Vicarious

00:00 - 4:28 "Wingmum"

4:28 - 6:35 Who is Emma Chapman?

6:35 - 10:35 Being a boss bitch and challenging the norm

10:35 - 13:48 Dating app profiles - do’s and donts

13:48 - 17:28 Dating at 20 vs 30

17:28 - 22:30 Emma’s non-negotiable’s in a guy

22:30 - 26:24 Red flags

26:24 - 34:35 Does a high body count matter

34:25 - 37:30 Can girls have emotionless sex?

37:30 - 42:11 Mean reversion in human behaviour

42:11 -  45:23 Looking for lifestyle compatibility and optimal age range

45:23 - 52:39 Emma’s most recent date and different date ideas

52:39 -  55:34 Best way to start a conversation on dating apps

55:34 - 57:21 Aussie dudes need to up their game

57:21 - 1:01:22 FIFO Relationships

1:01:22 - 1:04:57 Is it ok for your boyfriend to watch porn?

1:04:57 - 1:08:25 The Female Org*sm

1:08:25 -  1:12:16 Being a “bad texter” doesn’t fly anymore

1:12:16 - 1:12:43 Outro

00:00:00 - 00:00:45 Daniel's step goals

00:00:45 - 00:01:47 Charlie reflects on being back hoome

00:01:47 - 00:03:58 Our last night together

00:03:58 - 00:07:44 Don't brag about money in hostels

00:07:44 - 00:08:53 Our current situation

00:08:53 - 00:13:11 The power of Snuz and girls cucking their BF's

00:13:11 - 00:15:11 Would her man be cool with this?

00:15:11 - 00:22:13 Would you let your girl backpack SEA solo?

00:22:13 - 00:26:13 Couples on holiday

00:26:13 - 00:31:42 That one person from your past...

00:31:42 - 00:35:36 Last time we cried

00:35:36 - 00:39:21 Is it harder to be the "break-er" or "break-ee"

00:39:21 - 00:43:20 Be careful what you wish for cos you just might get it

00:43:20 - 00:46:44 Success is enjoying the process

00:46:44 - 00:48:49 Don't be a bitch to your lifestyle

00:48:49 - 00:51:17 Last few "youthful" years?

00:51:17 - 00:54:26 Making fun sustainable

00:54:26 - 00:57:04 What age would we relive forever

00:57:04 - 1:00:14 Upcoming plans and Vietnam

In this episode the boys share crazy stories, go into deeper topics such as how they would handle a terminal diagnosis, power dynamics in relationships, dating home vs while traveling and more!

Time stamps below

00:00 A horrific story

03:04 Why do we need to drink so much?

04:50 Hostel aggression

07:25 Daniel's "yips"

08:30 How we would handle a terminal diagnosis

11:17 Mindset shifts from near death experience

15:40 Changing your life situation

16:30 Feeling invincible in relationships

22:05 Reverse F*ck boy

26:22 Tips for Bali

31:47 Can guys and girls just be friends?

35:10 Does being offended make you correct?

43:20 Ideal 1st date

49:15 Gay men hitting on us

51:15 What to do in Ubud

00:00 - 00:52 Intro

00:53 - 06:13 Dealing with footpath hoggers

06:14 - 11:41 Full review of Gili T

11:42 - 14:46 Daniel's house guest is a dominatrix?

14:47 - 17:12 Girls bragging about pulling more than guys

17:13 - 19:52 The power of "No"

19:53 - 21:29 Being the oldest in the hostel

21:30 - 22:40 Stop using age as an excuse to be boring

22:41 - 24:25 "Would you rather die in a plane or a boat?"

24:26 - 29:47 How to handle rejection as a guy

29:48 - 35:32 Common misconceptions of working and living remotely

35:33 - 44:17 Easiest way to find a remote job

44:18 - 46:36 How much you have to make to live in SEA

46:37 - 48:48 Best countries to start with when solo travelling

48:49 - 51:08 Your value goes up when you're off the market

51:09 - 53:59 Ask these questions to spark interesting conversations

54:00 - 56:57 The age guessing game needs to go

With Charlie spending some quality family time back home in Perth, Gabby Simmons is welcomed back to the show as co-host. Daniel and Gabby discuss whether or not friends with benefits ever actually works, how to cure erectile dysfunction, how dating apps are ruining modern dating, and Gabby gives us 5 ways guys can improve their performance in the sack. Gentlemen, have a pen and paper ready, school is in session.

Chapters

00:00-02:21 Introduction

02:21-10:46 Gabby reflects on returning home to the US

10:47-12:58 Moving to Sri Lanka

12:59-15:30 Gabby's 'sort of' love triangle

15:31-17:55 Gabby and Daniel cockblocking each other

17:56-19:32 Can friends with benefits ever actually work

19:33-24:45 Gabby's take on open relationships

24:46-30:38 Emotional attachment, one night stands and erectile dysfunction

30:39-33:42 Dating apps ruining modern dating

33:43-40:30 Gabby's dilemma

40:31-49:46 5 things guys can do to be better in bed

Episode 5 the boys reflect on their year and discuss the humorous and controversial topics relating to their professional and dating lives.

Topics include open relationships, young men and PEDs, how to handle a long term partner "letting themselves go", most ridiculous reasons a girlfriend has ever started an argument, how to navigate a romance overseas and how we know as men when we feel serious about a woman.

In episode 4 the boys sit down with Mia Bowyer, an Australian entrepreneur living in Ubud, Bali. Mia has an amazing story, going from working a corporate job in Sydney for Microsoft to running a non-profit organisation in Bangalore, India. Among the topics discussed are the challenges of entrepreneurship, how Mia got involved in social impact marketing, riding a bicycle from Athens to Albania, and overcoming past trauma to being the best version of yourself.

Time Stamps

00:00 - 1:15 Intro

1:15 - 7:09 First Night in Gili

7:09 - 12:51 Recapping Day 2 in Gili

12:51 - 16:00 Advice on taking mushrooms for the first time

16:00 - 16:58 Recapping Day 3 in Gili

16:58 - 22:04 Daniel Ranks His Favourite Hostels

22:04 - 24:51 Hot Girl Names

24:51 - 31:29 Pro’s of Living in Bali

31:29 - 34:22 Con’s of Living in Bali

34:22 - 37:35 Guy Math

37:35 - 42:25 Emotional Cheating

42:25 - 43:29 Inertia in Relatioships

43:29 - 49:47 What We’ve Learned From Our Past Relationships

49:47 - 57:28 A Philosophical Finish

57:28 - 58:31 Outro

In Episode 2, the boys are joined by Gabby Simmons to offer a female perspective. The episode starts off with Gabby and Daniel shedding some light on how they met and their unique relationship. They then cover travel romances and the difficulties navigating a fling while on holiday with Daniel, Charlie and Gabby sharing their personal experience in this area. Other topics covered include boundaries in relationships, first date preparation for men vs women, bill etiquette, Gabby 3-2-1 favourite nationalities in men and the episode finishes with Gabby giving Charlie a live horoscope reading to guess his birth date. Listen until the end to see if she got it right!

To kick things off Charlie and Daniel introduce their backstory of how they are sustaining an alternative life path along with stories from a big weekend spent at a party hostel in Canggu Bali. Conversations include life regrets, traveling solo, pretending to enjoy clubbing, hostel life in SE Asia, false bravado, female hypocrisy, dating and relationships and more. The journey begins here.