Unshakeable Marriage

Mxolisi and Bonisile Vilakazi are founding leaders of  Hope Life Church in Volkrust, South Africa. In this episode, they share about the joyful times in their marriage, family and ministry.

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It can be difficult to navigate the dating process, no matter who you are. But dating doesn't have to be rocket science, and neither should it be complex. This episode explores some relationship advice for young adults to consider before and during their dating process.

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God has designed a master pattern for husbands and wives that, when followed, will create a whole, fulfilling, and unshakeable marriage. We must work out our marriages according to His plan. The key is for each one to follow God’s plan and work together. This episode explores the role that the wife can play to honour the husband and bring glory to God.

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There are many ways to ease the stressful times experienced when raising a family, but one of the most important ways to manage a household is the introduction of structure. Structure in the home is created by consistent routines and rules. The key to keeping kids safe and parents sane is structure in the home. Creating a home life that values structure leads to more freedom for everyone, not less. Though structure may vary from family to family, everyone needs it at every phase of life. This episode explores how best to design systems in the home to the benefit of everyone.

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The husband’s responsibilities are huge but not burdensome. They will require constant dependence on Christ, constant reflection on biblical and gospel truth, and a willingness to walk in humility. But what they lead to is freedom, enjoyment, and a life that is protected from the constant pressures of the world. This episode explores the roles of loving, learning and leading.

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Spending time together is important for a strong and growing marriage. It affords a couple the opportunity to communicate well with each other. Quality time spent together helps a couple to express love and affection with undivided attention. When it comes to quality time, it's not about the amount of time you spend together but instead the quality of your interactions that count. And with so much going on in your life, carving out a few minutes for a meaningful and uninterrupted conversation can be a wonderful way to show the person you love that you really care.

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Sacrificial Love is the covenantal commitment to self-sacrifice in small and large ways for the total well-being of your spouse. It is loving your spouse selflessly, unconditionally and without keeping score. It doesn’t matter how your spouse responds. In this episode, Oliphant and Cretia explore practical ways to practice Sacrificial Love.

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A home is a place of relation, enjoyment, and character building. The home is the training ground for children for life and faith, and where they are given a worldview that acknowledges God. Developing a godly home can be very difficult in our day, but with the help and counsel, it is possible. This episode explores ways to develop a godly atmosphere in the home.

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It’s not always easy to keep the peace with your in-laws, but it is possible. Although it can be difficult to find the right balance between “honouring my parents” and “honouring my spouse,” there are some practical ways to make it work. This episode explores some important issues to address so that you can better honour your in-laws.

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This episode explores some important facts to understand about conflict in marriage and effective ways to handle it. Conflict is the common denominator of all human interactions. Conflict is a marital reality where there is disharmony. It emerges when couples compete over perceived or actual goals, values, or interests. It occurs when couples confront each other with opposing actions and counteractions. It is an indicator that something is changing, has changed, or needs to change.

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