God, please help me!”? Are you even in my home anymore?
please keep me in your prayers thank you
This past Sunday night, I got so frustrated with my son, I thought God was not in my home anymore and that he had abandoned me, and I even commented that Satan was in-complete attack mold. But I calmed down and asked God for His forgiveness: yes, I doubted: I felt abandoned by God in my time of great need while dealing with my frustration with family.
Even during this uproar mentally, I was asking God for help but not receiving what was asked for. Does this mean that God does not care or that He is ignoring my cries for help? When we cried out for Him, asking Him to stop the pain and suffering, and the family arguments, when I went to pick up my other son from his place of work, I asked God for the forgiveness of the statement I had made in an intense argument, I began to realize that I was communicating a universal desire to avoid hurt. That is not weakness, but it is human.
I began to research God’s word: are you aware that The Bible records several testimonies of those who called out to God in a time of need and were met with silence at least for a while.
Job is the most obvious example, as in his distress, he felt as if God were nowhere to be found: “If I go to the east, he is not there; if I go to the west, I do not find him. When he is at work in the north, I do not see him; when he turns to the south, I catch no glimpse of him” (Job 23:8–9). The psalmists also struggled with the feeling that God was not responding to their cries: “Why, LORD, do you stand far off? Why do you hide yourself in times of trouble?” (Psalm 10:1); “How long, LORD? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me?” (Psalm 13:1); “Why do you hide your face and forget our misery and oppression?” (Psalm 44:24).
Jesus our Lord and Savior understands the mindset of not wanting to experience pain and suffering. In the Garden of Gethsemane, just before His arrest, Jesus asked His Father three times, “My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me.
Yet not as I will, but as you will” (Matthew 26:39) (also see Matthew 26:42 and Matthew 20:22). Though He asked for the “cup” to pass, Jesus asked with the condition “if it is possible.” Jesus was in complete submission to God’s will and not His own. If His suffering was a part of God’s will, then He was willing to accept that.
When we cry out, “God, please help me,” God hears us and always responds. He may not respond in the way you or I wish, but He responds, nonetheless. Understandably, when amid the throes of pain, suffering, and grief, family disputes and more it is difficult to see the wider perspective of God’s plan, especially when we receive an answer of “no” or “not now.”
But you and I can trust in God’s sovereignty because you and I know He is good (Psalm 48:1; 95:3, 6). Even as we go through the trials, God gives grace (2 Corinthians 12:9). After Jesus’ prayer in Gethsemane, “an angel from heaven appeared to him and strengthened him” (Luke 22:43).
Since God is omniscient, He is privy to details we cannot begin to understand, I know that I cannot. Psalm 147:5 says, “Great is our Lord and mighty in power; his understanding has no limit.” When we cry out to God, “Please help me,” He sees the heart and understands (Hebrews 4:15), and His response will always be out of love (Romans 5:8; Psalm 139:13–16).
We can submit to His authority because He is trustworthy. Remember, God broke His silence and revealed Himself to Job in an unmistakable way (Job 38:1). And I know and believe that when I picked up my son God spoke to me through him. Also, I believe that when my wife asked the Holy sprit to calm me down as she laid hands on me, she asked Holy spirit to enter into this home it did perhaps not at that given moment, but it did.
Jesus assures us that God will only give us what is good and right in Luke 11:11–13, “Which of you fathers, if your son ask