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All right, son. I'm here. You told me you wanted to talk to me.

Yes, Dad. I'm sorry to bother you. I know you have to go to work.

What are you talking about? You are my son. I will always have time for you. Now tell me, what do you want to talk about with me? I'm sure it's important.

Well, nothing serious. In fact, I feel a little ashamed. I don't know whether to tell you.

Oh, come on. Whatever it is, I want to hear it. Okay, just tell me.

Well, um, thank you. Um, there is someone in the school.

It is a girl, right? That's what you want to tell me. You want to tell me that you have a girlfriend?

No. I mean, no yet. There is a girl I like a lot, but she's not my girlfriend. She's my friend. Her name is Anna. She's so beautiful. I like her a lot.

Oh, I see. Then what is the problem? Tell her that you like her. I know you're not a child anymore. You're a teenager. It is normal you like girls. If you're asking for my permission, you have my complete trust. Just bring her home when she's your girlfriend. I am sure your mother would like to know her. And of course, me too. My son.

That is the problem. That I like her a lot and I want her to be my girlfriend, but I don't know. I don't know how to tell her that I like her. It's the first time I will do something like that. I don't know if she feels as I do. Maybe she doesn't like me. What can I do?

Advice from DadAll right, I understand. Don't worry. I will help you, my son. Telling a girl you like her sounds simple, but actually doing it can be nerve-wracking. I will tell you a few ways you can express your emotions.

Drop some hints: Give her a few compliments. Yeah, give her a few compliments about her outfit or her nice laugh. It really works.

Tell her about a pretty flower you saw that made you think of her at the park today.

If you give enough hints as to how you're feeling, she'll be better prepared for when you tell her you like her.

You can try saying some things like, "I saw a gorgeous rose on my walk earlier today. It made me think of you." Or, "You have the best smile I ever seen." Try to pay attention to how she reacts to these compliments.

Do you really think that can work? How will I know she likes what I'm saying?

Well, if she smiles and laughs, it's a good sign. Now, you can also set a deadline for yourself. It will give you the motivation you need. If you've been thinking about this girl for a while, try setting a deadline for when you're going to tell her that you like her. It doesn't have to be immediately, but it should be within the next few weeks at least. It is not good idea to let too much time pass.

Pump yourself up first. Remind yourself of how awesome you are for a confidence boost. You could write a list or just say things out loud to yourself. You don't have to get cocky, but try saying things like, "This is going to go well. Even if she doesn't like me back, I'll feel better after I've said it."

Oh, this is very important. Please tell her in person if possible. Don't just text her. Try to approach her when she's alone and not busy. You told me you are friends and that's good. You can suggest hanging out one-on-one. You don't have to be completely isolated, but try not to confess your feelings around a group of friends. It is not a good idea. Try going for a walk in the park or meeting up in the food court at the mall. You could say something like, "Hey, do you want to hang out after school today?" Don't say, "I need to talk to you." She might think you have something bad to say. It happened to me.