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Vol92.口语听力训练Online Dating(附文本)


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While online dating can be a convenient way to meet new people, it's essential to approach it with caution.

The nature of online dating can sometimes promote a shallow or superficial approach to relationships.

People may judge others based solely on their profile pictures and brief descriptions, overlooking their deeper qualities and personalities.

Many people struggle with self-love because we're constantly bombarded with images and messages about how we should look or behave.

Social media can make it even harder as we compare ourselves to others' perfectly curated online lives.

But remember, those are just highlights, not reality.

When you truly love yourself, you become more confident and attractive to others.

But self-love goes beyond just physical appearance; it's about accepting all parts of yourself—your strengths, weaknesses, quirks, and everything in between.

When you love yourself fully, you won't feel the need to seek validation from others.

You'll attract partners who appreciate you for who you truly are.

Confidence is incredibly attractive—not arrogance, but a quiet self-assurance.

Of course, self-love is an ongoing journey with ups and downs.

There will be days when you struggle, and that's okay.

Be gentle with yourself and keep practicing self-compassion.

If you're looking for love online, remember that you are worthy and deserving just as you are.

Don't change yourself to fit someone else's expectations.

The right person will love you for your authentic self.

Online dating can bring many feelings, from excitement about a new match to frustration over unanswered messages.

It's normal to feel many different emotions.

When you start talking to someone new, you may feel very happy and hopeful.

Enjoy those excited feelings, but don't get too carried away too fast.

It takes time to really know someone.

As you keep communicating, you may have an easy connection, or maybe the conversation feels difficult.

Either way, don't take it too personally.

An online connection doesn't always lead to feelings in person.

If things end with a match, try not to feel discouraged.

Rejection can hurt, but it doesn't mean you have no value.

Remind yourself that for every person who doesn't see your worth, many others will.

On the other hand, you may feel frustrated if matches seem promising but never meet up.

Mixed signals and ghosting happen a lot in online dating.

It's okay to feel let down, but don't spend too much time analyzing their reasons.

Through this process, be patient with yourself and potential matches.

Good things need time.

Keep your expectations realistic and stay positive.

If the up-and-down emotions become too much, take a break from dating apps.

Focus on taking care of yourself first.

When you return, you'll feel refreshed.

It can be easy to get caught up in trying to accumulate matches and conversations, but the goal shouldn't be about numbers.

Focus instead on quality over quantity when seeking a real connection.

Start by updating your dating profile to really showcase your authentic self.

Use clear photos that represent how you truly look.



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