In today’s episode of Take It From Tonya, we’re tackling one of the most talked-about — and misunderstood — modern relationship questions:

Let’s talk about it 👇🏽

Do you think posting your partner is an act of love — or just digital validation?

Drop your thoughts below! 💬

💭 “If you don’t post me, do you even love me?”

Social media has changed the way we define love, loyalty, and validation — but does public display really equal private commitment?

Tonya dives into the emotional and spiritual roots of this question, unpacking:

Why we crave online validation from our partners

The difference between secrecy and privacy

What it really means when someone won’t post you

And how to set healthy boundaries around digital affection

This episode will help you check your heart, challenge your expectations, and remember: love doesn’t need an audience to be real — but hiding your partner tells its own story.

🎧 Take It From Tonya — where we sip truth with love and teach you how to grow through what you go through.

💔 Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle?

If it feels like you’re doing everything you can to keep love alive — but the connection keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone.

Most couples don’t fall out of love… they fall out of alignment.

We get it — the frustration, the miscommunication, the emotional distance that makes you wonder if things will ever feel the same again.

That’s exactly why we created tools to help you break the cycle and start rebuilding the connection you’ve been praying for.

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Learn how to keep love special, reduce conflict, and rekindle connection — without losing yourself in the process.

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✨ Remember

Love doesn’t fail — people just stop learning how to love well.

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Why You Keep Fighting About Cleaning and 4 Steps to Finally Fix It

Ever feel like the argument about cleaning isn’t really about cleaning at all? 👀

In this episode, Coach's Tonya & Lamont get into the hidden emotions, unspoken expectations, and power struggles that turn simple chores into full-blown conflicts.

It’s not about the dishes.

Join Coaches Tonya & Lamont as they break down 4 practical Action steps to finally fix the fight behind the mess — without losing your peace, your patience, or your partnership.

Because love shouldn’t get lost between the laundry and the leftovers. 💞

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💔 Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle?

If it feels like you’re doing everything you can to keep love alive — but the connection keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone.

Most couples don’t fall out of love… they fall out of alignment.

We get it — the frustration, the miscommunication, the emotional distance that makes you wonder if things will ever feel the same again.

That’s exactly why we created tools to help you break the cycle and start rebuilding the connection you’ve been praying for.

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📞 Book a FREE 20-Minute Coaching Call

If your relationship feels heavy, don’t wait until it breaks — let’s talk.

→ https://lovercoaching.com

🎓 Take Our Free Mini Course — “From Conflicts To Connections”

Learn how to keep love special, reduce conflict, and rekindle connection — without losing yourself in the process.

→ https://lovercoaching.com/love

📖 Grab Our Book – “Effective Communication Skills for Couples”

Practical, biblical, and deeply real — everything you need to go from conflict to connection.

→ https://amzn.to/4nzNu80

🎧 Prefer to Listen? https://amzn.to/43abLKJ

Get the full experience on Audible — perfect for couples who want to grow together on the go.

✨ Remember

Love doesn’t fail — people just stop learning how to love well.

Let’s change that.

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Love isn't about competition, but completion. See why equality is essential for love to truly flourish and how relationships need to be eye to eye. #love #relationships #equality #connection

In this episode of Visions of Love, Tonya and Lamont break down the hidden power struggles that sabotage relationships. From silent competition to emotional withdrawal, they reveal how couples fall into “one-up” or “one-down” roles — and how to break free.

Learn how to love from a place of mutual respect, balance, and biblical partnership, not pride or passivity. It’s time to stop trying to win and start trying to connect.

Scripture Focus:

Philippians 2:3 – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 – “Two are better than one… if either of them falls down, one can help the other up.

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Change the narrative- Men Your Choices Speak Louder Than Your Words

In this episode of the Tea Time Podcast, Tonya is serving truth hot and unfiltered.

Men say they want a traditional woman — one who values family, faith, respect, and legacy. But the same men are constantly liking, following, and praising modern women who flaunt everything tradition stands against.

This double standard is tearing at relationships. It confuses women, damages trust, and leaves men wondering why they can’t find the love they claim to desire.

We’re unpacking:

☕ Why men’s actions don’t always match their words

☕ How attention and validation are shaping modern dating

☕ The cost of chasing entertainment over commitment

☕ Why accountability and alignment matter more than empty talk

If men want something real, it’s time to walk the talk and stop fueling the very culture they say they reject.

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Visionaries, let’s keep it real: staying in a relationship just because of the time invested doesn’t guarantee a healthy future.

In today’s Tea Time, we’re unpacking a story of a 6-year relationship where love is present, but respect is missing. Long arguments, emotional spirals, disrespectful words—when does it become too much?

We’ll dive into:

💔 Why love without respect will always drain you.

🔄 The difference between patterns and promises.

⚖️ How to know when it’s worth fighting for change—or when it’s time to walk away.

🌱 Why healthy conflict builds intimacy, but toxic conflict destroys peace.

Final thought: Endurance is not growth. If nothing changes, nothing changes. You deserve peace, not just time served.

✨ Visionaries, I want to hear from you: Would you keep trying in this situation, or would you walk away? Comment below with your thoughts.

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In this episode of Visions of Love, Tonya + Lamont dive into one of the most debated questions in relationships: Are women’s expectations too high or too low? We’ll unpack the psychology behind expectations, the science of why they matter, and most importantly—what the Bible says about a man’s true responsibilities toward a woman. From Ephesians 5 to Proverbs 31, we’ll separate cultural pressures from God’s design for love, marriage, and partnership.

🎙️ Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode will help you reflect, reset, and realign your expectations in a way that builds trust, love, and God-centered connection.

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💬 Are you building your spouse up or just putting up with them?

In this video, Tonya and Lamont Johnson break down the difference between respect and tolerance in marriage — and why God’s Word calls us to more. Respect isn’t earned only when things are going right; it’s a daily choice to honor your spouse as God’s gift to you.

📖 Ephesians 5:33 — “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”

💡 Watch this if you want to shift from surviving marriage to thriving in it.

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Disrespect in conflict? Never okay! Learn why disrespect ruins healthy disagreements. Discover the line between conflict & disrespect. Is someone crossing it? See what healthy conflict looks like and why boundaries matter. Catch more insights on healthy conflict! #conflictresolution #healthyrelationships #respect #communication #boundaries #selfimprovement