Unknown & Talented with Jelan Abrams

Thinking about getting married? These are the benefits of a small wedding.

In this episode of the podcast, Jelan Abrams and Charnae Ja'Nyse share the exciting news of their recent marriage. They reflect on the quick planning process, from getting engaged in February to tying the knot in April. Jelan offers advice to men on proposing, emphasizing the importance of being prepared for the wedding planning process that may follow. They discuss their love for planning and organizing the wedding themselves, sharing the joy of creating a unique and authentic experience to celebrate their union. And also discuss having a small wedding in their new home.

Jelan and Charnae also delve into their personal journeys towards marriage, with Charnae being a hopeless romantic from a young age and Jelan coming to the decision through observing strong family relationships. They share their perspectives on the value of marriage, reflecting on the process of aligning their desires with God's purpose for them. Despite initial doubts and feeling behind in the dating game, both Jelan and Charnae express gratitude for finding each other and embarking on this new chapter together.

Throughout the episode, the hosts offer insights into their individual paths to marriage, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, intentionality, and faith in guiding their decision-making process. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own desires for marriage and relationships, and to trust in the journey towards finding the right partner. With humor and heartfelt moments, this episode provides a glimpse into the hosts' love story and the joy of starting a new chapter as husband and wife.

Meet Charnae Ja'Nyse

https://www.instagram.com/charnaejanyse/

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In this episode of "Unknown and Talented: Behind the Scenes," host Jelan Abrams is joined by his wife Charnae Ja"Nyse, who recently turned 30. The couple discusses the experience of entering a new decade and how their perspectives on life have changed as they age. Charnae shares her excitement about the opportunities and growth that come with turning 30, while Jelan reflects on his own experience navigating dating apps in his thirties.

The conversation delves into the physical and mental changes that come with aging, such as taking care of one's health and adjusting to a slower metabolism. Charnae highlights the importance of embracing these changes and finding ways to stay active, whether through Pilates classes or fun workouts with friends. Jelan adds a humorous anecdote about the unique environment of a Planet Fitness gym, where the "lunk alarm" goes off if someone lifts heavy weights too loudly.

As they discuss the different approaches to fitness and aging, Jelan and Charnae emphasize the importance of finding activities that are enjoyable and sustainable. From dance classes to Pilates sessions, the couple explores how staying active can be both beneficial and fun.

The hosts discuss their discipline and focus when it comes to maintaining their health, particularly in terms of mental health. They talk about the importance of having a sound and righteous mind, and the habits they have developed to stay positive and motivated. The hosts share their experiences with therapy, journaling, prayer, and limiting social media use as ways to prioritize their mental well-being.

The conversation shifts to diet, with one host sharing their dedication to cooking and eating healthier, despite struggling with a sweet tooth. They also touch on a recent trip to the ER, where they experienced the chaotic and sometimes bizarre environment of the emergency room. From long waits to unexpected medical assumptions, the hosts recount their humorous yet eye-opening experience while emphasizing the importance of understanding one's body and triggers to avoid future health issues.

Overall, the episode highlights the hosts' commitment to staying healthy and the challenges they face along the way, all while sharing their candid and relatable anecdotes about their health journey. Tune in for a mix of humor, insight, and practical tips on maintaining physical and mental well-being in today's fast-paced world. Ultimately, the episode showcases the couple's candid and relatable reflections on growing older and embracing new challenges and opportunities in their thirties.

Meet Charnae Ja'Nyse

https://www.instagram.com/charnaejanyse/

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E-mail: [email protected]

The secret to being successful is not to be "A jack of all trades" but is to be a mater of one thing! 

In this episode of "The Unknown and Talented Podcast," host Jelan Abrams delves into the age-old saying, "A jack of all trades is a master of none." Disagreeing vehemently with the sentiment, Jelan shares his personal journey of defying this notion and striving to prove people wrong. From childhood driving lessons with conflicting parental advice to fierce competitiveness in games, Jelan's mindset was always set on excelling in everything he pursued.

However, as an adult and a burgeoning content creator, Jelan found himself stretched thin across various platforms and endeavors. Realizing the truth behind the saying, he acknowledges the importance of focusing on one thing to truly master it. Drawing parallels to concepts from Gary Keller's book, "The One Thing," Jelan emphasizes the significance of identifying and dedicating oneself to that singular goal that can transform everything.

Through engaging anecdotes and insightful analogies, Jelan illustrates the necessity of eliminating distractions and tracking progress towards achieving mastery in one's chosen field. Whether it's pursuing further education, improving health, or seeking additional streams of income, the key lies in relentless focus and disciplined execution.

Join Jelan on this inspiring journey of self-discovery and empowerment as he encourages listeners to embrace the pursuit of mastery and unlock their full potential. Don't miss out on this enlightening episode that promises to challenge conventional wisdom and inspire action towards greatness. Subscribe, leave a comment, and embark on the path to becoming unknown and talented.

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Jelan Abrams shares personal anecdotes and insightful reflections on the pitfalls of making excuses and the profound impact of taking responsibility for one's actions.

With raw honesty and relatable storytelling, Jelan guides listeners through the journey of self-awareness, shedding light on the common barriers that hold us back from achieving our full potential. From the fear of failure to the lack of belief in oneself, each excuse is dissected to reveal its underlying impact on our lives.

Through inspiring narratives and practical advice, Jelan empowers listeners to break free from the cycle of excuses and embrace a mindset of accountability and action. Whether it's pursuing a dream, overcoming obstacles, or simply striving for personal growth, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable steps to propel listeners towards their goals.

Tune in to "Unknown and Talented" to embark on a journey of self-discovery, motivation, and empowerment. Together, let's rewrite our stories, defy the odds, and unlock our hidden potential.

🎧 Stay tuned for more every Wednesday! See you next week on "Unknown and Talented"! 🎉

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We're diving into a crucial topic: burnout. As creators, we often juggle multiple roles, balancing our 9-to-5 jobs with our passion projects. But how do we avoid burning out in the process?

In this episode, I share my personal experiences navigating the challenges of maintaining consistency in content creation while managing the demands of everyday life. From the pressures of social media to the struggle to stay motivated, burnout can manifest in various ways.

Identifying the signs of burnout is the first step towards addressing it. Whether it's a lack of motivation, physical symptoms like sleep disturbances or changes in appearance, or neglecting self-care routines, recognizing when we're reaching our limit is crucial.

But what do we do once we realize we're burned out? I discuss strategies for resetting and recharging, emphasizing the importance of taking breaks and setting boundaries. Just like a cell phone needs to be recharged or a computer needs to be restarted, our minds and bodies require downtime to function optimally.

I share insights into establishing self-care routines, such as journaling or meditation, and the significance of setting boundaries not only with others but also with ourselves. By prioritizing our well-being and creating a balance between work and personal life, we can mitigate the risk of burnout and sustain our creativity in the long run.

Drawing parallels to seasonal breaks in sports, sabbaticals in academia, or simply the concept of sharpening our blades, I underscore the value of pausing to sharpen our skills and rejuvenate our spirits.

So, if you've ever felt the weight of burnout or strive to maintain consistency without sacrificing your mental and physical health, this episode is for you. Join me on this journey to reclaiming balance and fostering creativity without compromise.

Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe on your favorite podcast platforms. Your support means the world, and together, we can navigate the challenges of creativity and conquer burnout.

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Join us as we celebrate a remarkable milestone – a whole year of podcasting every single week, every Wednesday. Jelan reflects on the transformative journey, highlighting the power of consistency and the profound impact podcasting has had on his life.

In this special episode, Jelan shares his insights into the challenges and lessons learned throughout the year. From the early days of producing content with friends to transitioning into impactful solo episodes and compelling interviews, he unveils the evolution of his podcasting adventure.

Discover the importance of consistency, not just in showing up but in constant improvement. Jelan draws parallels to favorite TV shows, emphasizing the need for quality content every week to keep the audience engaged. Hear how he navigated the challenges of public speaking, interviewing strangers, and the growth that emerged from stepping out of his comfort zone.

Jelan delves into the behind-the-scenes aspects of podcasting, discussing equipment errors, the evolution of content creation, and the unexpected lessons learned from interviewing individuals with captivating stories. The podcast serves as a testament to Jelan's growth, from a shy, quiet individual to a confident conversationalist connecting with people from various backgrounds.

As he sets his sights on entrepreneurial aspirations, Jelan emphasizes the value of networking and heartfelt conversations with successful entrepreneurs. The podcast has not only become a platform for self-expression but also a conduit for seeking advice and building genuine connections.

Join Jelan as he shares the challenges of podcasting – from equipment malfunctions to the demanding nature of maintaining a consistent schedule. Yet, through it all, he emphasizes the immense satisfaction derived from the journey.

If you've ever considered starting a podcast, Jelan's story is an inspiring testament to the transformative power of this medium. Whether it's navigating technical hurdles or finding your voice, "Unknown and Talented" offers a captivating glimpse into the world of podcasting. Stay tuned for another year of consistency, growth, and engaging conversations with Jelan Abrams!

🎧 Stay tuned for more every Wednesday! See you next week on "Unknown and Talented"! 🎉

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Welcome back to "Unknown and Talented"! I'm Jelan Abrams, your host, and today we have a special guest, Dr. Marlon Haywood. Join us as we dive into Dr. Haywood's journey and his incredible nonprofit, the Urban Male Network. We connected at Invest Fest, and I knew there was something special about him. Today, we explore his story, passion, and the impactful work his organization is doing.

Dr. Haywood shares insights into his life, growing up in Chicago's Inglewood neighborhood, and how his experiences led him to start the Urban Male Network. This male mentorship organization has been making a significant impact, serving around 250 young men in the Chicago area across 11 locations.

In this episode, we discuss the origin of the Urban Male Network, Dr. Haywood's personal journey, and the importance of mentorship. We also touch on the challenges of starting a nonprofit and the rewarding process of building partnerships. Discover how Dr. Haywood turned his vision into a thriving organization, making a positive difference in the lives of young men.

As we explore his experiences, we also delve into the unique approach of the Urban Male Network, focusing on mentorship for young men aged 13 to 25. Dr. Haywood emphasizes the importance of community, network, and guiding young men in making positive life decisions.

We also get valuable insights into the process of starting a nonprofit, from building a foundation to obtaining government grants and forming partnerships. Dr. Haywood shares his journey of acquiring free land and transforming it into a basketball court, showcasing the incredible possibilities that come with dedication and community engagement.

Learn about the power of networking, as Dr. Haywood explains how he secured partnerships with organizations like the Obama Foundation and Nike. He provides practical advice for individuals and organizations looking to start a nonprofit, emphasizing the significance of community involvement and proactive networking.

Dr. Haywood also shares the story on how he met President Barack Obama.

Join us on this inspiring episode as we uncover the impactful work of the Urban Male Network and the incredible journey of Dr. Marlon Haywood. Don't miss the insights, stories, and valuable lessons shared in this episode of "Unknown and Talented"!

Thanks for listening, and we'll catch you in the next episode.

Meet Dr. Marlon Haywood: 

https://www.instagram.com/haywoodm1

https://www.urbanmalenetwork.org/

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Welcome back to another episode of "Unknown and Talented: Behind the Scenes" with your host Jelan Abrams and Charnae Ja'Nyse. In this episode, the duo reflects on their recent trip to DC, exploring the challenges and quirks of using ride-sharing services in the city.

Charnae kicks off the discussion by sharing his anxiety about entrusting complete strangers with his safety during Uber rides, highlighting the nerve-wracking experience of having someone else control your journey. Jelan chimes in, discussing the subtle but crucial aspects of a good ride, such as the cleanliness of the vehicle.

The hosts share amusing anecdotes about encountering dusty and less-than-ideal Ubers, pointing out the importance of maintaining cleanliness, not just as an individual but also as a business owner. They explore the connection between personal cleanliness and one's stewardship, delving into the layers of perception tied to cleanliness.

As they navigate through topics like spring cleaning, the conversation takes an interesting turn when they discuss their own approaches to maintaining cleanliness. Jelan admits to occasionally neglecting his car due to weather conditions, while Charnae reflects on her past experiences and emphasizes the significance of cleanliness as a reflection of personal care and presentation.

The hosts digress into a fun conversation about their experiences with chores and cleanliness during their college days. Jelan shares his chore wheel experiences, highlighting the importance of designated cleaning days. Charnae reminisces about her college roommate's adventures with boiling eggs, sparking laughter and nostalgia.

Transitioning to living independently, they share insights into the joys of having a place of their own. Charnae expresses her love for a clean and organized space, while Jelan relives the freedom of creating his own environment. The hosts contrast their approaches to unpacking and setting up spaces, with Jelan"s calm and collected demeanor against Charnae's immediate need for order.

In the midst of their banter, they touch on the significance of a clean workspace for productivity. Charnae's preference for an organized environment clashes humorously with Jelan's relaxed unpacking style.

Join Jelan and Charnae on this entertaining and insightful episode as they explore the intricacies of cleanliness, sharing stories, laughter, and a few lessons along the way. Tune in for more unknown and talented discussions!

Meet Charnae Ja'Nyse

https://www.instagram.com/charnaejanyse/

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In this episode of "Unknown and Talented," host Jelan Abrams welcomes special guest Dexter Blanco, an IT professional based in San Diego. Dexter is passionate about helping people break into the tech industry and land high-paying roles. He also runs a digital marketing agency that assists local businesses with improving their visibility on search platforms. Jelan and Dexter discuss the field of information technology (IT) and what it entails, debunking the myth that IT professionals simply troubleshoot by telling people to "plug it out and plug it back in." They explore the various roles within IT, such as systems administrators and project managers, that are responsible for setting up and managing technology infrastructures for companies. Dexter emphasizes the importance of starting in help desk or service desk roles to gain hands-on experience and interact with different technologies.

Dexter then shares his personal journey of transitioning from being a table games dealer at a casino to pursuing a career in IT. He explains how he discovered his passion for computers and technology and decided to turn it into a viable career. Dexter details his experience of building his own home lab, which included a server rack filled with hardware such as routers, switches, and servers. He emphasizes the benefits of having a home lab for gaining practical experience and being ahead of others who start in entry-level IT roles without such exposure.

As the episode concludes, Dexter reflects on his early years in IT and how he eventually secured a job at a managed service provider (MSP). He highlights the importance of continuous learning, networking, and staying committed to one's career goals. Dexter's journey serves as an inspiration for aspiring IT professionals who want to break into the industry and achieve six-figure salaries. Listeners are left with valuable insights and practical tips on navigating the world of IT and pursuing a successful career in the field.

Meet Dexter Blanco: 

https://www.instagram.com/dblanco_12/

https://6figuretechpros.com/free

In this episode of Unknown and Talented, host Jelan Abrams is joined by Marilyn West, a business coach for coaches. Marilyn shares her expertise in starting and scaling coaching businesses, emphasizing the importance of building marketing momentum and establishing authority through search engine optimization (SEO). She explains that SEO is simply the process of optimizing your content to be found on platforms like Google and social media. Marilyn dispels the notion that SEO is complicated, highlighting that it is essentially using keywords that people use in their everyday search queries.

Jelan and Marilyn discuss the dangers of keyword stuffing and how it can negatively impact user experience. Marilyn advises against this practice, explaining that while it may be appealing to search engine crawlers, it can turn off human readers if the content doesn't make sense. They also delve into the topic of bounce rates and how social media platforms like Instagram are increasingly focusing on user experience and relevance to determine the visibility of content. Marilyn draws from her experience in ranking her own photography and coaching pages on Google, showcasing the power of SEO in attracting the right audience.

The conversation takes a turn as Jelan asks Marilyn about her transition from photography to coaching. Marilyn reveals that burnout and a desire to stay in the HR field led her to coaching. With her background in HR and her understanding of systems and technology, she saw a need for business coaching, particularly in the area of SEO. Marilyn explains that many coaches overlook SEO when starting their businesses, and she saw an opportunity to help them succeed by leveraging her knowledge in this area.

As the episode comes to a close, Jelan and Marilyn touch on the influx of coaches entering the industry and the challenges they may face in connecting with their ideal clients, especially as pandemic restrictions ease. Marilyn offers insights into how coaches can continue to stand out and attract clients even when people are no longer spending as much time online. This episode is a valuable resource for coaches looking to enhance their marketing strategies and establish themselves as trusted authorities in their respective niches.

Meet Marilyn West:

https://sustainablecoaching.com/social/

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sustainable-coaching-podcast-how-to-start-a/id1660478083

https://www.instagram.com/iammarilynwest/