Unliving the Lie

When a narcissist fears public humiliation they go on an intentional offensive attack. They deliberately misrepresent their victims and spread their falsehoods in a stunning display of audasiousness and cruelty.

When a narcissist fears public humiliation they go on an intentional offensive attack. They deliberately misrepresent their victims and spread their falsehoods in a stunning display of audasiousness and cruelty.

Narcissists invent a fake persona as a psychological defense mechanism. It's all an effort to hide their self-loathing and inner shame. But if you want the truth there are ways to ge it.

Narcissists are not confined to one gender or sexual identification. Simply because studies show males are more narcissistic doesn't mean women cannot be abusers.

As narcissists age, they face realities that no amount of denial can change. Do not fall into the trap of hoping that they will mellow out with age. Narcissists only become more abusive, manipulative, hypersensitive rageful, and entitled as they get older.

Non-productive arguments and discussions go hand in hand in a relationship with a narcissist.  You can hold your own and not get sucked into their mind-numbing insanity.

Once the initial love-bombing stops the true person emerges and you often realize, much to your horror, that the narcissist is an awful person.

Your unmet childhood needs leave you vulnerable o narcissists.

Lying for a narcissist isn't lying as we know it. Because they live in a simulated reality their very existence is a lie

Non-productive arguments and discussions go hand and hand with narcissistic relationships but you can hold your own with them and not get sucked into their insanity.