Read John 13:34-35
1) The first four questions we have studied: 'Am I being honest with myself...really?, 'What kind of story do I want my life to tell?', 'Is there a TENSION that needs my ATTENTION?' as we make decisions, and asking 'What is the wise thing to do?', are basically focused on ourselves. But today’s question, what does love require of me, is focused on others. Is this shift significant and if so, why?
2) When considering the question, 'what does love require of me?', there are three necessary components for it to be effective in your decision making process. You must ask, answer, and then act upon the question. Which of these three do you find the most challenging to integrate this question into your life?
3) In 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, Paul gives us specific examples of what love requires of us. Read the passage and consider which of these attributes you would find to be the least demanding and the most challenging. Give examples.
4) In our passage, Jesus says “...as I have you, so you must love one another.” Jesus means for us to extend the same grace, love, mercy, and forgiveness that he gives to us. If you follow Jesus’ command, what difference might you see in your relationships as a spouse, a sibling, a parent, a boss, a coach, or any relationship in your life?
5) Jesus goes on to say: “By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” This statement means love is now a verb, an identifier, and a game changer. What does that mean to you in your own faith journey?