Unravel with Nokuthula Khwela

If you are breathing, you deserve to have all your hearts desires. Simply by virtue of being alive you are worthy and deserving of your dream. You wouldn’t feel the longing if you didn’t have the capacity to manifest your dream.

While men seldom do,as women we tend to settle for people with a dozen children for financial security but honestly that doesn’t have to be the narrative of an independent woman. This episode unpacks the side effects of settling with people that have kids.

Can we do better ?

Lets rewrite the narrative .

Throughout the history of humankind, people have been obsessed with sex.

Pornography has evolved in modern society alongside with the advent of the internet. This episodes look at the role of porn in our communities.

Money alone can not bring happiness though it is essential to sustain life. This episode looks at the significance of money in our lives as people.

Has cheating been made fashionable? Modern society has normalized cheating, you are made to seem unpopular when in a monogamous relationship.This episode explores the mental health effects of cheating.

Modern marriages have made lobola transactional, are women being sold to the highest bidder by their families? Find out more on this Episode that features Elijah and Thompson.

"Our African culture says the bride had to be a virgin. For those who didn't do African history, VIRGINITY was a must for lobola, if not the bride price would be REDUCED. Nowadays the average female by the time she gets married her body count is in double digits .

Body count matters, a female that has been with a lot of guys has decreased her ability to emotionally bond and increased her likelihood of “bouncing to a new

” the moment something goes wrong. Women were created to pair bond with one guy not jump from to ," says Fella Versace

Modern marriages have made lobola transactional, are women being sold to the highest bidder by their families? Find out more on this Episode that features Elijah and Thompson.

As Fella Versace says:

"1. VIRGINITY: Our African culture says the bride had to be a virgin. For those who didn't do African history, VIRGINITY was a must for lobola, if not the bride price would be REDUCED. Nowadays the average female by the time she gets married her body count is in double digits.2.Body count matters, a female that has been with a lot of guys has decreased her ability to emotionally bond & increased her likelihood of “bouncing to a new ” the moment something goes wrong. Women were created to pair bond with one guy not jump from to ."

Does body count really matter? There’s a constant debate amongst men and women about this topic. Some men dived and never returned but is the vagina not elastic meaning it goes back to its size?

A episode that elevates underrepresented voices, discussion on offers a healthy understanding on Feminists, offers the tools and perspective we need to create a 21st century feminism that is truly for all. Why do some women struggle to identify as feminists, despite their commitment to gender equality?

Daddy-Mommy issues are an epidemic, the word is thrown rather too loosely which rejects its depth. This episode divulges into Mommy-Daddy issued faced by both males and females