Yikuphi engingakwenza nginomnyeni wami ukukhulisa ingane yethu yentombazane ibe ngowesifazane uNkulunkulu afuna ibe nguyena? Kulomphakathi ogwegwile ngubulili ,sihlale njalo sikhathazekile ukuba ibugcine ubufazane bayo sikhathi sinye ibe ikhula ibe ngoqinile nomuntu omdala onelisekile .Kukhona enikuphakamisayo?

Yikuphi engingakwenza nginomnyeni wami ukukhulisa ingane yethu yentombazane ibe ngowesifazane uNkulunkulu afuna ibe nguyena? Kulomphakathi ogwegwile ngubulili ,sihlale njalo sikhathazekile ukuba abugcine ubufazane bakhe sikhathi sinye ebe ekhula abe ngoqinile nomuntu omdala onelisekile .Kukhona enikuphakamisayo?

Uthini umbono wenu nge bording school ezinganeni? Ngiye ngibone sengathi iyalimaza ngokwemindeni. Kodwa nje nje mina nomnyeni wami sisanda kuthola ubizo lokuyosebenzela iNkosi phesheya kwezilwandle ,okubukeka kuyilona luhlelo kuphela oluphambi kwethu yilo lolu.Anginasiqiniseko lokhu kuhle yini ezinganeni nasemndenini wethu,kodwa futhi asifuni futhi ukudela ubizo lwethu lokuhambisa ivangeli.Lukhona ululeko la?

Lokhona utho mina nomnyeni wami esingalwenza ukwehlisa ukukhungatheka nge -teenager yethu ebhekane nakho ngenxa yokuzigaxa kwayo kwi –sexting? Impilo yakhe neyomndeni wethu yaphenduka yabheka phansi ngamhla kuqhumbuka izithombe zayo inqunu zijikeleziswa esikoleni sayo electronically.Njengokuba nawe ungazicabangela ubuhlungu benhliziyo busankentenketha kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho isibhekene necala lobugebengu . Lukhona usizo eninalo ngathi?

Njengomzali we-teen ngakube I –sexting yinto okumele ngikhathazeke ngayo ? Sengizwe kaningi ngalokhu ezindabeni, kodwa angikaze ngicabange ukuthi ingane yami ingaqoleka yilesilingo.Asikaze sikhulume ngakho ngoba angisheshi kweze technology,futhi angazi ngqo kubandakanyi ini.Ngale kokuthi ,uyingane enhle.Nicabanga ngimelwe ukusimungunya lesihloko naye?

Sewake wezwa ngomuntu okuthiwa uyazitshela? Leligama livamisa ukusetshenziswa kumuntu ozibona emqoka nozazi yena. Akulula ukushadana nomuntu onalemigudu, nokho leligama lokuzitshela kuyenzeka lisetshenziswe ngendlela okungeyona. Kuloluhlelo Ezomndeni namhlanje sizomchaza kangcono lomuntu.

Kuningi ukuqophisana ngobulili nokulingana kulezinsuku, okubiza ukuba AmaKhrestu amelwe ukubambelela ezinkolelweni zawo zebhayibheli ukuze amelane nokujivazwa ngokwe-media nabalwela inkululeko ewuvuma zonke.Kodwa ibhayibheli likhuluma ngowesifazane akhiwe ngomfanekiso kaNkulunkulu, lokho okungaletha ukudideka okuningi ngoba uNkulunkulu ubizwa ngoBaba, okusihlawumbisela ukuthi uyiNdoda. Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje sizoletha amasu aphusile ngalesihloko esiyindidabuchopho, hlala nathi .

Kubazali ukuba bavimbe uku-spoiler izingane zabo, kudinga ukuqaphela ekufundiseni izinto ezisemqoka nokuthi bangabanakekela kanjani abanye abantu. Iningi intsha ekhula yazi ukuthi yilungelo layo yonke into nokuba nokulunga okungenayo impilo.Okuba lula ukuzama ukudlulisa I blame komunye ,kodwa uma sethembekile, kungumsebenzi womzali, ukufaka izinkambiso eziyohamba nengane kuze kube sebudaleni. Sizoletha amava okuthi lokho kubukeka kanjani, khona la ohlelweni Ezomndeni, hlala nathi.

Njengowesilisa nicabanga ukuthi kuchaza ukuthi ngiyinkonkoni ngoba nakhu njalo ngiye ngixolele imvamisa futhi ngithokozele izinto zabesifazane ? Yilokhu ngaba njena ngisengumfana omncane ,anginaso isiqiniseko ngithini ngalokhu.

Yiziphi ezinye izinto engingazenza ukudala ukuzethemba ezinganeni zami ? Angifuni zikhule zicabanga ukuthi umhlaba umi ngazo ,kodwa futhi ngifuna ukuzifaka umqondo wokuzihlonipha kunye nezinkambiso zabo ezinhle njengabantu.Ngingakwenza kanjani lokho?