Carol (our girl from Episodes 1 & 2), Kudzayi & I talk Ultimatums - the "if we don't make this an official relationship, I'm out" type of ultimatum & the "if we don't take this relationship to the next level, I'm out" type of ultimatum. Find out who's for them and who's against them in the first half of this episode. In the second half of the episode we share our thoughts about The Ultimatum, which is trending on Netflix. 

Are you for or against ultimatums? Feel free to share your thoughts with me @unpackinglove on IG.

Thanks for listening!

Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen

TT 14: Unrelated/somewhat related ....Do you think the honeymoon phase is shallow? Feel free to DM me @unpackinglove on IG!

Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen

Kudzai, Nish & I bring this spicy eX-factor discussion about dating a friend's ex or an ex's friend... Grab something to sip on (water, tea, juice, wine, perhaps something stronger..) and enjoy this fire episode! Should a friend's ex be off limits? Should an ex's friend be off limits? Feel free to share your thoughts with me @unpackinglove on IG.

Thanks for listening! 

Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen 

TT 13: ***INTRODUCING SHOUTOUTS ON THE POD!*** Now that that's out of the way, is it ever ok to ghost, most or orbit? Feel free to DM me @unpackinglove on IG! 

Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen

Vidya, Colin & I talk about handling calling/texting temptations, blocking, social media, gifts, photos, venting, therapy, mind, body, soul, staying busy and creating a new life after a breakup. In part 2 of the breakup talk, we share practical steps that helped us get through breakups. We even drop some music recommendations in this episode!

As always, please feel free to DM me on Instagram @unpackinglove if you have any thoughts that you wanna share about the topic. Thanks for listening!

Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen

TT 12: Has this worked for you or for anyone you know? You can actually just share your story in next Tuesday's episode at this point, so that I can be a believer lol. Feel free to DM me @unpackinglove on IG. Article: https://qz.com/1247382/online-dating-is-so-awful-that-people-are-paying-virtual-dating-assistants-to-impersonate-them/amp/ 

Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen

Colin, Vidya & I have a very real, very deep conversation about the stages we go through after a breakup. We hope this helps someone out there. If you are currently going through a breakup, you are not alone and the feelings you are experiencing are valid. Give yourself time and grace. Sometimes it's about taking it one day at a time. This too will come to pass. Sending you lots of love & hugs!  

As always, please feel free to DM me on Instagram @unpackinglove if you have any thoughts that you wanna share about the topic. Thanks for listening!

Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen

TT 11: It might be time for us to ask ourselves if we are out here kittenfishing... Do you think kittenfishing is ok or not? Feel free to DM me your responses @unpackinglove on IG. Thanks for listening!

Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen

Nyasha & I kick off the eX-Factor episodes with this 1-on-1 about Getting Back Together With The Ex (*sips tea*).. Join us as we share our thoughts on what to consider before getting back together, questions you may want to ask yourself & your ex before making that decision, strategies & resources you can use for your analysis and more.. Sometimes it's perfectly ok to get back together with your ex but sometimes it's not... That's always your call though, based on the situation you find yourself in... Remember to always do what is right by & for you. 

As always, please feel free to DM me on Instagram @unpackinglove if you have any thoughts that you wanna share about the topic. Thanks for listening!

Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen

TT 10: Do you have any vulture stories you want to share? Feel free to DM me @unpackinglove on IG. Thanks for listening!

Music - Ndiwe by Masa Caroleen