Unhinged & Unapologetic

Unhinged & Unapologetic

By Holly BainsEducationSelf-Improvement
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Unhinged & Unapologetic episodes

  • Why Man-Eater is so popular

    I know this is gonna be controversial, but I need you to be a man! Ghosting is no longer appropriate and women are really fed up with it! Because I don’t think people realize that there was a time in our society where men would literally go to battle and instead now they’re too afraid to even text a girl to say that they Cannot be in a relationship with her or they’re afraid of commitment or whatever the case may be! So I’m gonna share some of my hot takes about masculine and feminine energy and some of my more recent dating diatribes that have gone so horribly awry because men can’t seem to figure it out! And we’re gonna go ahead and discuss this whole Maneater culture that has been 100% shaped by the way our dating society has allowed it to be shaped Because if we wanna talk about maneaters and why they exist, we need to get to the root of the problem because the reason why man eating women exist are because men stopped learning how to use fkn power tools!

    33 min
  • Exposure therapy?!

    Welcome back to another thrilling episode! I have missed you all so let’s catch up! Let’s catch up on why it looks like I’ve been in the witness protection program for the last six months! Let’s talk about a new concept that we’re taking into 2025 and just overall air out some dirty laundry! As always, you can find the podcast on my personal Instagram because after all, I am the original Unhinged & Unapologetic baddie! There are a lot of people out there who claim to be “unhinged“ and they use that word so freely, but I would like you to know that I will always be the original. So you can find that content at stuffhollydoes and on TikTok under Unhinged & Unapologetic or just my first and last name! Welcome back y’all the circus is alive and well!

    48 min
  • What if Erik & Lyle had been girls?!

    On this wonderful episode, we are going to bring a bit of pop culture and media influence into our mental health gambit today. We are going to discuss why I feel so strongly about the Erik and Lyle Menendez case and how I can personally understand some of their points of view. We’re going to dive into the mental health aspect of why they did what they did and go over the facts of the case and then do a comparative analysis on whether or not the outcome would’ve been different if they were females. I think we are at a bit of a turning point in our society, where people are starting to look back on cases from the past and analyze them through different lenses and understand perspectives that they didn’t understand prior. I wanna dive into the psychological aspect what happens to a person when they are abused and then they become free from their abuser and discuss a little bit more about what that looks like moving forward and just general thoughts and feelings about thiscase And what that looks like for everyone. We’re gonna take the case and we’re gonna talk about it from a mental health perspective and also just from a social justice perspective and just shift our narrative a little bit while the podcast gets back on track with different types of content.

    41 min
  • Very Brainwashed. Very Repetitive. Not Demure

    Let’s talk about why Demeure is trending. Let’s talk about how if you need an Internet trend to tell you who you are. You never actually knew who you were in the first place! At some point, we have to stop letting social media. Tell us who we are. At some point social media has to stop calling the shots! I understand that it’s very if all your friends jump would you jump but that’s what this trend is giving. I wanted to discuss why I think it’s a little unhealthy for people to morph their entire identities into something different because of one word that was said, by one creator on one video. Will go through a couple of updates. Will catch up discuss dating and disgusting bald white men and we will be back soon even better!

    36 min
  • Don’t Expect YOU from THEM
    The biggest way to disappoint yourself is to expect you from other people. Do not ever expect anybody to do you the way that you would do you. You need to understand that not everybody has the best intentions not everybody cares the way that you care and not, everybody is going to show up the way that you show up. I apply a lot of this this week into dating and what dating culture is like and what it is like to love so hard with everyone and care so deeply with everyone to be let down by what society has normalized within its toxic culture. I cannot expect somebody to do the same as I would and neither can you, so let’s talk about it
    27 min
  • WHATS IN THE BOX?!?!
    Why are we so worried about fitting into boxes that we were never meant to fit into? In this episode we break down what it is like for me to go through a mini identity crisis after finishing school and trying to understand who I am now and how society really does try to mold us in shape us into the boxes that were supposed to fit in and we’re supposed to be jealous of other peoples lives and other peoples boxes that they check off and all of the accomplishments that they have when everybody’s journey is not the same. We discuss what it is may or may not be a serial killer on a dating app. This episode is just as unhinged as you would imagine but this is why I do not fit societies meet little boxes with a bow and neither should you and you should always go your own way!!!
    31 min
  • Who dated Casper?
    Let’s catch up guys! I love you all so much for being so patient with me and just allowing me the time to heal and get through the things that I’ve been needing to get through! I’ve missed you guys so much so let’s get into what’s been going on lately! One of the biggest things that I wanna talk to you guys about is an experience that I just had recently but is a hot topic up for debate and up for discussion lately and the reason why I say it is up for discussion and debate lately is because it is becoming so much more normalized in our society and I think it’s deplorable! So let’s talk about what it’s like to either be the Casper or date the Casper! Let’s talk about what it is like for the person on the receiving end to understand and overcome that it has nothing to do with you and it has everything to do with the other person. But let’s also not forget that the other person is also at fault but the reasons why they did it are none of your business!
    34 min
  • Rent free…
    Let’s discuss the elephant in the room! The piping hot tea! The story everyone has been waiting for! I’m actually just kidding! Due to some unforeseen unhingedness, we will not be spilling as much tea as anybody might think but we are gonna talk about is what it is like when someone has too much time on their hands and they’ve built you an entire plot of land in their head to live rent free! When someone decides to build you a plot of land in their head, it is because they are delusional enough to think that you care enough about it! When insecurity meets security, it scrambles peoples brains and we need to have a larger conversation about it so let’s get into it.
    40 min
  • Everyone wants a boss b*tch til they actually meet one!
    Let’s break down the stereotype of alpha females! Let’s discuss how Alpha females were a man-made created thing and that weak men created strong females! This episode is not just for The Girlies but I cannot stress enough. If You are not ready to hear this as a man quit listening Let’s discuss what it is like to be one of the boys and when it goes too far and what it is like to navigate through male friendships while being a female who is strong willed and does have a good sense of boundaries and healthy, communication and healthy attachment styles! We also discussed a little bit about upcoming guest spots, so be on the lookout for that and also DM me if you are interested in coming on the podcast as a guest and sharing your story or your healing and mental health journey!
    38 min
  • Unhinged for year! Season 2 baby!
    Can you guys believe that this is already season two!? Let’s recap the last year talk about some of the highs, the lows, the guests, the jokes, the unhinged us! Let’s talk about all the things we learned and everything that we embraced over the year and then we’re going to cover a new topic! This is a little bit chaotic because I was coming off of a two week hiatus and my dog was absolutely going nuts in the background so it’s a bit chaotic, but I want to get the point across about when you were sure of yourself hanging around people who aren’t sure of themselves is going to piss you off. Their low vibration is going to try to mess with the higher vibration that you operate on. So let’s talk about what that looks like.
    34 min

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I will not sugarcoat your Mental Health. Some of ya'll including myself, need to be called out, break habits and challenge ourselves to be better! This is not your average mental health podcast and you will not get a cookie for showing up! You will gain a sense of purpose and learn to navigate your own mental health in a world of people trying to do the same! If you're looking for something fluffy, look elsewhere. BECAUSE I LOVE YOU!