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We All Need Someone To Carry Us Sometimes - E17


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We all go through moments where we feel stuck, overwhelmed, or like we can’t move forward on our own. In this episode, we talk about why you were never meant to do life alone—and the importance of having “mat carriers” in your life. Looking at Luke 5, we unpack the story of the paralyzed man and the friends who carried him to Jesus when he couldn’t get there himself. The question is: do you have people like that in your life… and are you willing to be that for someone else?


Key Moments:

00:00 – “We need some mat carriers in our life” - Preview
00:08 – Personal reflection: being carried to Jesus in hard moments
00:38 – “Getting in the zone” 
01:42 – Freshman football story: feeling unstoppable
03:29 – Turning 40 conversation starts
04:41 – “How old does your body feel?”
07:29 – Honest moment: “I am a little sad about turning 40”
08:11 – Reframe: “This will be the best year of my life”
09:13 – Plastic surgery / Botox / elf ears?
11:37 – San Francisco & Santa Cruz trip plans
13:07 – Dolphin conversation - Paul loves dolphins
19:26 – NFL Draft & quarterback discussion
26:32 – “Glad God didn’t let me be great—I’d be arrogant”
28:56 – Transition to Scripture (Luke 5 begins)
30:21 – The moment: friends lower the man through the roof
32:59 – Core message: “We need mat carriers in our life”
35:16 – Real-life examples of being “lowered to Jesus”
36:26 – How to be a modern day mat carrier for others
39:06 – “I’ll believe for you when you can’t”
40:34 – Why we’re meant to live in community
41:37 – Pride vs. letting people help you
42:24 – Closing: “Lower people down to Jesus… and let people lower you”

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Uxxg_kb4cuU

Build Different Podcast  |  Danny Woodhead & Paul Lanphier  |  Released May 5, 2026

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Build DifferentBy Danny Woodhead & Paul Lanphier