What if the most devastating thing that ever happened to you turned out to be the doorway into the deepest love you have ever known?
In this episode of Walking the Path of Love, Charlyn sits down with Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, an award-winning poet, teacher, and speaker whose work has appeared in O: The Oprah Magazine, the Washington Post Book Club, on the Carnegie Hall stage, and on A Prairie Home Companion. Since 2006, Rosemerry has written a poem every single day, and what began as a writing practice has become something closer to a way of life: a daily act of showing up, staying open, and letting the world teach her what she did not yet know.
This conversation moves through many rooms. There is the room of devotion versus ambition, where a quiet but radical difference exists between striving to get somewhere and being so in love with the world that you want to show up completely right. Then there is the room of poetry as permission, the way a poem read aloud in a yoga class can make someone feel that their anger, fear, and grief are not only acceptable but worthy of being named.
What Rosemerry describes is not healing in the tidy, linear sense. It is something more honest. For example, the tidal wave of love she felt the day after Finn died. Or the moment she began to understand that her husband's grief was his to carry, not hers to take on. Ultimately, she discovered that gifts can be hidden inside loss. Though she didn't go looking for it, peace found her, again and again, even during her most difficult moments.
You’ll leave this episode with a question that a friend once gave Rosemerry: Is this the path of love? There is no fixed answer. Instead, the question becomes a compass, one that Rosemerry carries through every ordinary hour of her day. By the end of this episode, you might just find yourself asking it too.
Episode Takeaways:
- An opening poem, Faith, and what it means to trust not the knowing but the becoming (02:30)
- The difference between ambition and devotion, and why one sustains a practice while the other depletes it (03:51)
- How poetry taught Rosemerry to write past what she knows to reach the unknown where the real discoveries live (08:54)
- Why grief and joy are not opposites, and what opens up when we stop insisting they should be (16:55)
- The tidal wave of love she felt the day after her son Finn died, and how it changed her forever (38:47)
- Why there are infinite ways to grieve and what compassion looks like when we stop expecting others to do it the way we do (24:52)
- The six-word question that became her compass for every ordinary moment of her day (46:01)
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