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"I mean, you know, growing up I think I saw, I saw my dad do that quite often, right. I think when I started to think back, you know, where did I learn this from? I mean, I've noticed that my father was overly giving and he didn't really set boundaries. So it was like a constant giving and always being kind and everything. But sometimes even being kind doesn't mean we gotta constantly do things just to please others."