🎧 Intro
Welcome to VirTrue, where we work together to turn away from vice and grow in the virtues that lead to life everlasting through Jesus Christ.
I’m your host, Jethro Higgins.
Today on VirTrue we’re talking about Chastity, a sub-virtue of Faith and a key part of living according to the law of chastity.
This virtue is often misunderstood.
Our culture treats chastity as repression, weakness, or fear of the body.
But the Catholic Church teaches something radically different.
Chastity is not the rejection of desire.
It is the right ordering of desire.
It is freedom from compulsion.
It is self-mastery rooted in truth.
It is learning to love people rightly instead of using them.
And in a world consumed by lust, addiction, confusion, pornography, and distorted ideas about freedom in sexual activity, chastity has become one of the most important virtues for human flourishing and authentic Christian living.
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📖 What Is Chastity?
Before we dive into the virtue of Chastity, I want to note that I try to keep this podcast PG so families can grow in virtue together, but this episode may not be appropriate for young children.
We will be discussing themes related to sexual desire, sexual activity, sexual relations, and sexual purity.
I also want to acknowledge something important.
Sometimes the cure can become worse than the disease.
In my own attempts to live a virtuous life, I sometimes heard adults speak about impurity in ways that accidentally normalized sin rather than warned against it.
A poorly told cautionary tale can become a temptation for the listener.
That matters.
Because chastity is not merely behavior modification.
It is the formation of the soul.
Chastity is the virtue by which a person governs sexual desire according to reason, divine revelation, and the order established by God.
It is not the rejection of desire, but its proper direction.
In the Christian tradition, chastity is not about repression.
It is about integration.
It brings the body, the intellect, the will, and the passions into harmony so that desire serves authentic love instead of distorting it.
This is the true practice of chastity.
This is authentic freedom.
This is what self-mastery looks like in the Christian life.
The early Church Fathers consistently taught that disorder in sexual desire is not merely physical, but spiritual.
St. Augustine explains that after the Fall, human desire became disordered and resistant to reason.
Chastity restores that order.
It trains the soul to no longer be ruled by impulse, but to live according to truth through the grace of the Holy Spirit.
St. Thomas Aquinas, writing in the 13th century, defines chastity with extraordinary precision:
“Chastity takes its name from the fact that reason ‘chastises’ concupiscence.”
For St. Thomas Aquinas, chastity is not the destruction of desire.
It is the proper ordering of desire.
The Church regards chastity not as hatred of the body, but as rightly ordered love rooted in truth.
Desire is not the enemy.
Disorder is.
Chastity strengthens the will so that desire is governed rather than governing.
This is why chastity is ultimately liberating.
It frees the person from slavery to impulse.
It restores clarity.
It restores peace.
It restores integrity.
It restores the ability to truly love another person rather than consume them for self-gratification.
Within the medieval framework reflected in Hugh of Saint Victor, chastity flows from faith itself.
You do not live chastely merely because it feels beneficial.
You live chastely because you believe something is true:
* about God
* about the human person
* about the body
* about love
* about marriage
* and about Jesus Christ.
This is why vows of chastity, and the vow of chastity, found within the Evangelical Counsels represent radical acts of faith.
The person living chastely proclaims with their body that divine revelation is true.
🕊️ What Chastity Restores
The modern world often treats chastity as deprivation.
But chastity actually restores the human person.
It restores:
* self-command
* purity of heart
* authentic freedom
* peace of mind
* rightly ordered love
* discipline
* trust
* reverence
* clarity
* dignity
* authentic relationships
* and the ability to see other people as children of God instead of objects of consumption
Many people trapped in porn addiction, compulsive sexual behavior, or destructive relationships eventually discover something important:
Indulgence did not make them freer.
It made them weaker.
Chastity restores the ability to govern yourself rather than be governed by impulse.
This is why chastity is not anti-human.
It is essential for human flourishing.
⚠️ Vice of Deficiency: Lust (Luxuria)
Definition
Lust is the failure to govern sexual desire according to reason, divine law, and the proper ends established by God.
It is the absence of chastity in action, where sexual desire becomes disordered, self-serving, and detached from truth.
Why It Fits
Chastity rightly orders desire toward authentic love.
Lust separates desire from truth, unity, self-gift, and openness to life.
The person no longer governs desire.
Desire governs the person.
Sexual sin occurs whenever sexual relations are severed from their proper purpose and moral order.
This includes acts such as:
* fornication
* adultery
* pornography
* masturbation
* prostitution
* contraception
* sterilization
* open relationships
* homosexual acts
* and other forms of sexual activity that separate sexuality from its God-given ends
These acts are considered immoral because they reject the proper ordering of love, the dignity of the human person, and the truth about the body.
Lust is not “too much desire.”
It is not enough virtue to govern desire properly.
What Lust Looks Like
* Acting on impulse without restraint
* Treating persons as objects
* Separating sexuality from responsibility
* Habitual indulgence in disordered sexual activity
* Reducing love to consumption
* Seeking pleasure detached from sacrifice and truth
“I want this now.”
That is the language of lust.
🔥 Vice of Excess: Encratism
Definition
Encratism is the disordered rejection of the body and its sexual nature, treating what God created as good as inherently impure.
Origin
The term comes from the ancient Encratites, condemned by St. Irenaeus, who rejected marriage and taught that even legitimate sexual intercourse between husband and wife was incompatible with holiness.
Why It Fits
Chastity rightly orders desire according to truth.
Encratism does not order desire.
It rejects desire itself.
Where chastity governs the body, Encratism distrusts it.
Where chastity affirms creation, Encratism denies it.
This is an excess because it attempts to achieve purity by going beyond truth and rejecting what God Himself declared good.
What It Looks Like
* Viewing sexual desire as inherently sinful
* Treating marriage as spiritually inferior
* Seeing the body as an obstacle to holiness
* Attempting to eliminate desire rather than govern it
* Rejecting the goodness of sexual relations within marriage
“Desire itself is the problem.”
That is the error of Encratism.
🪞 My Life
Chastity is one of those virtues where struggling with the deficiency is nearly universal.
God created sexual desire for a purpose.
That alone tells us Encratism is false.
Everything God created is good.
The problem is not desire itself.
The problem is disorder.
As a young teenager, I confessed some impure thoughts and actions, and the advice I received from my confessor fundamentally changed how I understood sexual purity.
The priest told me to realize I was treating women as objects of desire rather than daughters of God.
He told me to remember:
* these women were children of God
* daughters of earthly fathers
* someone’s future wife
* someone’s sister
* and my sisters in Christ as well
Then he told me to pray for them.
Because the devil hates it when temptation becomes prayer.
That advice transformed my perspective.
Pope St. John Paul II once said that the problem with pornography is not that it shows too much, but that it shows too little.
Pornography reduces the human person to consumption.
Chastity restores the dignity of the human person.
I eventually realized something else, too:
What the modern world calls freedom in sexual activity is actually slavery to impulse.
When desire rules us, our rational appetite weakens.
We stop governing ourselves.
We become dominated by appetite instead of transformed by virtue.
Chastity restores self-mastery.
And self-mastery is one of the foundations of authentic freedom.
🌍 The Secular Perspective
Modern culture often treats chastity as oppressive, outdated, or psychologically harmful.
At the same time, modern purity culture often reduces the practice of chastity to external appearances without interior transformation.
Both errors misunderstand the virtue.
Our culture increasingly teaches:
* if it feels good, do it
* desire defines identity
* freedom means unlimited self-expression
* restraint is repression
* impulse is authenticity
But Christianity teaches something very different.
Not every desire should be obeyed.
Not every impulse leads to human flourishing.
Not every expression of sexual desire is ordered toward love or truth.
In the Theology of the Body, Pope St. John Paul II teaches that sexual relations are intended to be both unitive and procreative within marriage.
The Catholic understanding of chastity is not anti-love.
It is anti-counterfeit love.
The world often promises liberation through indulgence.
But indulgence frequently produces:
* addiction
* confusion
* loneliness
* relational instability
* shame
* compulsion
* and spiritual exhaustion
Chastity offers something radically different:
The freedom to love truthfully.
🌟 Example Saint: St. Aloysius Gonzaga
Patron of Youth and Purity
Lived: 1568–1591From: Castiglione delle Stiviere, ItalyMission: Jesuit seminarian and witness of radical chastity and disciplined self-mastery
St. Aloysius Gonzaga embodies chastity as disciplined love rooted in truth.
Why He Fits
Custody of the Eyes
He guarded what he allowed himself to consume, knowing that desire is often formed through what we repeatedly take in.
Mastery of the Will
He governed desire before desire governed him.
Right Order
He neither fell into lust nor rejected the goodness of the body.
Witness of Purity
His life demonstrates that sexual purity is not weakness.
It is disciplined strength ordered toward love of God.
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🌿 Continuing the Journey Through Faith
Chastity is not an isolated virtue.
It is one branch growing from the theological virtue of Faith.
When faith orders the intellect toward divine truth, the rest of the person begins to come into right order as well.
Chastity governs sexual desire according to that truth, but the Christian life requires the full integration of all the sub-virtues flowing from faith.
To better understand the foundation of this virtue, return to:
* Faith (Fides) → The Theological Virtue of Faith
As we continue growing in virtue together, remember that these virtues are deeply connected:
* Chastity (Castitas) → Ordering sexual desire according to reason, divine revelation, and authentic love
* Continence (Continentia) → Strengthening self-control and resistance to disordered desire
* Religion (Religio) → Rendering proper worship and obedience to God
* Reverence (Reverentia) → Forming respect for God, the human person, and the dignity of the body
* Obedience (Obedientia) → Submitting the will to rightful authority and divine law
* Decorum (Decorum) → Ordering outward behavior so our lives reflect truth inwardly
* Affection (Affectus) → Rightly ordering the emotional life toward authentic love rather than impulse
Together, these lively virtues help restore the human person through faith, hope and charity.
And they continue preparing us for the broader journey through the seven virtues, the cardinal virtues, and the full Christian life rooted in Jesus Christ.
🙏 Act of Chastity
O my God,
You have created my body and my desires for a purpose,
and You have called me to holiness in both.
I acknowledge that what You have made is good,
and I will not misuse it, nor will I reject it.
I will govern my desires according to reason and Your law,
ordering them toward love, not self-gratification.
I will not be ruled by impulse,
nor will I despise the body You have given me.
With Your grace, I will live in purity of mind and body,
choosing what is true, good, and worthy.
Strengthen my will,
guard my heart,
and direct my desires toward You.
Amen.
🙏 Prayer
Lord, bless us with faith, hope, love, prudence, temperance, fortitude, and justice that we may live as you intended man to live, in all virtue and righteousness.
Help us to flee from sin, and avoid all temptations of the world, the flesh, and the devil.
Protect us with a spiritual hedge in front of us, behind us, above us, below us, to our right, and to our left, within us, and all around us, and seal it with the precious blood of your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ.
Help us to keep you in everything that we think, say, and do.
Amen.
Go out and fill the world with virtue, Deus Vult!
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