Original Air Date: November 14, 2024

But Did You Get the Nigga You Wanted? 

Welcome to the first episode of Unhinged and Immoral! In this episode, we delve into the chaotic and hilarious origins of our friendship. From the early days of terrible roommate drama to bonding over shared awkward sexual experiences, we've been through it all.

We'll share stories of petty theft, waking up to a booty in the face, and the race to losing our v-cards. Plus, we'll discuss the surprising way Zoe Saldana connected us.

We'll also tackle the age-old question: Did you get the nigga you wanted? And, if given the chance, would we double back and change our past mistakes? Join us as we reflect on our journey what to look forward to in episodes to come!

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*We lost Mecca's audio for a minute but it quickly comes back!

Mecca and Jamila kick off this episode with a Love Island recap before spinning the wheel for a quick round of Resha Roulette. Get ready for an update from none other than Barnes, A.K.A. Thick D Theo, and another insightful recap on the art of foreplay. Finally, in Spin It, they help a listener grappling with getting overly attached to men.

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Tomorrow’s the first day of summer, and Jamila and Mecca are already feeling the heat! Jamila's been battling an Atlanta mosquito apocalypse after 40 days of rain, while Mecca's on a mission to ensure everyone's got that deodorant with the chemicals. After a candid chat about asking guys for money, they dive into "Sliding Glass Moments” — those pivotal points that change everything.

They also ponder whether they'll ever truly experience heartbreak again and imagine their alternate universe selves. Jamila then unleashes a wild tin-foil hat theory about children, and Mecca shares a surprising premonition about her unborn child.

Plus, get ready for a Spin-It segment update on "Can A Side Chick Grieve in Peace" (from June 5, 2025). And finally, the duo tackles a listener's messy love triangle, which also happens to be an age-gap relationship. 

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Jamila and Mecca are in L.A., brushing shoulders with celebs and living the content creator dream. This week, they’re joined by Lavelle (@thelavelleshow) for a real discussion about visibility, virality, and the price of influence.

They share their takes on being recognized in public, navigating backlash, and what to do when people say you’re not relatable. 

The trio also opens up about the toll of online negativity on mental health and the importance of having solid friends to lean on when things get heavy.

They don’t hold back on the realities of making money as Black creators, fighting algorithm suppression, and why they believe in not gatekeeping the brands they work with.

Plus, in the Spin It segment: a listener writes in about their bigoted sister (and sister’s partner) assuming their brother is gay.

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Don’t forget to share your favorite socialites and PR moments!

Jamila and Mecca are back from L.A. and are feeling inspired! Jamila recaps her birthday adventures, including a visit to Michael Jackson’s former house.

Back home, Mecca almost incited a diaspora war.

The duo opens up about shutting out online haters. They then discuss when it’s okay for women to move on after a relationship ends. 

They also reveal the world of manufactured PR, including fake stunts, headline grabs, and socialite smoke and mirrors. 

Plus, they ask the question: When is it too late to be fake gay?

And in this week’s “Spin It,” a listener wants advice after she was filmed dancing with her friend’s man.

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This week, Jamila and Mecca get straight into it, starting with a critical look at how domestic violence is portrayed in the media. They discuss the urgent need for our generation to cultivate greater empathy and understanding towards girls and women, and explore the importance of instilling respectful values in boys from a young age.

Then, get ready for a dose of nostalgia as they reminisce about what they once imagined adulthood would be like as kids. Plus, they're sharing some of their memorable experiences from their time at an HBCU – expect laughter, lessons, and everything in between!

And in the "Spin It" segment, a listener needs advice. A writer is feeling the strain of an unequal friendship and is looking for guidance.

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Mecca's back from a cruise with tales of frisky old folks wanting to get down, and Jamila is all ears. Then, they delve into the wild— and wildly unethical —TikTok eugenics discussion that has everyone talking. Things get personal as they debate if size matters, share hookup flashbacks, and try to figure out who's freaky Plus, they reveal their ultimate fictional character crushes and take a trip down memory lane, reminiscing about when white boys in music were... well, white boys, and why they desperately miss real pop stars, iconic divas, and epic music rivalries. Stick around for "Spin It," where a listener wonders if it's truly over with their child's father.

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Produced by Melisa D. Monts

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Graphics by Claudia Choi

Music By Audy and Brooklyn Billionairez

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Join Jamila and Mecca as they discuss the parallels between today's political landscape and the Ronald Reagan era. They then explore how generations past have powerfully transformed their pain into a catalyst for inspiration and an incubator for success.

The conversation also tackles critical issues of sexual health, examining Reagan's complex legacy concerning the AIDS epidemic, and offers a thank you to the older generations who paved the way. Plus, discover why simplicity in speech might be a sign of sharper intelligence.

And in this week's "Spin It Segment," Jamila and Mecca help a listener navigate a tough situation: her boyfriend looks perfect on paper, but his emotionally manipulative behavior is causing turmoil.

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Graphics by Claudia Choi

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This week, Jamila and Mecca kick things off with a discussion about Ryan Coogler's, Sinners. Then, they dive deep into the Art of the Clapback, dissecting iconic moments from Housewife Reads, Miley vs. Nicki, and the queen herself, Beyoncé. The conversation gets personal as they explore how to handle others cultivating narratives about you. Inspired by Ms. Tina Knowles' Matriarch: A Memoir," the hosts differentiate between the roles of a Matriarch and a Mom. They also discuss shifting into our community roles, contrasting gentle parenting with passive parenting, and touch on the nuances of arguing with different age groups online. Finally, in "Spin It," they tackle a listener's dilemma about rebuilding their ego after a situationship partner gets serious with someone else.

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This has been a Diamond MPrint Production

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Produced by Melisa D. Monts

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Graphics by Claudia Choi

Music By Audy and Brooklyn Billionairez

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Spring is in the air, and so are Jamila and Mecca's allergies. This week, they chat about the changing seasons (and why NYC is a no-go in winter or spring), dive into the world of theatre, method acting, and their desire to see Othello on Broadway. Later, they explore the ups and downs of friendships. Finally, in "Spin It," they advise a listener on the delicate art of re-introducing their partner on social media after getting back together.

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This has been a Diamond MPrint Production

Hosted by Jamila Bell and Mecca Evans

Produced by Melisa D. Monts

Post-Production Sound by Coco Llorens

Graphics by Claudia Choi

Music By Audy and Brooklyn Billionairez

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