Discover the secrets to a sizzling sex life that keeps getting better and better year after year! In this episode, Jason and I reveal our sexual journey, sharing candid tips on maintaining erotic energy and emotional connection. Learn why safety, vulnerability, and shared responsibility are the keys to unlocking unparalleled pleasure and deepening your bond. Whether you're struggling with sexual challenges or looking to elevate your passion, this episode can revolutionize your approach to intimacy and reignite the spark in your relationship.

Whether you're newlyweds or celebrating decades together, this episode is your roadmap to unprecedented sexual connection.

• Join our LIVE cohort of our Evolutionary Couples program at https://evolutionarycouples.us
• Short on time? You can also experience 12 Epic Dates at your own pace and reignite the fire of your relationship

In this episode, my husband Jason and I dive deep into the raw, real, and often messy side of relationships by sharing our three biggest fights and lessons from them. From trust issues and emotional disregulation to financial stress and fertility struggles, we explore how rupture and repair are essential for growth in any partnership. We also introduce our new programs, Evolutionary Couples & 12 Epic Dates, designed to help couples build stronger, more resilient relationships through skill-building, emotional connection, and polarity. Tune in for an honest conversation about the challenges of love, and how to navigate them with grace, tools, and support.

Find out more about Evolutionary Couples which starts October 19th and has Early Bird until October 7th, and sign up for 12 Epic Dates anytime at https://evolutionarycouples.us

If you only had about 2 hours a week to spend on your relationship, how could you use that time most wisely?

The truth is relationships can be incredibly challenging, especially in today’s fast-paced world where it can be hard to prioritize the relationship. Even when partners deeply love each other, they may face difficulties in maintaining passion, resolving conflicts, and growing together over the long term. Many couples are stuck in unfulfilling patterns, feeling more like roommates than lovers, or constantly bickering over small issues. Without the right tools and support, it’s easy for relationships to stagnate or deteriorate over time.

My husband Jason and I created the Evolutionary Couples program as a structured experience to help couples revitalize their relationships and foster deeper connection. Through 12 carefully designed “epic dates,” couples are guided to explore key areas like communication, intimacy, finances, and shared purpose. The journey provides a mix of themed dates addressing practical issues and polarity dates to reignite passion and play. With options for self-paced learning or a more immersive experience with coaching and community support, couples can choose the level of engagement that works for them. By dedicating just two hours a week to intentional relationship building, partners can develop new skills, heal old wounds, and cultivate a thriving, passionate partnership that just keeps improving over time!

Learn more and sign up at evolutionarycouples.us

How do you awaken an innocent connection to your body and the Earth? How do you reclaim all of the parts of you, and be witnessed in your fullness? How can you access greater truth, power, freedom and love?

Tune in to hear more about Wild Sensuality including details on my upcoming retreat in November: https://violetlange.com/wild-sensuality-retreat/

Fire + fire will burn out...balancing the elements in our relationships, and in ourselves, is key. Learn how to tap into your elemental sensuality and alchemize stuck areas, so you can plant the seeds of your vision of love.

For more practice and support in this area, check out my Wild Sensuality retreat at https://violetlange.com/wild-sensuality-retreat/ or my Sacred Sensuality program https://violetlange.com/sacred-sensuality/

Going through a lull, or a total freeze, in your sex life? Not feeling very sexy or radiant? Tune in for a unique perspective on turn-on. To sign up for Sacred Sexuality visit https://violetlange.com/sacred-sensuality/

Ever wonder if your "picker" is broken? Have you unknowingly fallen for the same type of person again and again? Listen to learn how to change your patterns of attraction and stop falling for your dating "catnip."

Creating healthy love isn't just about affirmations or a checklist. Bring your list to life with this episode and get tips for speeding up the process.

My guest Melanie Curtin, host of the Dear Men Podcast, joins to share three things you might not know about men, dating, and sex. Find out more about her at www.melaniecurtin.com

If you feel stuck in negative beliefs or have great self-care but something seems missing, listen for how to dial up your self-love to level fierce. The book mentioned: No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz.