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If wanting more still makes you feel like you're getting in trouble or that you're greedy AF...that's the problem.
Not the desire. Not your ambition. Not your goals.
Your nervous system learned that wanting more wasn't safe, and now you're calling that "being realistic," "being grateful," or "making smart decisions"
In this episode, I'm talking about why desire gets shut down, why so many people settle without admitting it to themselves, and why mindset work alone won't touch this bullshit. We're getting into nervous-system protection, capacity, and the slightly uncomfortable truth about how often "gratitude" is just fear in a nicer outfit.
This isn't a motivational, hype girl type episode. This is information that will probably feel like a call out...but is also the key to getting everything you put on your 2026 vision board.
Because if your body still treats "more" like a threat, nothing on that vision board is happening no matter how "aligned" you think you are.
Here's the tea on what we're covering today:
why desire is simply brain data, not greed
how the nervous system decides what's "too much" before you do
why procrastination and forced contentment keep you small
what capacity actually is and why it matters more than mindset
And let me be clear: awareness is not enough.
If this episode lands but you still put shit off or talk yourself out of what you want, that's not a discipline issue. It's a safety issue.
That's what Healing Haus exists for.
Healing Haus is where we actually work with the body (with EFT tapping, hypnotherapy, and other nervous-system-led practices) so wanting more doesn't immediately trigger guilt or self-sabotage.
If you're done negotiating with your own desires and you actually want to hold more - not just fantasize about it and watch other people have what you want - Healing Haus is where that work happens.
See you in there 😘
XOXO
By Carley GreinerIf wanting more still makes you feel like you're getting in trouble or that you're greedy AF...that's the problem.
Not the desire. Not your ambition. Not your goals.
Your nervous system learned that wanting more wasn't safe, and now you're calling that "being realistic," "being grateful," or "making smart decisions"
In this episode, I'm talking about why desire gets shut down, why so many people settle without admitting it to themselves, and why mindset work alone won't touch this bullshit. We're getting into nervous-system protection, capacity, and the slightly uncomfortable truth about how often "gratitude" is just fear in a nicer outfit.
This isn't a motivational, hype girl type episode. This is information that will probably feel like a call out...but is also the key to getting everything you put on your 2026 vision board.
Because if your body still treats "more" like a threat, nothing on that vision board is happening no matter how "aligned" you think you are.
Here's the tea on what we're covering today:
why desire is simply brain data, not greed
how the nervous system decides what's "too much" before you do
why procrastination and forced contentment keep you small
what capacity actually is and why it matters more than mindset
And let me be clear: awareness is not enough.
If this episode lands but you still put shit off or talk yourself out of what you want, that's not a discipline issue. It's a safety issue.
That's what Healing Haus exists for.
Healing Haus is where we actually work with the body (with EFT tapping, hypnotherapy, and other nervous-system-led practices) so wanting more doesn't immediately trigger guilt or self-sabotage.
If you're done negotiating with your own desires and you actually want to hold more - not just fantasize about it and watch other people have what you want - Healing Haus is where that work happens.
See you in there 😘
XOXO