Precious Detina is ready to tell her story. All of it. In order to do so, she will have to have some very uncomfortable conversations with those that may be a part of her story. In this episode, she explains that telling your truth does not betray others. Hiding or omitting your truth is not an option when seeking to be free. Your truth is your story and it never changes. Click the link to listen to her interview on the To Emerge Podcast, where she explains how she ended up on a Greyhound bus from NY to AL at the age of 15. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/to-emerge/id1391876865?i=1000441121600

Just because I'm carrying it doesn't mean its not heavy. Let that sink in.

In this episode, Precious discusses the importance of not being presumptuous in assuming that people are okay. Just because people don't LOOK like they are carrying a heavy load does not mean they are not. Some people are barely making it: dragging their loads, switching hands, slinging it across their backs...but they are making it. Them being able to thrive does not minimize your wrongdoing in their lives. We must all acknowledge our part and not assume they are unaffected.  An apology is still in order. Accepting responsibility is still in order. Checking on them to make sure they are REALLY okay is STILL IN ORDER. The seemingly strong friend needs to be checked on too.

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This episode is a long time coming! SHE'S STILL YOUR MOTHER is a very damaging, dismissive and judgmental statement that so many are guilty of using. Most people do not mean much by it and simply say it because it seems like the right thing to say, while others truly believe that one should stick by their mother's side regardless of what she's done.  This episode points out 3 things that everyone should know about this statement. Please listen with an open heart and mind so that true understanding can take place. 

Who This Episode is For:

Unmothered women

Women raised with their mothers and had what would be deemed a normal childhood, but notices as an adult that there was and IS some dysfunction in the relationship.

People that do not think its okay to "speak ill" of mothers and do not agree with limiting contact or cutting a mother off completely. They also don't believe in discussing her shortcomings publicly.

Key Take-A-Ways:

Blood relation is not a reason to tolerate abuse, belittlement OR manipulation

If someone is toxic, pull back or cut them off.

We all get one life to live so be selective on who or what you allow in your life and eliminate whatever or whomever gives you the blues.

Choose sanity over a relationship

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In this encouraging episode, Precious Detina speaks life into women that may feel they are less than, inadequate, or not worthy of the same blessings and benefits reaped upon women who were raised with their mothers. She implores them to know their worth and walk confidently into any room or situation they find themselves in because THEY BELONG THERE! 

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This impromptu episode is all about showing love to great mothers. Precious had something on her heart and she wanted to share it with the wonderful mothers out there!  Let us be the first to say -- Happy Mother's Day! 

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faux /fō/ adjective  not genuine; fake or false  In this episode, Precious discusses the 5 steps or processes she has gone through and is currently going through on the journey to forgiving her absent mother.  There once was a time in which she thought she had forgiven her mother, however, she realized over the years that she still harbored ill feelings towards her. Her forgiveness had not been genuine. It was faux. Its time to get real!   

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This is a teaser for episode 2 Faux Forgiveness, where I describe the very moment I knew I had to forgive my mother or turn into a monster.

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This inaugural episode is the first in a four part series that will Dare You to Strip and force you to be your authentic self. If you want to move from being emotionally depleted to being full of joy and contentment, GET NAKED! Expose yourself so you don’t have to worry about someone doing it for you.

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In this trailer, Precious gives a brief explanation for why she feels its necessary to create a space for the unmothered women of the world and what she hopes to accomplish with the podcast. By committing to being transparent and taking the mask off, she hopes to build a community of women that will support one another and become a safe haven for so many that have nowhere to unmask. It's time to heal, forgive and thrive!