Heart + Soul with Ellen Newhouse

Untying the Knot. The Woman that Found in Forgiveness a Reason to Heal


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After 30 years in the corporate world, Brenda's body started sending signals that something wasn't right. She got adrenal fatigue, stress syndrome, and memory loss. It was a wake-up call, and it was also an invitation to look at her story and find out the real reason for her afflictions. She was abandoned at age 3, and her life wouldn't get any better in the forthcoming years. She experienced all kinds of abuse, from physical to sexual, mental, and even spiritual. It seemed that every person in her life was there to abuse her; friends, lovers, husbands, bosses, and above them all, herself. 


She began a personal recovery journey, fighting against several addictions, and most importantly, she needed to stop blaming everyone but her for her suffering. 


Brenda Reiss is a Forgiveness Coach and CEO of Brenda Reiss Coaching. Brenda is the author of two books and the host of the upcoming podcast, Liberate Your Heart. She helps others to be masters of their own lives and move beyond their scars and challenges, no matter how tough they are. Brenda found in forgiveness the ability to assist others in stepping into their own power, let go of their baggage, and move past their most ardent hurdles. 


In this episode, we had a heart-touching conversation about Brenda's journey, her healing process, and her leap of fate towards entrepreneurship. Brenda demystified forgiveness and put some clarity on why most people are reluctant to forgive. We talked about acceptance and forgiveness, the arduous journey of forgiving ourselves, and what happens when we look at life as a mirror. Brenda also shared some powerful exercises to learn to forgive ourselves, and finally, she explained her 5 steps journey to forgiveness. 


Tune in and enjoy Brenda's flawless insights on forgiveness, self-compassion, growth, and love. 


Some Questions I Ask:

  • How did you become the forgiveness coach? (3:05)
  • Do you think that codependency is just another form of addiction that you went from the drinking to the codependency or was all together? (8:36)
  • How does it work to go from acceptance to forgiveness? (11:15)
  • How do we start that journey of forgiving ourselves? (18:29)


In This Episode, You Will Learn:

  • A pinnacle moment for Brenda and her realization of what was wrong in her life (6:27)
  • Brenda demystifies forgiveness (12:30)
  • Some simple exercises to start our forgiveness journey (21:29)
  • Awareness is key. How we can heal the hiding part of ourselves (25:28)
  • Why we keep ourselves trapped in a shame loop (38:21)


Resources:

  • Brenda Reiss website
  • Book: Brenda Reiss - Forgive Yourself
  • Book: Brenda Reiss - Journey to Your Heart Space: A Mandala Coloring Book
  • Book: Caroline Myss - Anatomy of the Spirit: The Seven Stages of Power and Healing


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