Monica’s oldest was five when they started formal lessons — and it was a struggle. A year later, at six, everything clicked.
In this episode, I chat with Monica, a mom of three (ages seven, four, and one) in her fourth year of homeschooling. She runs her homeschool from Small Quiet Lessons, centering it on faith, simplicity, and connection. Monica shares what “deschooling” actually looks like day to day in her home — including the real, sometimes messy work of homeschooling around nap times and a toddler’s interruptions — how she plans an entire school year using one running Google Doc, and why she’s decided to take this summer completely off for the first time. She also gets honest about the mistake that taught her to slow down — and why she still wonders, four years in, if she’s doing enough.
You’ll hear:
- How she juggles lesson time with a preschooler and a toddler in the mix — nap time, screen time, and letting go of a “perfect” day
- What deschooling really looks like in her home — read-alouds, a little academics, and a lot of unstructured play
- Why she started formal lessons too early with her oldest, and what she’d do differently
- Her simple system for planning an entire year using one running Google Doc
- How she builds her own unit studies with zero curriculum background
- How she stays confident in a simplified homeschool without comparing herself to “maximalist” homeschool content online
- Her honest advice for new homeschoolers: do whatever works for your family
✨ Listen in for a reminder that simple can still be strong — and that you get to build the homeschool that actually fits your family.
About Monica:
I am a 4th year homeschool mom who really centers her homeschool on Christ, simplicity and connection. This is the first year I am taking the summer off to really give everyone a long break, make room for playdates with our traditional school friends who are also off, and have as much unstructured play time as feels right. I am on a journey to creating systems and habit that allow our whole family to enjoy our home and our time together.
Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction & meet Monica
01:00 – Discovering homeschooling through YouTube after a rough daycare experience
02:00 – The heart behind their homeschool: foundation, virtues, and time together
04:00 – Managing homeschool with a toddler: nap time, screen time, and the mess of real life
06:00 – A typical day: read-alouds, main subjects, and unstructured play
07:00 – The lesson in switching up subjects when something isn’t working
08:00 – What “deschooling” really means in their home
11:00 – Curriculum & resources: The Good and the Beautiful, Evan-Moor, Reading Eggs, Arts for Kids Hub
13:00 – Planning ahead with one running Google Doc
15:00 – Building her own simple unit studies from scratch
18:00 – What simple weekly and daily planning actually looks like
21:00 – Staying confident in simplicity without comparison
25:00 – Her biggest homeschool mistake: starting formal lessons too early
27:00 – Wondering “am I doing enough?” — and why that’s normal
29:00 – Finding real community through co-ops, parks, and routine
32:00 – Her best advice: do whatever works for your family
34:00 – Where to find Monica + closing thoughts
Resources & Links Mentioned:
* Connect with Monica on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok: @smallquietlessons
* Curriculum mentioned: The Good and the Beautiful (math, language arts, handwriting)
* Evan-Moor Daily Practice Books (geography)
* Reading Eggs (online gamified reading resource)
* Arts for Kids Hub (YouTube channel)
* Follow me on Instagram: @theorganizedhomeschool
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