United States of Dating

This is part 2 of the episode.  I invite you to listen to part 1 first to get a better idea as to why I am talking about this in the first place.  After listening to part 2 (btw its over an hour! Clear the schedule, tell your assistant to hold all your calls, If Mr. Wonderful calls, tell him you'll get back to him later!), you will have a blueprint on how 50 Shades outlined the dynamic of courtship that is going to get both men and women excited about each other...If you didn't read the description from last week, you'll find it below.  Cheers!   

When 50 Shades of Grey came out many years ago, it was an instant sensation that reawaken women's passion for love and sex, but why? Romance novels have been around since forever, but what made this one so different?  At the time of its height in popularity, I was struggling to stay happy in relationships and struggling to understand how to make the women in my life desire and want to be around me. (I know I know, yours truly did struggle with the ladies.  I wasn't always smooth.) On a whim, I decided to read it (probably the one and only guy in human history to read it).  To this day, it is one of the best decisions i've ever made in my life.  I realized that it wasn't just a piece of erotica literatuer for women, but it was a MAP for men and women on how to navigate towards a love and desire for each other!  This blueprint is more for men, but women can benefit from it too, so women please listen too!  In order for me to properly deliver its message to you,  I am going to break it up into 2 parts.  Part 1 is going to explain the philosophy of why we need 50 Shades of Grey in our lives and Part 2 I will breakdown the step by step techniques the book lays out for successfully driving up a women's desire for you.  50 shades of grey came and went, but its message is timeless.  So, pull up a chair, turn up the volume, and let's get started.

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When 50 Shades of Grey came out many years ago, it was an instant sensation that reawaken women's passion for love and sex, but why?  Romance novels have been around since forever, but what made this one so different?  At the time of its height in popularity, I was struggling to stay happy in relationships and struggling to understand how to make the women in my life desire and want to be around me. (I know I know, yours truly did struggle with the ladies.  I wasn't always smooth.) On a whim, I decided to read it (probably the one and only guy in human history to read it).  To this day, it is one of the best decisions i've ever made in my life.  I realized that it wasn't just a piece of erotica literatuer for women, but it was a MAP for men and women on how to navigate towards a love and desire for each other!  This blueprint is more for men, but women can benefit from it too, so women please listen too!  In order for me to properly deliver its message to you,  I am going to break it up into 2 parts.  Part 1 is going to explain the philosophy of why we need 50 Shades of Grey in our lives and Part 2 I will breakdown the step by step techniques the book lays out for successfully driving up a women's desire for you.  50 shades of grey came and went, but its message is timeless.  So, pull up a chair, turn up the volume, and let's get started.  

Attention all women!  Do you know who are you about to go on a date with? Do you know who you are about to fall in love with? Do you REALLY know who this person is?  Did you ignore some serious red flags? OR Did you not even notice them?  What about if he is just pretending to be a nice guy, but really is a predator of women??  In this episode, USOD discusses the obvious and not so obvious behaviors of BAD MEN.  The greatest trick the devil played was convincing the world he didn't exist. Pull up a chair, Turn up the volume, and Lets get started.  

We love doing this podcast, and answering questions and being in touch with our listeners, is one of our favorite perks of doing it (besides the soda and pizza we have at the end of each episode, yes, that's right, soda and pizza, this isn't a fitness podcast!)  In this episode, we answer email questions that have been coming in from listeners the last several weeks.  We decided to pick questions that would touch upon the advice we have talked about so far and dive into some relationship dilemmas as well.  You will hear 4 different scenarios and USOD will weigh in on them. As you listen to each one unfold, think about yourself, and what you would do in these situations.  So, pull up a chair, turn up the volume, and let's get started.   

Online dating is now a standard practice of meeting someone.  The stigma of meeting someone online is no longer around.  In fact, some people might even consider it to be the only way to meet someone as you get to "screen" them to ensure they aren't crazy, insane, or a NY Mets fan.  Does online dating offer a great opportunity to meet someone good?  How do you set up your profile to make yourself look like a high quality option?  Is online dating a better option than real life approach and phone number exchange?  We will discuss all this in today's episode; and give you expert tips on how to build your profile, increase matches, get more HQ contacts, and give you some unfortunate truths about the world of online dating.  So, pull up a chair, turn up the volume, and let's get started.

Not getting texts back anymore?  Cancelled dates?  As long as you didnt tell them your plans to invent a square wheel or to install screens on a submarine, you might not of did anything all that wrong.  In the first few weeks of getting this podcast going, I've been getting some questions about why someone would disappear (getting blown off aka getting ghosted or flaked out).  As much as this sucks, this is a common occurrence in dating; you are not unique when this happens.  In this episode, USOD will address the reasons why this happens to us (I was no exception, it happened to me a lot), how to handle it when it does happen, and to how avoid it all together .  Also, there is some bonus content on here for men and women.  So...Pull up a chair, turn up the volume, and let's get started.   

Struggling to get to second dates?  Went out with a high quality person, but never got them to want to see you again?  Before you go celibate, understand we have all been there.  Anyone claiming that they haven't, is full of crapola.  The pressure of coming out of a first date having made the other person wanting to see you again, requires some skill.  You may not realize that success isn't about how much you can entertain the other person, or how much money you throw around, or about showing off your anime collection.  In fact, less is more on a first date.  This episode highlights key techniques to put yourself in a position to have your date wanting to absolutely see you again.  Key portions of the advice in this episode are catered towards men (as guys are the ones that handle a lot of the leg work of a first date: asking the girl out, setting up the time and place, and of course, paying!)   Don't worry ladies, I am all for the guy paying, but just no dinner dates! Not yet anyway.   Points such as: how to dress, where to go, what to do, when to go on a date, how long should the date be, what to talk about, should you make a move are covered in this episode; these points are important for both men and women.   There are other aspects of a first date that are often overlooked that will be addressed in this episode; listening will ensure you do not make those mistakes anymore!  Are you ready to start having successful first dates that lead to second dates?  Pull up a chair, turn up the volume, and let's get started.  

In this episode, we breakdown USOD 10 commandments (6-10).  These Commandments are important to make sure that you are striving for happiness and success day in and day out.  Anyone trying to find happiness without them, is going to miss the mark.  And we dont want that!  Ww want to see you happy, kicking ass, and setting the example.  By implementing these 10 commandments into your daily mindset, you will see a huge gain in happiness.  Are you ready to start making a paradigm shift in your life? Pull up a chair, turn up the volume, and let's get started.

In this episode, we breakdown USOD 10 commandments (1-5).  These Commandments are important to make sure that you are striving for happiness and success day in and day out.  Anyone trying to find happiness without them, is going to miss the mark.  By implementing these 10 commandments into your daily mindset, you will see a huge gain in happiness.  Are you ready to start making a paradigm shift in your life? Pull up a chair, turn up the volume, and let's get started.