Are you or someone you love hiding behind a shameful past or a faith you’re trying to earn by being good enough for God? Do you struggle with finding true freedom in Christ as you process your story?

Today’s UnPerfect guest has known the shame of hiding and the grief of losing a spouse twice. But she learned to find her security in the gospel alone and walk in the power of the Holy Spirit.

And you can too, my friend! Listen in to hear her powerful story – and discover the power to share your story in Biblical community or a specific niche community that can walk this road with you.

By allowing the gospel to speak into our pain and our past, we can come out of hiding into freedom in Christ!

Let’s do this!

Xoxo,

Shelly

Connect with Rachel here.

Grab her book, Widow’s Might, here.*

Learn more about a Never Alone Widows gathering here.

Grab The Gospel Comes With A House Key, by Rosario Butterfield, here.*

And finally, get your copy of Emotionally Healthy Spirituality, by Peter Scazzero, here.*

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Do you have an anxious heart? What if I told you the key to knowing the peace of God is found in intimacy with God? Life is filled with tragedy, trauma, suffering, and waiting, but God longs to cover us with his wings and enable us to experience the peace of God that transcends all human understanding.

It’s possible. And my guest today, Kara Stout, is sharing her story of the dependency on God that led her closer to the very heart of God.

Xoxo,

 *Shelly*

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Grab your copy of An UnTroubled Heart here.

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Do you have hard questions for God that you’re afraid to ask him? Do doubts about God or tough Biblical questions make you anxious about owning your faith or trusting God in difficult times? What if instead of drawing you further away from God, your doubts could bring you into an intimate relationship with God?

It’s not only possible, but it is how God designed us to face our biblical doubt and spiritual frustrations. 

If you’re like most women, this is a lifelong area of struggle. In today’s episode, my guest, Niki Hardy, shares with us the secret to not only taking our doubts to God via honest prayer but also ways to wrestle with Him through our doubts and achieve a deeper intimacy with God as a result.

Whether you are struggling with passages of Scripture that are difficult to reconcile with God’s nature, or doubting God in hard times, you can bring your authentic self and your biblical doubts to the God who longs to hold you, questions and all!

 Find out how on today’s episode of UnPerfect!

 xoxo,

Shelly

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Connect with Niki Hardy and download the first three chapters FREE. 

Or go ahead and order your copy of God, Can We Chat?

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Are you struggling to lower stress levels and increase resilience? What if instead of being stressed out, you could learn to stress less? I’ve got great news for your anxious heart today: God has gifted us with spiritual and physiological ways to reduce stress and anxiety while becoming resilient in the process!  

If you're like most believers, you want to experience God’s peace that passes all understanding, even in the midst of chronic or acute stress. In today’s episode, Dr. Charles Stone shares some golden nuggets of wisdom from his book, Stress Less.  

Whether you are looking for ways to reduce stress or to decrease overwhelm and anxiety, by diving into Dr. Stone’s nine Biblical and science-based practices, you can begin to thrive in uncertainty and develop the resilience needed to face the challenges that God allows in your life.

 Let’s do this!

 Xoxo

Shelly 

Connect with Dr. Stone here. 

And grab his life-changing book, Stress Less, here!

And check out the other book mentioned by Dr. Stone, Holy Noticing.

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Are you in a season that feels like the bottom has just dropped out from beneath you, and you’re either floating in uncertainty or drowning in difficulties that are entirely out of your control? 

 Like you, I have struggled with truly resting in God during uncertain times in my life. Thankfully, God has given us an anchor in the midst of the storm, a basis for not only saying but also truly knowing that “God is my refuge,” as Psalm 46 promises.

Whether you’re in a season of uncertainty or struggling to remain anchored in faith that God is still in control even when your world is upside down, there is real and tangible hope for you on today’s episode of UnPerfect! Join me as we unpack Psalm 46 to put our confidence in God (again), and access the God who actively finds us!

There is A River, by Charlie Peacock (sung by Michael English) - Psalm 46 in song

Charlie Peacock on Substack (because I'm a fan, he has great things to say, and he took the time to send me the link above:)

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Have you ever wondered, “Why am I so angry?” What if instead of feeling frustrated and exasperated, you could be more present and positive with your family?

It is possible! My guest today is helping us discover the reasons we experience mom anger and some very practical ways to improve emotional health, so that we can have healthier interactions with those we love.

If you're like many moms, you long to know how to have more patience and a shorter fuse. In today’s episode, you’re going to learn how to keep mom anger from stealing the show, and how to stay curious rather than annoyed.

We’ve got this!

Xoxo,

Shelly

Free “End Mom Shame Training”

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Has busyness become a guest who has overstayed her welcome in your life and home? Discover the barriers that keep you from finding balance in episode #110 of the UnPerfect podcast. (Check out the first half of our conversation here).

I know what it's like to live a hurried, overly busy life. But it's possible to jump off the hamster wheel and step calmly into purpose and rest. And Sandy is back to give us some practical strategies to do just that! 

We've got this!

xoxo

Shelly

Head over to  Sandy Cooper’s website and take her busyness Quiz entitled, “What’s Your Busyness Personality?” – it’s free and quite insightful!

Other episodes to check out:

#47 Seven Ways I Compare Myself to Others

#93 Giving Yourself Permission to Rest

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Has busyness become a guest who has overstayed her welcome in your life and home? Discover the barriers that keep you from finding balance. 

Today, I'm chatting with Sandy Cooper from the Balanced Momcast on all things busyness. She offers valuable insight into why we often become overly busy and how to gain a genuine understanding of our busyness personality.

In this episode, we discuss the following insights about busyness:

• Physical, spiritual, and emotional effects of being too busy
• When busyness turns into “hurry” - and why that's not good
• The first two (of 4) types of “busy people” we might be

Our chat was so insightful, I had to split it into two, so be sure to catch Part 2 in episode #110!

Head over to  Sandy Cooper’s website and take her busyness Quiz entitled, “What’s Your Busyness Personality?” – it’s free and quite insightful!

And be sure to grab her amazing book, "Find Your Balance." [1]

Other episodes like this one:

#93 Giving Yourself Permission to Rest

#74 Six Steps to Cultivate Contentment

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Today's discussion with Myshel Wilkins is filled with wisdom to navigate challenges that bombard you with relentless intensity, and to do it with unwavering faith and hope. 

Faith has been the foundation of Myshel Wilkins' life. As the daughter of a Ghanaian mother and a missionary father, she grew up leading worship in churches around the world. She later toured as a vocalist with top Christian artists, including Mandisa, TobyMac, Matthew West, and Don Moen and was mentored by gospel legend CeCe Winans. But behind the spotlight, Myshel and her husband struggled with the hope of starting a family, and dreams that God began to overhaul to give Myshel a heart for the people she ministered to. It was through personal heartache—years of infertility and eight painful miscarriages—that propelled her to know God’s strength and goodness in a deeper way. 

In this episode, we discuss the following topics related to navigating challenges and overcoming adversity:

• Worship in the Face of the Unexplainable
• Clinging to Truth Amidst Heartbreak
• Faithfulness in Deferred Hope
• The Enemy's Tactic: Hitchhiking on Grief
• Worship as an Act of Obedience
• Discerning God-Given Identity
• Unlocking Your God-Given Authority
• Tormenting the Enemy Through Worship
• Avoiding the Trap of Comparison

Connect with Myshel here.

Grab her book, Arise, Shine and Conquer, here.

Listen to some of her music here and here.

More Unperfect episodes on overcoming adversity and navigating challenges:

Episode #78: Life to the Full in Difficult Seasons

Episode #80: How to Hope in Hard Times

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