Kubazali ukuba bavimbe uku-spoiler izingane zabo, kudinga ukuqaphela ekufundiseni izinto ezisemqoka nokuthi bangabanakekela kanjani abanye abantu. Iningi intsha ekhula yazi ukuthi yilungelo layo yonke into nokuba nokulunga okungenayo impilo.Okuba lula ukuzama ukudlulisa I blame komunye ,kodwa uma sethembekile, kungumsebenzi womzali, ukufaka izinkambiso eziyohamba nengane kuze kube sebudaleni. Sizoletha amava okuthi lokho kubukeka kanjani, khona la ohlelweni Ezomndeni, hlala nathi.