When it comes to religious baggage, I'm not sure there's anything that causes more pain than the realization of longstanding hypocrisy — the awareness that someone's stated beliefs completely contradict their actual behavior. Ironically, railing against hypocrisy was one of the most common threads of Jesus' ministry. If we can't count on someone's beliefs shaping their behavior, then what good are beliefs, anyway? And what does this mean for a faith like ours, where we gather not based on beliefs, but on promises for behavior? Do we get to be exempt from hypocrisy? Or would that just be hypocritical?