UnYoked: Christian Divorce, Recovery & Life After Divorce

UnYoked: Christian Divorce, Recovery & Life After Divorce

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  • Transforming Pain into Power After a Divorce

    What does grace have to do with divorce? More than most of us want to admit.

    In this Season 1 finale of UnYoked, Todd Turner talks honestly about grace, justice, church pressure, bitterness, forgiveness, and the hard work of learning to give grace after a Christian divorce. This episode is for anyone who has carried anger toward an ex-spouse, felt judged by church culture, struggled with family wounds, or wondered how to move forward without pretending the pain was not real.

    What We Talk About

    The difference between vertical grace from God and horizontal grace toward people.

    Why biblical grace is unmerited favor, not religious performance.

    How grace killers can leave divorced Christians carrying guilt, pressure, and shame.

    Why divorce often leaves people longing for justice, answers, and validation.

    How to give grace to an ex-spouse without excusing sin or restoring an unsafe relationship.

    Why children, extended family, friends, churches, future relationships, and future spouses all need grace in the aftermath of divorce.

    Why Season 1 Matters

    Season 1 was created to walk through the major milestones after divorce with honesty, faith, and practical encouragement. If you are newly separated, recently divorced, years into recovery, or helping someone you love through the pain, this season gives you language for the grief, decisions, questions, loneliness, and hope that often come after a marriage ends.

    Visit and Support UnYoked

    Learn more, listen to episodes, and support the work of UnYoked at https://www.toddturner.com/donate/

    About UnYoked

    UnYoked is a Christian post-divorce podcast and nonprofit helping believers heal, grow, and live with purpose after divorce. Hosted by Todd Turner, UnYoked creates honest, hope-filled conversations for people navigating the pain, process, and possibilities of life after divorce.

    A Final Invitation

    If this episode helped you, share it with someone who needs grace today. Please also rate, review, and subscribe so more people can find these conversations when they need them most.

    To support the UnYoked Podcast and to help others... PLEASE subscribe and rate.. right now. And if this resource is helpful, please tell a friend.

    Support the show

    The UnYoked Podcast Network

    What is the UnYoked Podcast?

    The UnYoked Podcast is a specialized ministry outreach of UnYoked Living, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. We provide raw, honest, and scripturally grounded blueprints for believers navigating the painful debris of an unexpected marriage breakdown. We firmly teach that while your marriage may have been unyoked, your life can remain powerfully yoked to Jesus Christ.

    Who is Todd Turner?

    Your host, Todd Turner, is an author, coach, and transparent voice who speaks directly from lived experience. Rather than recycling secular, bitterness-driven relationship advice, Todd guides brokenhearted Christians with a unique mix of hard-hitting practical wisdom and absolute biblical alignment, showing you how to turn profound trauma into a true redemptive transformation.

    Why Should You Subscribe?

    Healing isn’t a single event; it’s a daily walk. Subscribing to the network ensures you carry a community of truth, prayer, and recovery guidance directly in your pocket. Join thousands of other intentional believers who refuse to let divorce define their future, and instead choose to build a vibrant new baseline anchored fully on God’s word.


    34 min
  • Healing Little Hearts: Navigating Divorce with Your Children

    Embark on a raw and insightful journey with Todd Turner in Episode 8: "Your children are suffering post-divorce," a hard-hitting exploration of the often-overlooked emotional aftermath faced by children of divorce. Discover strategies and heartfelt advice that will empower you to navigate these turbulent times with compassion and wisdom.

    [Disclaimer: "Unyoked" is not a replacement for professional counseling or legal advice. If you or your children need immediate assistance, please seek the support of qualified professionals.]

    - [00:02:00] Crucial Coparenting Tactics for Child Stability Post-Split

    - [00:07:30] The Pillars of Effective Communication with Your Children

    - [00:15:00] The Bitter Truth: Your Divorce-Sparked Hypocrisy and Its Cost to Kids

    - [00:22:45] From Marriage to Single Parenting: Juggling Identity in a Christian Framework

    - [00:28:20] Real-world Scenarios: The Single Parent Dilemma and Dating While Divorced

    - [00:39:55] Prioritizing Self-Care While Supporting Your Child Through Their Grief Odyssey

    - [00:52:10] Complex Blended Families: Charting the Path Through Love and Assurance

    - [01:00:00] Todd Turner’s Personal Take on Daddyhood Under Duress

    To support the UnYoked Podcast and to help others... PLEASE subscribe and rate.. right now. And if this resource is helpful, please tell a friend.

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    The UnYoked Podcast Network

    What is the UnYoked Podcast?

    The UnYoked Podcast is a specialized ministry outreach of UnYoked Living, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. We provide raw, honest, and scripturally grounded blueprints for believers navigating the painful debris of an unexpected marriage breakdown. We firmly teach that while your marriage may have been unyoked, your life can remain powerfully yoked to Jesus Christ.

    Who is Todd Turner?

    Your host, Todd Turner, is an author, coach, and transparent voice who speaks directly from lived experience. Rather than recycling secular, bitterness-driven relationship advice, Todd guides brokenhearted Christians with a unique mix of hard-hitting practical wisdom and absolute biblical alignment, showing you how to turn profound trauma into a true redemptive transformation.

    Why Should You Subscribe?

    Healing isn’t a single event; it’s a daily walk. Subscribing to the network ensures you carry a community of truth, prayer, and recovery guidance directly in your pocket. Join thousands of other intentional believers who refuse to let divorce define their future, and instead choose to build a vibrant new baseline anchored fully on God’s word.


    49 min
  • Co-Parenting After Divorce: Biblical Principles for a Healthy Relationship

    SECTION 2: BUZZSPROUT READY

    Description:

    HOOK: Transitioning to a single-parent domestic layout forces an immediate, sharp rewrite of your family strategy. When your daily habits split into two separate homes, navigating conflicting parenting styles, financial strain, and logistics can feel like climbing an impossible hill.

    OVERVIEW: In this episode, we address the harsh realities of co-parenting after a faith-based divorce. We move beyond the legal paperwork to discuss the emotional and spiritual friction of joint custody: managing anxiety during stressful handoffs, handling the "dumpster fire" of an uncooperative ex-partner, and the immense pressure of raising kingdom-minded children under two different roofs. We explore why your parenting patterns often splinter and how to stop treating your children like messengers in a battlefield.

    IN THIS EPISODE:

    • The Handoff Architecture: How to minimize transition anxiety for young children.
    • The Corporate Tone: Professionalizing communication to reduce conflict.
    • Structural Duplication: Eliminating suitcase trauma by keeping essentials in both homes.
    • Gossip Guardrails: Setting boundaries to protect your child's emotional heart.
    • Financial Justice: Why proactively stepping up is about your child's future, not the decree.

    REASONS TO LISTEN TO SEASON 1: Season 1 of the UnYoked podcast serves as your tactical and spiritual roadmap for the most volatile milestones of divorce. We don't offer empty platitudes or sterile theology; we provide emotional triage for believers who are currently in the thick of a crisis. Whether you are navigating broken trust, social isolation, or the logistical nightmare of shared custody, this season offers the scriptural grounding and practical wisdom needed to maintain your integrity and rebuild your life from the ground up.

    WEBSITE & SUPPORT: Visit our official hub for coaching resources, educational courses, and tools for recovery: https://www.toddturner.com/ Support the ministry and help us reach more families navigating the pain of divorce: https://www.toddturner.com/donate/

    ABOUT THE UNYOKED PODCAST: Divorce is often framed as the end of the road. We believe it can be the start of a rebirth. UnYoked exists to help Christians move from the crisis of divorce toward biblical healing, spiritual growth, and a life fully yoked to Christ.


    To support the UnYoked Podcast and to help others... PLEASE subscribe and rate.. right now. And if this resource is helpful, please tell a friend.

    Support the show

    The UnYoked Podcast Network

    What is the UnYoked Podcast?

    The UnYoked Podcast is a specialized ministry outreach of UnYoked Living, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. We provide raw, honest, and scripturally grounded blueprints for believers navigating the painful debris of an unexpected marriage breakdown. We firmly teach that while your marriage may have been unyoked, your life can remain powerfully yoked to Jesus Christ.

    Who is Todd Turner?

    Your host, Todd Turner, is an author, coach, and transparent voice who speaks directly from lived experience. Rather than recycling secular, bitterness-driven relationship advice, Todd guides brokenhearted Christians with a unique mix of hard-hitting practical wisdom and absolute biblical alignment, showing you how to turn profound trauma into a true redemptive transformation.

    Why Should You Subscribe?

    Healing isn’t a single event; it’s a daily walk. Subscribing to the network ensures you carry a community of truth, prayer, and recovery guidance directly in your pocket. Join thousands of other intentional believers who refuse to let divorce define their future, and instead choose to build a vibrant new baseline anchored fully on God’s word.


    33 min
  • Is Your Church Handling Divorce Wrong?

    The seismic shift of a Christian divorce ripples far past the core household, tearing through established social fabrics and friend groups with brutal precision. When your marriage dies, you don't just lose a spouse—you lose the shared couple dynamics, structural community roots, and long-term friends who quietly retreat.

    IN THIS EPISODE: In this session, Todd Turner addresses the unspoken grief of friend group attrition and delivers a proactive playbook for rebuilding community. We unpack:

    • The casualty of logistics: Why sudden changes in your daily routine break your social connections.
    • The fear factor: Why married friends retreat due to their own insecurity or fear of the unknown.
    • The odd man out: Why men struggle to re-tribe and why women naturally process hardship better.
    • Avoiding the singles group trap: Why dating where you worship introduces unnecessary friction.
    • The Coed Friend Playbook: How to build a healthy, intentional support ecosystem from the ground up.

    RESOURCES & LINKS: UnYoked Podcast Website: https://www.toddturner.com/podcasts/unyoked/  

    ABOUT THE UNYOKED PODCAST: Divorce is often framed as the end of the road. We believe it can be the start of a rebirth. UnYoked exists to help Christians move from the crisis of divorce toward biblical healing, spiritual growth, and a life fully yoked to Christ.


    To support the UnYoked Podcast and to help others... PLEASE subscribe and rate.. right now. And if this resource is helpful, please tell a friend.

    Support the show

    The UnYoked Podcast Network

    What is the UnYoked Podcast?

    The UnYoked Podcast is a specialized ministry outreach of UnYoked Living, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. We provide raw, honest, and scripturally grounded blueprints for believers navigating the painful debris of an unexpected marriage breakdown. We firmly teach that while your marriage may have been unyoked, your life can remain powerfully yoked to Jesus Christ.

    Who is Todd Turner?

    Your host, Todd Turner, is an author, coach, and transparent voice who speaks directly from lived experience. Rather than recycling secular, bitterness-driven relationship advice, Todd guides brokenhearted Christians with a unique mix of hard-hitting practical wisdom and absolute biblical alignment, showing you how to turn profound trauma into a true redemptive transformation.

    Why Should You Subscribe?

    Healing isn’t a single event; it’s a daily walk. Subscribing to the network ensures you carry a community of truth, prayer, and recovery guidance directly in your pocket. Join thousands of other intentional believers who refuse to let divorce define their future, and instead choose to build a vibrant new baseline anchored fully on God’s word.


    40 min
  • When Your Church Family Turns Away: A Candid Look at Divorce

    The seismic shift of a Christian divorce ripples far past the core household, tearing through established social fabrics and friend groups with brutal precision. When your marriage dies, you don't just lose a spouse—you lose the shared couple dynamics, structural community roots, and long-term friends who quietly retreat.

    IN THIS EPISODE: In this session, Todd Turner addresses the unspoken grief of friend group attrition and delivers a proactive playbook for rebuilding community. We unpack:

    • The casualty of logistics: Why sudden changes in your daily routine break your social connections.
    • The fear factor: Why married friends retreat due to their own insecurity or fear of the unknown.
    • The odd man out: Why men struggle to re-tribe and why women naturally process hardship better.
    • Avoiding the singles group trap: Why dating where you worship introduces unnecessary friction.
    • The Coed Friend Playbook: How to build a healthy, intentional support ecosystem from the ground up.

    To support the UnYoked Podcast and to help others... PLEASE subscribe and rate.. right now. And if this resource is helpful, please tell a friend.

    Support the show

    The UnYoked Podcast Network

    What is the UnYoked Podcast?

    The UnYoked Podcast is a specialized ministry outreach of UnYoked Living, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. We provide raw, honest, and scripturally grounded blueprints for believers navigating the painful debris of an unexpected marriage breakdown. We firmly teach that while your marriage may have been unyoked, your life can remain powerfully yoked to Jesus Christ.

    Who is Todd Turner?

    Your host, Todd Turner, is an author, coach, and transparent voice who speaks directly from lived experience. Rather than recycling secular, bitterness-driven relationship advice, Todd guides brokenhearted Christians with a unique mix of hard-hitting practical wisdom and absolute biblical alignment, showing you how to turn profound trauma into a true redemptive transformation.

    Why Should You Subscribe?

    Healing isn’t a single event; it’s a daily walk. Subscribing to the network ensures you carry a community of truth, prayer, and recovery guidance directly in your pocket. Join thousands of other intentional believers who refuse to let divorce define their future, and instead choose to build a vibrant new baseline anchored fully on God’s word.


    45 min
  • Finding Faithful Friends: Navigating Friendships After Divorce

    The seismic shift of a Christian divorce ripples far past the core household, tearing through established social fabrics and friend groups with brutal precision. When your marriage dies, you don't just lose a spouse—you lose the shared couple dynamics, structural community roots, and long-term friends who quietly retreat.

    IN THIS EPISODE: In this session, Todd Turner addresses the unspoken grief of friend group attrition and delivers a proactive playbook for rebuilding community. We unpack:

    • The casualty of logistics: Why sudden changes in your daily routine break your social connections.
    • The fear factor: Why married friends retreat due to their own insecurity or fear of the unknown.
    • The odd man out: Why men struggle to re-tribe and why women naturally process hardship better.
    • Avoiding the singles group trap: Why dating where you worship introduces unnecessary friction.
    • The Coed Friend Playbook: How to build a healthy, intentional support ecosystem from the ground up.

    RESOURCES & LINKS: UnYoked Podcast Website: https://www.toddturner.com/podcasts/unyoked/  

    ABOUT THE UNYOKED PODCAST: Divorce is often framed as the end of the road. We believe it can be the start of a rebirth. UnYoked exists to help Christians move from the crisis of divorce toward biblical healing, spiritual growth, and a life fully yoked to Christ.

    SUBSCRIBE & RATE: If this episode spoke to you, please subscribe on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave a 5-star rating. Your support helps us reach more believers who need to hear that there is hope for healing after the pain of marital dissolution.

    To support the UnYoked Podcast and to help others... PLEASE subscribe and rate.. right now. And if this resource is helpful, please tell a friend.

    Support the show

    The UnYoked Podcast Network

    What is the UnYoked Podcast?

    The UnYoked Podcast is a specialized ministry outreach of UnYoked Living, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. We provide raw, honest, and scripturally grounded blueprints for believers navigating the painful debris of an unexpected marriage breakdown. We firmly teach that while your marriage may have been unyoked, your life can remain powerfully yoked to Jesus Christ.

    Who is Todd Turner?

    Your host, Todd Turner, is an author, coach, and transparent voice who speaks directly from lived experience. Rather than recycling secular, bitterness-driven relationship advice, Todd guides brokenhearted Christians with a unique mix of hard-hitting practical wisdom and absolute biblical alignment, showing you how to turn profound trauma into a true redemptive transformation.

    Why Should You Subscribe?

    Healing isn’t a single event; it’s a daily walk. Subscribing to the network ensures you carry a community of truth, prayer, and recovery guidance directly in your pocket. Join thousands of other intentional believers who refuse to let divorce define their future, and instead choose to build a vibrant new baseline anchored fully on God’s word.


    35 min
  • Finding Peace When Your Marriage Ends: A Christian Perspective

    Join host Todd Turner and guest Carrie Korem Vitt for a forthright and personal look into the complexities of navigating life after divorce in Season 2, Episode 2 of the UnYoked Podcast. Dive into the heart of trauma, healing, and moving forward as we explore the often-misunderstood journey through the lens of faith, forgiveness, and self-discovery. 

    - The emotional impact of divorce on individuals and their children, and the importance of maintaining a respectful relationship with an ex-spouse for the sake of the kids.

    - Strategies for personal healing and growth post-divorce, including the significance of self-reflection and avoiding hasty decisions such as jumping into a new relationship.

    - The role of faith and forgiveness in the healing process, with a Christ-centered approach to moving forward and healing from past hurts.

    - The pitfalls of receiving and acting upon well-intended but potentially harmful advice during the vulnerable time post-divorce.

    - Insights on the social challenges and lack of support some divorcees face from their church communities, and practical steps towards finding peace and restoration.

    Why rushing to fix a spiritual fracture with a physical connection will stall your restoration.

    The danger of the dating app illusion and why window shopping is a high-stakes time-waster.

    The loneliness deficit and why men struggle to tribe compared to women.

    Navigating the urge to purge and why you should wait to make permanent decisions.

    How to stay absolutely available and consistent for your kids during their world-shifting transition.

    ABOUT THE UNYOKED PODCAST: Divorce is often framed as the end of the road. We believe it can be the start of a rebirth. UnYoked exists to help Christians move from the crisis of divorce toward biblical healing, spiritual growth, and a life fully yoked to Christ.

    SUBSCRIBE & RATE: If this episode spoke to you, please subscribe on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave a 5-star rating. Your support helps us reach more believers who need to hear that there is hope for healing after the pain of marital dissolution.

    To support the UnYoked Podcast and to help others... PLEASE subscribe and rate.. right now. And if this resource is helpful, please tell a friend.

    Support the show

    The UnYoked Podcast Network

    What is the UnYoked Podcast?

    The UnYoked Podcast is a specialized ministry outreach of UnYoked Living, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. We provide raw, honest, and scripturally grounded blueprints for believers navigating the painful debris of an unexpected marriage breakdown. We firmly teach that while your marriage may have been unyoked, your life can remain powerfully yoked to Jesus Christ.

    Who is Todd Turner?

    Your host, Todd Turner, is an author, coach, and transparent voice who speaks directly from lived experience. Rather than recycling secular, bitterness-driven relationship advice, Todd guides brokenhearted Christians with a unique mix of hard-hitting practical wisdom and absolute biblical alignment, showing you how to turn profound trauma into a true redemptive transformation.

    Why Should You Subscribe?

    Healing isn’t a single event; it’s a daily walk. Subscribing to the network ensures you carry a community of truth, prayer, and recovery guidance directly in your pocket. Join thousands of other intentional believers who refuse to let divorce define their future, and instead choose to build a vibrant new baseline anchored fully on God’s word.


    57 min
  • Don't Make These Divorce Mistakes! The First 90 Days

    You just took the courageous step of filing for divorce! Whether you've already finalized the paperwork and are eager to embrace your new life or find yourself caught in the complexities of separating two intertwined lives, this episode of "UnYoked" is tailored specifically for you.

    Dive into the emotions, challenges, and opportunities of post-divorce life with Todd Turner on the Unyoked Podcast. Learn from his experience and gain insights on what not to do during the critical 90-day period after divorce.

    Divorce Next Steps Resource:
    https://www.toddturner.com/unyoked-christian-divorce-decisions/

    Join us as we explore the crucial period of the first 90 days after filing for divorce and provide valuable advice for Christians navigating this transitional phase. We understand that divorce proceedings can sometimes take longer than anticipated, especially when considerations such as finances or children come into play. But rest assured, we are here to offer sound guidance during this critical time.

    In this episode, we delve into practical advice, emotional support, and essential considerations that can help you navigate the initial phase of divorce with confidence. Whether you're dealing with finalizing legal matters or addressing the emotional aftermath, we've got you covered.

    Our expert guests share valuable insights and strategies to ensure your well-being during this transitional period. We discuss financial considerations, providing guidance on budgeting, asset division, and rebuilding your financial foundation. Additionally, we explore co-parenting strategies to help you establish a healthy and supportive environment for your children.

    As Christians, we understand the unique challenges faced during divorce. We provide faith-based perspectives on forgiveness, healing, and finding renewed purpose in this new chapter of your life. Our aim is to support you in embracing your journey of self-discovery, personal growth, and healing from the pain.

    Join us as we provide practical tips, expert advice, and a roadmap to help you navigate the first 90 days after filing for divorce. Let us walk alongside you during this transformative phase, empowering you to emerge stronger and ready to embrace new opportunities.

    Tune in to this episode of "UnYoked" for essential guidance and support as you embark on the next chapter of your life after divorce.

    Keywords: Christian divorce, first 90 days after divorce, filing for divorce, transitional phase, legal matters, financial considerations, emotional support, co-parenting, forgiveness, healing, self-discovery, personal growth, new opportunities.

    To support the UnYoked Podcast and to help others... PLEASE subscribe and rate.. right now. And if this resource is helpful, please tell a friend.

    Support the show

    The UnYoked Podcast Network

    What is the UnYoked Podcast?

    The UnYoked Podcast is a specialized ministry outreach of UnYoked Living, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. We provide raw, honest, and scripturally grounded blueprints for believers navigating the painful debris of an unexpected marriage breakdown. We firmly teach that while your marriage may have been unyoked, your life can remain powerfully yoked to Jesus Christ.

    Who is Todd Turner?

    Your host, Todd Turner, is an author, coach, and transparent voice who speaks directly from lived experience. Rather than recycling secular, bitterness-driven relationship advice, Todd guides brokenhearted Christians with a unique mix of hard-hitting practical wisdom and absolute biblical alignment, showing you how to turn profound trauma into a true redemptive transformation.

    Why Should You Subscribe?

    Healing isn’t a single event; it’s a daily walk. Subscribing to the network ensures you carry a community of truth, prayer, and recovery guidance directly in your pocket. Join thousands of other intentional believers who refuse to let divorce define their future, and instead choose to build a vibrant new baseline anchored fully on God’s word.


    22 min
  • Sex as Currency: Unhealthy Power Struggles

    “Sex as currency” might grab your attention… but that’s not really where this conversation stays.

    In this episode, Todd Turner sits down with Dr. Brooke Jones of Stronger Women and quickly moves beyond surface-level dating talk into something deeper—trauma, abuse, identity, and the patterns that quietly shape relationships.

    What starts as a conversation about sex in modern dating turns into a powerful look at how people—especially those coming out of abuse or broken homes—learn to use what they have to survive, feel loved, or regain control. 

    This isn’t about judgment.
     It’s about understanding the “why” behind behavior—and what it actually takes to heal.

    🔍 What you’ll hear in this episode:

    •  Why “sex as currency” often starts as a survival response, not manipulation 
    •  How abuse (emotional, physical, spiritual) shapes relationship patterns 
    •  Why people stay in or return to unhealthy relationships 
    •  The “aha moment” that finally leads to change 
    •  Why healthy relationships can feel boring after chaos 
    •  How dopamine, trauma, and attention-seeking behaviors are connected 
    •  The truth about boundaries—and why people struggle to set them 
    •  Why communication is one of the most important relationship skills 
    •  The role of identity, healing, and taking ownership after divorce or trauma

    Call to Action:

    If this episode hit home, take a step forward.

    Learn more about Dr. Brooke Jones and her work helping women heal and rebuild at:
     👉 strongerwomen.com

    And don’t forget to subscribe to the UnYoked Podcast for more real conversations about faith, relationships, and rebuilding your life the right way.

    To support the UnYoked Podcast and to help others... PLEASE subscribe and rate.. right now. And if this resource is helpful, please tell a friend.

    Support the show

    The UnYoked Podcast Network

    What is the UnYoked Podcast?

    The UnYoked Podcast is a specialized ministry outreach of UnYoked Living, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. We provide raw, honest, and scripturally grounded blueprints for believers navigating the painful debris of an unexpected marriage breakdown. We firmly teach that while your marriage may have been unyoked, your life can remain powerfully yoked to Jesus Christ.

    Who is Todd Turner?

    Your host, Todd Turner, is an author, coach, and transparent voice who speaks directly from lived experience. Rather than recycling secular, bitterness-driven relationship advice, Todd guides brokenhearted Christians with a unique mix of hard-hitting practical wisdom and absolute biblical alignment, showing you how to turn profound trauma into a true redemptive transformation.

    Why Should You Subscribe?

    Healing isn’t a single event; it’s a daily walk. Subscribing to the network ensures you carry a community of truth, prayer, and recovery guidance directly in your pocket. Join thousands of other intentional believers who refuse to let divorce define their future, and instead choose to build a vibrant new baseline anchored fully on God’s word.


    1 hr 7 min
  • Why Smart People Stay in Toxic Relationships (And How to Break Free)

    Most people don’t think they’re in a toxic relationship… until it’s too late.

    In this episode, Todd sits down with Dr. Brooke Jones to unpack what really defines a toxic or abusive relationship—and why even smart, self-aware people end up stuck in them.

    Resource Mentioned:

    https://youtu.be/dNvt_zSiIkg?si=4d3ZYPqn1ZXwSYL7

    This isn’t just about obvious abuse. It’s about the subtle patterns:

    •  Love bombing that feels like “real love” 
    •  Control disguised as care 
    •  Walking on eggshells and calling it normal 
    •  The cycle of staying, hoping, and repeating 

    You’ll learn how to:

    •  Spot the difference between dysfunction and abuse 
    •  Recognize manipulation, control, and narcissistic behavior 
    •  Evaluate your current relationship honestly 
    •  Know when it’s time to leave—and how to do it safely 
    •  Break the cycle so you don’t repeat the same mistakes 

    If you’ve ever ignored your gut, justified bad behavior, or found yourself in the same kind of relationship more than once… this episode is for you.

    👉 Resources mentioned:

    •  Power & Control Wheel (domestic violence tool) 
    •  StrongerWomen.com for support and guidance 

    Dr. Brooke Jones is the founder and CEO of Stronger Women, where she helps survivors of domestic violence rebuild their lives with strength, clarity, and faith. With years of hands-on experience working with women in crisis, she specializes in identifying abusive patterns, guiding emotional healing, and equipping women to move forward safely and confidently. 


    To support the UnYoked Podcast and to help others... PLEASE subscribe and rate.. right now. And if this resource is helpful, please tell a friend.

    Support the show

    The UnYoked Podcast Network

    What is the UnYoked Podcast?

    The UnYoked Podcast is a specialized ministry outreach of UnYoked Living, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. We provide raw, honest, and scripturally grounded blueprints for believers navigating the painful debris of an unexpected marriage breakdown. We firmly teach that while your marriage may have been unyoked, your life can remain powerfully yoked to Jesus Christ.

    Who is Todd Turner?

    Your host, Todd Turner, is an author, coach, and transparent voice who speaks directly from lived experience. Rather than recycling secular, bitterness-driven relationship advice, Todd guides brokenhearted Christians with a unique mix of hard-hitting practical wisdom and absolute biblical alignment, showing you how to turn profound trauma into a true redemptive transformation.

    Why Should You Subscribe?

    Healing isn’t a single event; it’s a daily walk. Subscribing to the network ensures you carry a community of truth, prayer, and recovery guidance directly in your pocket. Join thousands of other intentional believers who refuse to let divorce define their future, and instead choose to build a vibrant new baseline anchored fully on God’s word.


    1 hr 4 min

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