On social media, we often see the same conversation: "men ain't this, men ain't that." And while there's truth in that, I think it's time we also look at the other side.

In this episode, I'm talking about the ways women may contributing to the very behaviors we complain about. From our expectations to how we value ourselves, to the circles we kee[, it's an honest conversation about accountability and self-reflection.

This isn't about blame, but about growth. If we want better relationships and better men, it starts with us being real with ourselves.

In this episode I discuss what's been up with Waseem. It has been a minute since I last posted and it was only right to explain that. As a young woman there is a lot of things that I want to work on and I got overwhelmed. However I am back and stay tuned for more :)

In the last episode, I got on the men, in this episode I gotta get on these women. In today's society, I feel like our values as women are wrong. We are focused on the wrong things and put ourselves in many of the situations we find ourselves in. This is an open discussion, let me know in the comments what you agree or disagree with. Thank you so much for listening

Waseem talks about the type of men young ladies should stay away from if they want to be happy. These men are toxic, draining, and will cause trauma in your life. Now not all men who fit these descriptions are bad, but the vast majority of them are. Enjoy :)

Waseem discusses how social media has affected her generation. She touches on how it affects perception, mental health and more.

Aja Waseem invites her friend Mikayla to discuss their friendship and their spiritual journey. They go over many hot topics on friendships including opposite-sex friendships, boundaries, etc. They also answer questions regarding their spiritual journey.

Aja Waseem and her friend Caleb discuss what it was like growing up in Orlando FL. They reflect on how many black men turn to gangster activity after a missed career in football and how that affects the community. They also discuss how more black men should attend college and what they have gained from FAMU.

Aja Waseem recounts the harassment from some entitled admin after trying to network with students at Fried Chicken Wednesday. Waseem was trying to talk to students and promote her podcast when she faced difficulty from the admin who called the police on her. She reads off some of the problems fellow students faced at Famu. She discusses some of the problems she faced and urges the administration to communicate with her so she can bridge the gap between students and admin.

Waseem discusses with close friends Fargo and Leonard about navigating relationships in college. They touch on various topics such as sex culture, social media and how it affects relationships, religion, 50/50, and more.

Aja Waseem discusses FAMU head coach Willie Simmons leaving to be the running back coach at Duke University. She reads some of your opinions and talks about the system in which black people leave when successful to make money for white institutions.