated trauma can quietly build over time until it becomes overwhelming.

The conversation moves beyond trauma into something deeper...exploring identity, purpose, and what happens when the career that once defined you is suddenly gone. Scott reflects on his personal transformation, including his spiritual awakening, his studies in theology, and the process of redefining his sense of self and worth.

Kerry and Scott also discuss how trauma impacts relationships, emotional connection, and the ability to form meaningful bonds. Scott shares how his experiences shaped the way he related to others, and how healing requires breaking down emotional walls that were once built for protection.

Now an author, Scott talks about his books, including his children’s book Mummy Wears Blue Shoes, which helps families talk about PTSD in a compassionate and accessible way. He also shares insights into his latest work, a fiction thriller rooted in real-world events and personal inspiration.

This episode is an honest and thoughtful conversation about:

• PTSD and life after trauma
• Healing and personal transformation
• Identity and self-worth beyond career
• Emotional connection and relationships
• Spiritual growth and perspective
• Finding purpose after loss

At its core, this conversation is about understanding that healing is not a straight path...it’s an ongoing journey of growth, reflection, and rediscovery.

As Scott shares, sometimes the most important part of healing is learning to slow down, reconnect, and remember what truly matters.

This is a powerful episode about resilience, humanity, and the possibility of transformation...even after the darkest experiences.

This is Unfiltered with Love.

Mummy Wears Blue Shoes: https://www.amazon.com/Mummy-Wears-Shoes-Scott-Furlong/dp/1913340708

Fundamentals of Government Investigations: https://www.amazon.com.au/Fundamentals-Government-Investigations-Scott-Furlong-ebook/dp/B0FJQB7415

Shadows of Timbuktu...coming soon!

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In this episode of Unfiltered with Love, Kerry Love explores whether we’ve become too guarded, too independent, and too analytical in how we relate to one another.

With so much modern relationship advice centered around detachment, protecting your energy, and emotional independence, Kerry reflects on whether we may have lost something important...genuine connection.

She dives into the difference between healthy independence and emotional detachment, the impact of fear-based relating, and how over-analyzing relationships can sometimes keep us from experiencing meaningful connection.

This episode explores:
 ✨ Hyper-independence vs. healthy connection
 ✨ Fear-based relating and emotional guarding
 ✨ Over-intellectualizing relationships
 ✨ Vulnerability and authentic connection
 ✨ What healthy relating actually looks like

Kerry also reflects on how we can find balance...learning to be independent while still remaining open, vulnerable, and willing to connect.

Maybe we haven’t forgotten how to love…
But maybe we’ve forgotten how to relate.

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In this episode of Unfiltered with Love, Kerry Love sits down with licensed therapist and author of "Stripped Down" Teresa Blackburn to explore intimacy, relationships, and the deeper emotional and energetic connections that can form through sexual experiences.

Teresa shares her unique perspective shaped by her experience working in the strip club industry, her healing journey, and her work as a therapist. Together, Kerry and Teresa discuss casual sex, sacred intimacy, trauma patterns, and how emotional and energetic exchanges can affect relationships.

They also dive into modern relationship culture, emotional disconnection, porn addiction, vulnerability, and what healthy intimacy can truly look like.

This thoughtful and honest conversation explores:

•  Casual sex vs. meaningful connection 
•  Emotional and energetic intimacy 
•  Trauma and relationship patterns 
•  Sacred sexuality and healing 
•  Modern relationship culture 
•  Emotional disconnection and vulnerability 

This is an open and honest conversation about intimacy, healing, and what it really means to connect with another person.

You can find Teresa's book "Stripped Down" on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/Stripped-Down-Teresa-Blackburn/dp/B0FGK1Q6Z8

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Sometimes choosing yourself doesn’t happen when the love is gone — it happens when you realize something isn’t working, even though you still care deeply.

In this episode of Unfiltered with Love, Kerry Love reflects on the difficult reality of walking away from relationships while still in love. She explores the quiet moments of realization, the role of growth in relationships, and how your body and nervous system can often tell you what your heart isn’t ready to admit.

Kerry also shares her own experience with people-pleasing, choosing peace over emotional highs and lows, and the understanding that love isn’t just a feeling...it’s a conscious choice made every day.

Sometimes staying is hard.
Sometimes leaving is hard.
You choose your hard.

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In this episode of Unfiltered with Love, Kerry Love reflects on a question many of us may be quietly asking: are we becoming afraid to truly love?

Inspired by a powerful quote, Kerry explores how past experiences, heartbreak, and emotional wounds can lead people to protect themselves rather than fully open their hearts. While the fear is understandable, she challenges the idea that the answer is to love less—and instead invites listeners to consider what it means to love in a healthier, more grounded way.

Through honest reflection, Kerry shares the difference between being wise and being closed, the importance of boundaries, and how modeling healthy love may shape the way future generations experience relationships.

This episode is a short but meaningful invitation to reflect on how we love—and how we can do it without losing ourselves.

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In this episode of Unfiltered with Love, Kerry Love explores a side of divorce that often goes unspoken—the grief of losing a version of yourself.

After 23 years of marriage and navigating life beyond it, Kerry reflects on the emotional process of letting go not only of a relationship, but of the identity, roles, and future she once believed would be permanent.

She shares how we are not defined by a single role, but are multifaceted, and how those parts of us don’t disappear—they evolve. Kerry also opens up about the challenges of transitioning from long-term relationships into being on your own, and what it means to rediscover yourself while navigating growth, healing, and new connections.

This episode is a reminder that you haven’t lost yourself—you’re becoming someone new.

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In the very first episode of Unfiltered with Love, Kerry Love shares the moment she decided it was time to stop waiting and start using her voice.

Through a brief but honest reflection, Kerry talks about identity, personal growth, and the quiet shifts that can happen after life changes in unexpected ways. After the end of a 23-year marriage, she found herself asking a question many people face during seasons of transformation: Who am I now?

This short introduction sets the tone for the podcast—real conversations about love, healing, faith, and the journey of becoming who we truly are.

Welcome to the beginning.

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