Alot of times people talk about couples using sex as a weapon.  Many of those times, it's directed at women.  However, no one talks about why it's used as a weapon.

"Husbands, why is your wife happy to stay without sex, for the period she is making you wait?  You may not want to hear this, but she is probably not getting half of the satisfaction you are getting from the act of sex.

There! I’ve said it! Sorry ladies, but someone needs to let these men know that they are not quite hitting the mark.  This is not to bruise your ego in anyway brothers.  Let’s talk this out.  If this is something your wife really enjoys, and she is not meeting her needs in unholy ways, then why will she be punishing herself as well as you?"  - Taken from dishusbandmata.com

Follow along with us as we take a look at what Keisha, author of Dishusbandmata, explains regarding why women use sex as a weapon (or so you say).


If we take the time to dig and eat humble pie (as the author of this blog says), perhaps we can have happy, satisfied experiences in our lovemaking.

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