Unique Connections At The Table

We discuss the place for boundaries inside trauma-informed practice, particularly in educational settings - that 'no' is both a trauma-informed word and a kind word in the right context. They discuss the importance of understanding trauma in students, the necessity of boundaries, and the balance between compassion and discipline. The dialogue emphasizes the role of relationships in healing and the need for a nuanced approach to care that recognizes both the costs and benefits of emotional investment in vulnerable individuals.

Jen and Bev explore the principles of empowerment, choice and voice in the context of trauma-informed care with people with severe learning disabilities. They delve into the significance of balancing spontaneity and routine, the emotional growth that comes from navigating disappointment, and the necessity of creating safe spaces for healing. The discussion also touches on family dynamics, fairness, and the importance of boundaries in fostering empowerment and understanding.

This conversation explores the dynamics of trust, transparency, and community in care settings, emphasizing the importance of emotional honesty and resilience.

Bev and Jen discuss their personal experiences and insights into how relationships and organizational culture impact the well-being of young people, particularly those with learning disabilities.

They highlight the need for a shift towards more open communication and the establishment of boundaries to create safer environments for both caregivers and those they support.

In this conversation, Bev and Jen delve into the principles of collaboration and mutuality, particularly in the context of trauma-informed care.

They explore how collaboration can dismantle power structures, the importance of respecting a person's autonomy, and the transformative experiences that arise from mutual trust and understanding.

Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, they highlight the challenges and rewards of fostering genuine connections that prioritize emotional safety and internal change.

In this conversation, Bev and Jen focus on safety – one of the core principles of trauma-informed care.

They start with some thoughts about how quickly psychological safety can get shaken, and then drill down into the role of relationships in creating safe, supportive environments particular in setting supporting people with severe learning disabilities.

They also touch on the complexities of dependency versus attachment in care settings and the need to value relationships over mere resources in caregiving.

In this conversation, Jen and Beverley discuss the challenges faced by young people with learning disabilities dealing with trauma and the importance of understanding their stories, when these can be found.

Discussing Bev’s Churchill Fellowship visits to the UK, Jen asks about the cultural differences in trauma-informed care between the UK and the USA, highlighting the role of therapy and the need for organizational change to embed trauma-informed principles. They explore the importance of choice and empowerment in care settings and the ongoing journey towards effective trauma-informed practices.

In this conversation, Bev and Jen use a discussion about the pandemic as a springboard into thinking about the different experiences of trauma, and the way we can recover.

They talk through understanding trauma as a bodily experience and the necessity of creating safe environments for recovery.

Applying this to examples of different ways of understanding presentations of young people with learning disabilities they have supported, they begin to think about the need for trauma-informed care and the complexities involved in helping individuals adapt from a state of fear to one of safety and trust.

In this episode, we talk about how common trauma is thought to be amongst people with learning disabilities; and the things that contribute to people with learning disabilities experiencing trauma.

We then pull the conversation wider to think about the way in which trauma might affect direct care staff. This leads us on to a discussion around regulation, dysregulation and co-regulation - and how we use this all the time in our work, both with individuals and with groups and organisations.

In this new series of podcasts, Jen and I slowly walk back through the Churchill Fellowship Report, which explores trauma and learning disabilities and the sorts of interventions that Bev learnt about during her time in the US in 2024.

This episode starts with an exploration of what trauma is, how it presents for people with learning disabilities, and why it's a bigger problem than we are currently recognising in the sector.

However, it is a problem that can be addressed, as trauma is essentially recoverable with the right context and support.

Join us for this discussion which explores our shared thinking and approach for our work with young people with severe learning disabilities who self-injure or are distressed.

In this episode from our YouTube channel, Bev and Jen talk about the work of Unique Connections and some of the ethos and principles behind if.

Jenny Cavendish is a nationally-recognised self-harm expert and an integrative psychotherapist.