Can you imagine blessing those who have caused you deep pain? It's a challenging concept, isn't it? Yet, we found that this is a critical component of healing. We share our personal struggles and the profound impact of blessing our offenders, leading to the experience of God's protection and favor. It's not easy, but it's a step forward that we must dare to take.

But what do you do when healing seems to take forever? When waiting seems endless? We know that feeling, and we're here to tell you - don't lose hope. We discuss the importance of staying active, finding strength in the waiting seasons, and strategies to keep motivated. Learn how to redefine what a good day looks like, and the crucial role of a strong support system. Through it all, remember: don't give up, even when it seems like there's no light at the end of the tunnel. In your lowest season, sow good things, and watch God fulfill his promise of the law of the harvest.

Have you ever wondered how you can turn your pain into purpose, your trials into triumph? This is the question that we want to explore with you. We share our personal experiences of moving from Memphis to Atlanta during a challenging season and how we leaned on God's guidance, especially when making life-altering decisions. We learned that the key lies not in just solving issues, but in managing the tension they bring. This episode is as much about our story as it is about our children's, as we had to balance our own healing with their needs.

Imagine if we told you that seeking professional help in times of trauma is not a sign of weakness, but a step towards healing. That's exactly what we discovered on our journey. Our experience with counseling, particularly with counselors versed in spiritual matters, taught us the role spirituality plays in the healing process. We're here to encourage you to not just 'tough it out', but to seek guidance from professionals and the divine. We share our own experiences to highlight the significance of this approach.

What if forgiveness is more than just a spiritual act? What if it's a path to freedom? Join us as we unravel the transformative power of forgiveness, diving into the concept of 'changing the way we remember' rather than forgetting. We also explore how triggers from the past can be used by God to accelerate healing and how receiving and extending forgiveness can open the door to experiencing God's overwhelming love. With a look at God's healing power and personalized care, this episode ends on a positive note, reminding listeners that in every trial, there's an opportunity for growth and healing.

Imagine the ground crumbling beneath you as you both lose your jobs on the same day. That's what happened to us five years ago. It was a sudden and shocking experience, and we found ourselves in the midst of chaos. Join us as we share how we navigated through that crisis, shouldered the pain, and embraced the power of forgiveness. 

In the end, it was the power of forgiveness and faith that emerged as our life jacket in the sea of uncertainty. We discovered the potent healing power the church can offer and how starting over in a new city can be a fresh start. We realized that even in the worst circumstances, God has a plan. It was our faith and spiritual armor that provided us with the strength to face the storm and rise above it. As we share our story, we hope to encourage those going through similar situations to find their beacon of hope and strength. Remember, no storm lasts forever.

Have you ever wondered how to navigate through life's most challenging moments with grace, compassion, and mercy? How does one journey from a place of brokenness to a place of beauty and restoration? Sharing our own personal experiences, we'll guide you through the transformative journey of starting High Point Church and how we handled the crisis ignited by a viral 20-year-old story.

While we were not the authors of this story, it sparked a crisis that tested our resilience and faith. Our church slogan, "a perfect place for imperfect people," became our guiding principle as we learned to respond to adversity with compassion rather than combativeness. Unearthing the concept of "invite, don't fight," we'll reveal how this philosophy can be applied in various life situations, and reflect on its profound impact on our children.

Finally, we'll share the healing process that began when we acknowledged our part in our circumstances rather than blaming others. Highlighting the importance of journaling to connect the dots, we'll discuss the power of shifting our perception and trusting in God's promise for restoration and hope in the face of adversity. Join us as we reflect on the power of forgiveness, the value of obedience and humility, and the boundless promise of God's restoration.

I invite you to journey with us through the complexities of pain, purpose, and faith. Picture this - you've just lost a role model, and you're grappling with grief and identity. This is a glimpse into my personal journey post the loss of my brother, as I share how turning to God during the grieving process became my beacon.

In this episode, we move from a man-centric theology to a God-centric one, exploring together the beauty of stepping out of our comfort zones and embracing a life of service. 

Ready for a deep dive into Christian life and identity? We discuss the importance of moving from a performance-based faith to recognizing the unconditional love that God holds for us. We explore the profound transformation that comes from trusting and obeying God, serving as an invitation to relate, understand, and truly experience Him. By the end of this episode, you'll discover how faith, peace, and action must be combined to experience God in a meaningful way. So come, let's begin this journey together.

Note: Chris and Karin share a deeply personal story with us with the loss of a brother.  While we do want to be sensitive, our Father says we should never grieve alone. 

We pray through sharing listening today, anyone with devastating loss / triggers, you will be able to hear the Conlee's story of the unexpected loss of his brother, working through the grieving process with his entire family from the age of 8, you will also be able to embrace healing and hope in the face of paralyzing tragedy. 

Today, the Conlees dig into how we can allow God to speak into our defining moments. You’ll also hear about the importance of community and friends; to allow them to love you well during trying times, allow God to love on you through the blessings of family, friendships and gentle loving kindness found in the small actions around you. We pray you leave encouraged to find healing and hope where you are today. 

Welcome to a new conversation about a beautiful story of healing.  

The Conlee’s story is a great example of the truth, God never wastes a wound. 

In this podcast, we will talk about the realities of pain in this life but also how God has gently and mercifully met us in our times of need. Undoubtably, you will hear a story of finding Christ in the crisis. This is a story of Unwasted Pain. 

Join us in this series as we learn to redefine fatherhood not by our earthly fathers but our Heavenly Father. No matter where you are on your journey with problems and pain in life, you will find solutions and peace are possible.