In today's episode, Loraine continues to share her personal story of emotional abuse and manipulation she experienced after the sudden end of a long-term relationship. She describes how her ex-partner's behavior escalated from offering a financial settlement to verbal aggression and control tactics. Loraine delves into the emotional turmoil, feelings of powerlessness, and thoughts of suicide that arose from the manipulation and abuse she endured. Through AI-powered tools, she seeks validation for her experiences and highlights the importance of recognizing emotional abuse red flags. 

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Emotional abuse validation through AI-powered tools can empower victims of emotional abuse by providing validation of their experiences.

• Seeking legal advice and support is crucial for victims of emotional abuse to protect their rights and well-being.

• The impact of emotional abuse, manipulation, and coercion from an ex-partner can deeply undermine a person's self-esteem and self-worth.

• Recognizing the signs of emotional abuse and understanding one's worth is essential for rebuilding life in a healthier and more empowering way.

• Post-separation abuse, betrayal, and abandonment can have long-lasting effects on survivors, highlighting the importance of raising awareness about hidden forms of abuse.

BEST MOMENTS

"He had offered me a 50% share in the value of the property. And when I'd first read his letter, I sent it back immediately because I was feeling very hurt, and I needed time to think."

"The sudden termination of a long-term relationship alongside the revelation of betrayal can shatter her heart. She might feel like her world has been turned upside down, mourning the loss of the relationship and broken trust." 

"The woman's request to record the face-to-face meeting demonstrates her awareness of the potential for manipulation and verbal aggression from her ex-partner."

"When seeking legal advice, do not be fobbed off by professionals who are unable to offer validation and or legal representation."

"The reality is that many people do not understand the impact of this type of emotional and psychological abuse. The survivor will be triggered by those who cannot comprehend the distressing situation."

HOST BIO

Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.
A former Property Management business owner spent a  decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 

Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 

Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner.

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