Today we’re talking about Highly Sensitive People, or HSPs, and how being highly sensitive relates to being vegan and an activist. We talk about what an HSP is, how to tell if you are one, how to take pride in being an HSP, and lots of self-care tips for the highly sensitive among us.
In This Episode
What is HSP?
A “highly sensitive person” is a phrase coined in the 1990s by psychologists Elaine and Arthur Aron, and it is someone with sensory-processing sensitivity. It is an innate trait that has evolved in 15-20% of the human population, and is present in over 100 species of animals, including fruit flies, cats, dogs, horses, birds and fish. It is a survival trait that allows this segment of population to take in more stimuli and process it more thoroughly than others do. Think of a herd of prey animals, say like deer or antelope. The few that raise their heads and start running first, or sound the alarm, before the others are aware there is a threat are the highly sensitive ones. This has an obvious survival advantage in groups, but would not be useful for the entire population to have. It is NOT a condition, disease, or disadvantage. It’s a neutral trait
Because we are hardwired to take in more stimuli, HSPs are easily overstimulated and overwhelmed, particularly by being in a world that caters to the 80-85% of non-HSP people, a world that favors big bold personalities, loud music, strong smells, and large crowds.
Because HSPs process such subtlety and nuance, they experience the actual emotions of the person they are talking to or the movie they are watching, causing them to be seen as overly emotional or “too sensitive” to many. They also tend to take things personally, and can be seen as emotionally overr-eactive, or overanalyzers, or too defensive. It usually takes them a long time to make decisions because they are processing information and considering all angles
Fun fact: ALL creative people, including all famous artists, musicians, etc., are highly sensitive, although not all HSPs are creative.
Some HSPs, up to 30%, are extroverts and/or sensation seekers. Just like being an introvert, which most HSPs are, being an HSP does not necessarily mean that you are shy, isolated or quiet.
In the U.S. where extrovert is king, being an HSP is highly undervalued, particularly in cisgender men, which causes a lot of HSPs in the U.S. to have low self-esteem. I read somewhere that I couldn’t seem to find a link to that a lot of Asian countries have a higher percentage of HSPs, up to 30%. Some cultures, like in Thailand, for instance, respect sensitivity in people and actually choose leaders for their sensitive traits. So being sensitive is not a universally discriminated trait.
Resources:
* The Highly Sensitive Person (HSPerson)
* Are You Too Sensitive? (WebMD)
* Sensory-Processing Disorder vs Sensory-Processing Sensitivity (HSPerson)
Signs you are HSP
– Easily overwhelmed by strong sensory input
– Aware of subtleties in your environment and appreciate delicate or fine things
– Other people’s moods affect you
– Sensitive to pain and resistant to pain killers
– Sensitive to caffeine or other stimulants
– On busy days, you may seek a dark, quiet room to be away from stimulation and alone
– You are deeply moved by arts or music
– You have a rich, complex inner life
– You may get rattled by having a lot to do in a short amount of time
– You are conscientious and always conscious of the comfort of others, polite/considerate