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Sam Sivarajan joins Dr. Angela J. Buckley to discuss navigating genuine uncertainty in leadership and life. As a corporate lawyer, investment banker, and former wealth management executive who was restructured out at the height of his career, Sam brings hard-won wisdom about preparing for what we cannot predict. Author of The Uncertainty Edge, Sam shares practical frameworks for building resilience before crisis strikes and adapting effectively when uncertainty hits.

Sam Sivarajan is a corporate lawyer, former investment banker, and wealth management executive who has led teams across multiple countries and industries. After being restructured out of his position following his best years of performance, Sam channeled his experience into researching and writing about uncertainty, leadership, and behavioral finance. He holds a doctorate in behavioral finance and brings together stoic philosophy and practical business experience in his work.

The Million Job Problem

• Over one million white-collar jobs lost in the US last year
• The looming AI bubble and its potential broader economic impact
• Why traditional career planning tools no longer work

Risk vs. Uncertainty: A Critical Distinction

• Risk: Calculable probabilities (retirement planning, chess, dice)
• Uncertainty: Unknown outcomes you can't even map (pandemics, infrastructure failures, AI disruption)
• Why we need different tools for each

The EDGE Framework

Establish (Build Your Foundation)

• Control
• Align
• Span
• Track

Diagnose

• Cut through noise and bias to assess situations objectively

Go

• Move smartly—avoiding both blind rushing and paralysis

Evolve

• Adapt continuously as circumstances change

Leadership Through a Human Lens

• Why technology will never replace genuine human connection
• The power of bringing your whole self to leadership

The Barbell Strategy

• Balancing extreme safety (steady income, secure foundations) with calculated risk-taking
• How to maintain stability while pursuing innovation
• Practical applications for individuals and organizations

Sam honored two influential mentors:

Mike: His first manager who taught him to bring his whole self to work, leading to five consecutive years as #1 in their segment nationwide. Mike demonstrated authentic, heart-first leadership and transparent communication.

Rick: A leader who profoundly invested in people as individuals, building trust through genuine relationships. Rick's leadership style—spending significant time discussing shared passions like biking before addressing business—created the foundation for solving contentious issues efficiently and amicably.

"We use the terms risk and uncertainty interchangeably, but there's a critical difference between the two."

"Measure what you value, not what's easy to measure."

1. Assess Your Foundation: Use the Establish framework to evaluate whether your actions align with your stated priorities
2. Identify Your Controllables: Make a list of what's truly within your control vs. external uncertainty
3. Practice Authentic Connection: Take time in your next one-on-one to discuss something personal before diving into business
4. Implement the Barbell Strategy: Evaluate how you're balancing stability with calculated risk-taking
5. Acknowledge a Mentor: Use the SPIRIT method to thank someone who's shaped your leadership journey

• Book: The Uncertainty Edge by Sam Sivarajan
• The Good Human Practice (launching January) - combining stoic philosophy and behavioral finance
• Sam's newsletter: The Uncertainty Edge

• Website: samsivarajan.com
• The Good Human Practice: thegoodhumanpractice.com
• LinkedIn: Sam Sivarajan

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In this compelling episode of Voices in Leadership, Angela sits down with Yosi Koskowsky, a leadership development consultant who took an unconventional path from IT and engineering into the human side of business. After discovering that traditional leadership training failed to translate knowledge into behavioral change, Yosi pursued certifications in emotional wellness therapy and behavioral neuroscience to understand the root causes of human behavior.

The conversation explores Yosi's transformation during Cisco's acquisition challenges, where he developed coaching methodologies that helped leaders across global teams navigate cultural differences and communication breakdowns. From working with teams spanning Australia to Europe, Yosi shares insights on what truly drives effective leadership in our hybrid, globally distributed workplace.

Angela and Yosi dive into fascinating territory around modern leadership challenges: the myth of efficiency in Slack-based communication, the generational tensions around AI and collaboration, and what we lose when technology does our thinking for us. Drawing parallels from GPS navigation to AI-written content, they question how leaders can balance technological advantages with preserving essential human skills like creativity, critical thinking, and genuine connection.

Yosi Kossowski

What if the path to success didn't solely hinge on a college degree? Dr. Angela J. Buckley and Dr. Matt Kutz invite us to reimagine leadership and skill development in our latest episode of Voices in Leadership. They explore the shifting focus toward vocational training and the fusion of hard and soft skills into "meta skills," essential for navigating today's fast-paced world. Through personal stories and insightful discussions, Angela and Matt highlight the critical roles of real-time learning, adaptability, and mentorship in shaping leaders ready to tackle life's ever-evolving challenges.

Imagine decision-making with the depth of hindsight, the clarity of insight, and the vision of foresight. Dr. Buckley and Dr. Kutz introduce us to "3D thinking," a transformative approach that draws inspiration from Dickens' famous Ghosts of Christmas. They discuss how aligning skills, interests, and necessities can create a fulfilling life, acknowledging that our journeys are rarely linear. This conversation provides a refreshing perspective on how unexpected opportunities can lead to a more meaningful career and life.

In a touching narrative, Matt shares his personal battle with advanced prostate cancer and the profound support from his wife, Angela, illustrating the strength of their partnership. Her unwavering encouragement and sacrifice fueled his creativity, leading to the writing of three new books. This heartfelt discussion underscores the importance of compassion and teamwork in overcoming personal challenges, reinforcing the bonds of love and shared values. Join us for an episode that redefines leadership and personal growth through the lenses of perception, compassion, and resilience.

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What if your career path led you from corporate success to political activism? Dakari Lariat’s remarkable journey takes center stage in this episode where we explore his transition from a thriving career in supply chain management at giants like L'Oreal and Whirlpool to becoming a voice for marginalized communities in New York. Sparked by a personal encounter with injustice during an arrest, Dakari’s story is a testament to the profound impact of channeling personal experiences into advocacy and action, culminating in his run for senator in Alabama and the publication of his book, "Don't Flush."

Gain insights into the challenges of grassroots campaigning and discover what truly makes a leader effective in both corporate and political arenas. Dakari shares the evolution of his entrepreneurial venture in aromatherapy for dogs into a full-fledged political campaign powered by human connection and the generosity of unsolicited donations. This episode uncovers the strategies behind building a supportive community, leveraging media attention, and the critical importance of leaders who listen and engage with experts.

Moreover, we celebrate the spirit of gratitude as Dakari honors Bill Babishak, a mentor whose fairness and advocacy greatly influenced his leadership style. Through Dakari's experiences, learn the significance of creating a workplace environment that champions justice and excellence. This episode paints a vivid picture of leadership that is deeply rooted in empathy, gratitude, and the relentless pursuit of justice, offering valuable lessons for anyone looking to balance professional success with meaningful community impact.

Leadership, Corporate, Entrepreneurship, Political Activism, Injustice, Justice, Equality, Community Service, Inclusivity, Empowerment, Grassroots, Campaign, Support, Donations, Volunteering, Mentorship, Advocacy, Workplace, Empathy, Gratitude, Acknowledgement, Team Building, Excellence

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Unlock the secrets to thriving in a multigenerational workplace as we welcome the insightful Adam Kingl to Voices in Leadership. Discover how to bridge the gap between Millennials, Gen Z, Baby Boomers, and Gen X, aligning their diverse expectations to foster a harmonious and productive environment. We promise that by understanding these dynamics, you can empower your organization to thrive, with managers who ask the right questions to unlock the potential in their teams.

Journey with us as we dissect the essence of career purpose and its pivotal role in shaping meaningful professional paths. We explore the benefits of using a Venn diagram to map out personal and professional values, setting young and emerging leaders on a path to realizing their "golden thread." With insights on proactive planning and setting clear milestones, this episode is a must-listen for individuals and managers aiming to cultivate a purpose-driven workforce, ensuring that dreams are not only chased but achieved.

Finally, be inspired by the enduring influence of mentors, as we share a heartfelt story of how a high school teacher's encouragement led to a lifetime of striving for excellence. We explore the importance of cultural alignment within organizations and how creative initiatives can bridge generational gaps and fortify company values. This episode is not just about understanding the present workforce; it's a guide to crafting a legacy that aligns purpose, culture, and meaning in the workplace.

www.adamkingl.com

A Purpose-Drive Workforce

Unlock the secrets of effective change management and sales strategies in our latest episode with visionary Patrick Seaton. What if understanding the human brain could be the key to closing your next deal? Patrick, with his groundbreaking work combining neuroscience with sales, answers this question and more, sharing insights from his acclaimed book, "A Crocodile Brain Can Make or Break Your Sale." His innovative approach has inspired tools like "Ask Alex," a unique AI-driven platform that transforms how sellers navigate the buyer's journey, ensuring effective and empathetic communication.

Patrick also challenges traditional change management methods, offering a fresh perspective from his second book, "The Change OS." Dive into the structured approach he champions for facilitating change, emphasizing the crucial role of preparation and workforce engagement. Hear firsthand accounts from users like Earl and Donna, who have revolutionized their communication strategies using Ask Alex. This tool stands out by not just mirroring back user input but actively engaging with the receiver's perspective, providing constructive feedback that enhances the effectiveness of messages across various contexts.

Explore the practicalities and innovations of Ask Alex, an AI agent platform now integrated with Claude and soon with GPT. Whether you're an insurance agent perfecting your pitch or an entrepreneur refining your communication skills, discover how a 10-day free trial can open new pathways to success. Moreover, we highlight the dynamic partnership between Patrick and Alex in AI development, showcasing how their collaboration has not only sparked technological advancements but has also aligned with their shared vision of teaching and problem-solving. Join us as we acknowledge the power of innovation and the impact of thoughtful collaboration on business and personal growth.

Can discipline truly transform the way we tackle procrastination? Explore this intriguing question with us as we welcome Eric Twiggs, a distinguished coach for executives and entrepreneurs, who shares his remarkable journey from military high school to successful coaching. Eric's story is a testament to the power of curiosity and time management in achieving greatness. He reveals actionable insights into cultivating discipline, highlighting the use of accountability partners and self-awareness as key strategies to overcome procrastination and align our actions with our goals.

We delve into the complex dance between fear and excitement in risk-taking. Fear isn’t just an obstacle; it’s a signpost pointing towards growth. By persistently questioning our motives, we uncover deeper motivations, turning vague ambitions into clear, actionable plans. Learn how fear and nerves can be reframed as positive indicators of significance, guiding us toward excellence. The SCARF model also comes into play, shedding light on how status, certainty, autonomy, relatedness, and fairness influence our resistance to change and tendency to procrastinate.

Our conversation takes a heartfelt turn as we discuss empowerment through acknowledgment and open dialogue. Eric and I reflect on our personal journeys, emphasizing the crucial role of mentors like Dr. Willie Jolly, whose guidance has been pivotal. We explore how sharing fears and vulnerabilities can lead to personal growth and leadership clarity. Visual practices are underscored as powerful learning tools, enriching our discussions. As we close this engaging episode, we encourage you to embrace gratitude and continue this journey with us by exploring additional resources and subscribing for more insightful conversations.

(00:02) Exploring Leadership and Psychedelics

This chapter explores the fascinating journey of leadership and the ripple effect it can have on the world. Joining me is Laura, a leadership coach based in Alberta, Canada, who shares her path from the nonprofit sector to becoming a catalyst for leaders aiming to create positive change. We discuss the power of strong self-leadership and how it extends to influence families, organizations, and communities. As we enter the demanding fourth quarter, Laura introduces an intriguing approach to maintaining mental health and building resilience through the use of psychedelics. These substances, historically researched for their benefits, are gaining renewed interest for their potential to address PTSD, depression, and anxiety effectively. Laura explains how integrating psychedelics into leadership development can help leaders sustain their well-being and amplify their impact.

(17:35) Transformation Through Psychedelic Journey Healing

This chapter explores the transformative power of psylocybin experiences, both in group settings and through intimate one-on-one guided sessions. We examine how these journeys, enhanced by music and sensory isolation, allow individuals to access and communicate with their subconscious, leading to profound insights and healing. Psylocybin helps address both significant traumas like PTSD and more subtle life experiences that may have fostered negative mindsets. The narrative emphasizes the importance of post-experience integration, where insights gained are woven into daily life with the help of coaching. Sharing a personal breakthrough, she recounts how a journey helped me uncover and resolve a long-held issue related to my father, leading to a newfound sense of empowerment and the ability to pursue previously unseen possibilities.

(23:50) Personal Transformation and Integration With Psychedelics

This chapter explores the integration of psychedelic medicine into personal and professional development. We discuss how these experiences can be likened to peeling away layers of an onion, revealing insights and opportunities for growth. Integration is highly individualized, involving various practices like health improvements, yoga, or addressing personal relationships. Additionally, the conversation highlights the potential of psychedelics to rewire the brain, fostering creativity and breakthroughs, particularly for entrepreneurs and business leaders. We touch on the concept of using psychedelics in mastermind groups, where leaders support each other in an open, creative environment. The conversation concludes with reflections on the transformative power of these experiences in both personal and professional contexts.

(38:02) Impacts of Thoughtful Relationships

This chapter highlights the inspiring relationship between Laura and her husband, John, emphasizing his role as a supportive thought partner and active listener in both their professional and personal lives. We explore how John's ability to create clarity from chaos and challenge Laura's thinking has contributed to her success, including her achievements in dance. The conversation also touches on the relevance of authenticity, creativity, and alignment in their partnership. Additionally, Laura shares insights into her work with psychedelics, which aids others in personal and professional growth. For those interested in learning more, Laura provides resources through her website and LinkedIn. Join us as we celebrate John's impactful presence and the importance of nurturing relationships that foster growth and alignment.

What happens when you blend the precision of engineering with the fluidity of economics and leadership? This episode introduces you to Morag Barrett, who shares her extraordinary love of puzzles to the complexities of economics and organizational development. Together, we explore how networking and building genuine connections have shaped her leadership journey. Amidst the serious discussions, we share a lighthearted chat about our mutual love for coffee and tea, pondering the significance of a perfectly fitting mug. Morag’s insights remind us that leadership is a zig-zagged journey filled with varied experiences, not a straight path.

Discover the transformative power of connection in leadership. Reflecting on her early banking career, Morag realized the true challenge was in the realm of interpersonal dynamics rather than mere technical prowess. This realization spurred the creation of Sky Team, a company focused on fostering cultures of connection in workplaces often marred by stress and burnout, particularly among middle managers. We offer practical advice for middle managers to navigate their roles more effectively, emphasizing the importance of aligning actions with personal values to reduce friction and enhance job satisfaction.

Explore the emotional waves that ripple through teams and how leaders can harness this energy for success. From recognizing the contagious nature of emotions to creating environments that allow genuine expression, we delve into the concept of "collective effervescence." The SPIRIT of Acknowledgement framework was used to recognize Morag's colleagues at Skye Team. We discuss the dangers of false positivity and the importance of timely recognition, touching on how practices like "ripples and joys" can reinforce connection and engagement. Join us to uncover how these insights can inspire and invigorate your leadership journey.

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Renowned thought leader in emotionally intelligent leadership, Dr. Melissa Robinson-Winemiller joins me for an illuminating discussion on the transformative power of empathy in leadership. From her early days as a professional French horn player to becoming an expert in empathy-driven leadership, Dr. Melissa shares her journey of overcoming personal and systemic challenges. Our conversation reveals how so-called soft skills, often undervalued, are essential for achieving tangible results in leadership and how our shared background in playing the French horn adds a personal touch to our insights.

We explore the significant role of empathy and emotional intelligence in driving business success, particularly within industries like automotive engineering and manufacturing. The distinction between managing and leading becomes clear as we discuss the importance of treating organizations as dynamic, living entities rather than static machines. By weaving empathy into leadership practices, businesses can unlock innovation and productivity, dispelling the misconception that empathy is a weakness. Supported by a 2021 Ernst Young study, we share how cognitive empathy can be a logical yet powerful tool to foster understanding and growth.

The conversation also touches on the crucial aspects of building trust and clarity in leadership roles through self-reflection, self-awareness, and self-empathy. Highlighting a success story from middle management, we explore how fostering a human-centered approach can transform team dynamics and reduce burnout. Emphasizing the importance of listening and understanding organizational culture, we caution against making premature changes when stepping into new roles. Dr. Melissa's experiences have not only shaped her career but also influenced my own path, as I delve into empathy-driven leadership in my latest book and upcoming speaking engagements.

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