VTJ’s Corner

As we continue in relationships, it is important to understand that time doesn’t stop and we continue to grow as individuals & as a couple! As that growth happens, it’s important to grow together & understand each other’s growths.

It can be very easy to always pick up the things that are not going well in a relationship, but we need to consciously build the mind to look out for the good and celebrate it! Be intentional about celebrating the good taking place in your relationship!

When differences arise in relationships, we can quickly attack each other, drive our points & never really deal with the problem. When tackling the challenge, let us strive to diffuse it, not to deal with each other.

When in a relationship, we both come with strengths & weaknesses, but many destroy each other by magnifying weaknesses than strengths! Is your strength not there to cover your spouse’s weakness? LET’s TALK!

In relationships, as we journey together, we can hurt each other and cause pain at times, but the greatest danger is moving on and building on top of the pain without resolving it! When pain is unresolved, it evolves! Let’s talk about it here!

In relationships, we can often find ourselves in the temptation of “giving a taste of your own medicine”…we discuss how destructive such an approach can be & the disaster that a relationship can find itself in. Let’s talk!

The mindset in any relationship should be to build! Whatever you put into your relationship, ask yourself this question: “Will it build or destroy?” Let’s take a journey on this important conversation on building solid relationships!

At times in a relationship, we can fail to recognise & acknowledge the strength of our spouses, thus failing the relationship from benefitting. Today we deal being together in our strengths and our weaknesses.

The role of a mirror in our lives is often to show us a reflection of ourselves, how we look & what we ought to adjust! Today we talk the importance of reflection in relationships...ENJOY!

One of the greatest things in relationships that we often see deteriorate is communication! When we don’t talk to each other, we can be sure that our grown will diminish. Today we tackle the importance of talking!