Hey you, welcome to episode 1 - Human Unkind. We dive into the wild and wonderful world of human relationships, boundaries, and self-care. I'm your host, Shane, and buckle up because today we're taking a colourful trip inspired by our guest, Candice, and her mind-blowing adventure at Africa Burn.

So, picture this: Africa Burn, a mind-blowing arts and culture fest in the South African desert. Candice went in quite lighthearted… Little did she know that a ‘guru’ would ignite a journey of self-discovery like no other.

At the camp, Candice found herself in a whirlwind of emotions. Despite her genuine efforts to help others, she felt excluded and wondered why she wasn't everyone's cup of tea. Seeking answers, she turned to her buddy Josh, and boy, did he drop some truth bombs.

Josh challenged Candice to question her motivations for helping others. Was it fueled by pure love and overflowing energy, or was it a sneaky way to avoid her own issues? Ouch. Turns out, Candice had been neglecting her own self-care while secretly expecting the world to bow at her feet. Time for a reality check!

Setting boundaries became the name of the game for Candice. But hey, it wasn't as easy as swiping left on a dating app. Josh dished out some practical advice: ditch those unspoken expectations and make clear agreements instead. Smart move, right? By communicating openly and setting boundaries, Candice could finally find her groove and avoid the bitter disappointment of unmet expectations.

Now, here's where things got really interesting. Josh challenged Candice to say "no" to every request for a whole week. Talk about a rollercoaster of emotions! She realised how often she relied on others and how rarely she prioritised her own needs. It was a liberating yet terrifying experiment that shook her world.

But it didn't stop there. Candice discovered a penchant for seeking validation from others, always wondering if they were okay. She traced it back to her childhood trauma and an ever-vigilant mindset. Enough was enough. It was time to break free from those chains.

And break free she did, in an epic shroom ceremony. Amidst the cosmic vibes, Candice heard a child's voice whisper, "Just let me play." It hit her like a ton of confetti-filled balloons. The unkindness she directed towards herself came crashing down, and she unleashed a torrent of emotions she had bottled up for way too long.

From that mind-blowing moment, Candice embraced self-discovery with gusto. She experimented with self-care, faced her fears head-on, and learned to live in the moment. No more crippling anxieties and what-ifs holding her back.

So, hop on this wild ride with us on this episode. We're gonna dive deep into boundaries, expectations, and self-care, all with a playful twist. Get ready to laugh, learn, and unleash your inner circus master. It's gonna be one helluva journey!

Welcome to Unverified Chatter, where life's a circus, but the monkeys aren't ours to worry about. I'm your Podmaster, Shane. Till next time.