Build Different

In this episode, we start with wedding stories, massive guest lists, lost keys, mariachi bands, sports takes, and Paul’s very questionable reverse osmosis water situation. Then the conversation turns toward Luke 12, where Jesus talks about division, loyalty, and the cost of truly following Him. We talk about people pleasing, standing for Jesus, and why we need the Holy Spirit to help us live with courage instead of fear.

00:00 – Jesus allows no middle ground
00:51 – Wedding stories begin with Paul’s massive wedding
01:24 – Paul reveals they had around 900–1,000 people at the wedding
03:30 – Wedding guest lists, family pressure, and wondering why certain people get invited
05:47 – Danny’s wedding rainstorm clears out “the pretenders”
07:42 – Danny loses his keys at the worst possible moment after the wedding
10:14 – Danny’s short honeymoon window, training camp, and tearing his ACL
11:47 – Paul reveals his wedding had a mariachi band
16:50 – Wedding culture has gone too far: welcome celebrations and future wedding plans for Kobe
23:38 – NBA Finals, emotional sports takes, and Paul getting manipulated by ESPN
29:34 – Paul’s reverse osmosis water story and the accidental “my wife tried to kill me” weight-loss plan
33:37 – Luke 12, following Jesus, and the reality that faith can bring division
35:50 – Danny’s mom standing for Jesus even when her family didn’t understand
37:23 – Are we standing for what’s right and for who God is?
39:05 – Jesus allows no middle ground: are you willing to risk people’s approval?
40:45 – Are we living for the approval of people or the approval of God?
42:31 – Danny’s mom standing firm and eventually seeing her family come to faith
44:04 – Why we need the power of the Holy Spirit to stand for Jesus
45:10 – Trying to be good in your own willpower is exhausting
49:19 – Final takeaway: make a concrete decision and ask the Holy Spirit to help you live it out

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/FIUyl2qsjOc

Build Different Podcast  |  Danny Woodhead & Paul Lanphier  |  Released June 13, 2026

In this episode, we start with camping stories, fishing debates, sketchy game show ideas for our friend Kobe, and Danny’s thoughts on whether Bill Belichick should make good on his promise to caddie for him. Then the conversation turns toward a deeper question: are we actually being led and empowered by the Holy Spirit, or are we just trying to do good things in our own strength? We also talk about the Father’s love, learning to be led by God in everyday life, and whether we’re truly letting Him love us the way He wants to.

00:00 – Doing things for God without the power of the Holy Spirit?
01:27 – The guys are back, giggly, and talking about camping
02:07 – Has Paul ever actually camped?
02:32 – Is camping basically two nights of prison?
03:36 – Paul imagines coming out of jail completely unrecognizable after 48 hours
04:07 – Fishing, bugs, campfires, hikes, showers, and tick talk
05:46 – The idea of sending Kobe into Omaha with no tent turns into a game show
06:43 – “Inside the City Limits” and making Kobe survive a neighborhood park challenge
09:26 – Will catches seven fish and the conversation somehow shifts to hair
10:01 – Buzz cuts, white hair, ponytails, and questionable grooming phases
12:01 – Back to camping: tents, rain, and whether sleeping outside is worth it
13:47 – What does a full Saturday of camping actually look like?
16:16 – Camping, s’mores, shakes, and Little House on the Prairie comparisons
19:33 – US Open hopes and whether a last-minute call could happen
20:01 – Bill Belichick as Danny’s caddie? Probably not happening
21:35 – Danny reacts to Bill saying he “wasn’t that fast”
23:36 – Shinnecock, Wyoming? Golf geography gets questionable
23:53 – New York memories, sketchy pizza stops, and a wild train ride
26:05 – The conversation shifts toward what God has been stirring lately
26:52 – A convicting question: are we doing things for God without the power of the Holy Spirit?
27:42 – Are we being empowered and led by the Holy Spirit?
28:34 – Ephesians 5:18 and what it means to be filled with the Spirit
29:40 – Asking the Holy Spirit, “What do you want me to do today?”
31:27 – Are we willing to be moldable and bendable when God wants to use us?
32:19 – Why simple encouragement might matter more than we realize
33:02 – Operating in the power of the Holy Spirit in everyday life
34:00 – God wants to be in everything
35:05 – Not wanting to get in the way of how God wants to love someone
35:43 – Francis Chan, fatherhood, and feeling secure in God’s love
36:19 – “When you spend time with the Lord… do you feel like this?”
37:19 – The question of the day: are we letting the Lord love us how He wants to?
38:20 – Two convicting questions: are we Spirit-led, and are we receiving God’s love?
38:44 – Are we letting God love us, or telling Him how He’s supposed to love us?
38:53 – Final takeaway: is He leading my life, or am I leading my life?

Watch the conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Eqme5fJ_614

Build Different Podcast  |  Danny Woodhead & Paul Lanphier  |  Released June 5, 2026

In this episode, we start with some high school confessions, talk about what we'd eat and how we'd survive an apocalypse and then a shocking accusation is revealed about Paul not actually being a sports guy for the first years of his friendship with Danny. We then get more serious about fear, disappointment, unmet expectations, and the temptation to lean on our own understanding instead of believing that God has a good plan. If you’ve ever wondered whether God is still leading you in the middle of uncertainty, this one's for you.

Key Moments:

00:00 – “My life was not my plan” opening reflection on God’s direction and purpose
00:36 – Freestyling, high school confessions, and avoiding parties growing up
03:13 – Phones, distractions, and what today’s teenagers are facing
07:25 – Apocalypse survival, eating Camper, and backyard chaos
10:34 – Hawk encounters, eagle fears, and ranking favorite animals
15:03 – Golf qualifying updates and hoping for another US Open opportunity
22:40 – Paul’s fake sports fandom finally gets exposed
28:31 – Youth sports culture, club teams, and the money behind it
38:01 – The conversation shifts from chaos to trust, fear, and spiritual perspective
38:23 – The enemy’s goal to steal hope and create a victim mindset
39:47 – Trusting God with all your heart and not leaning on your own understanding
41:41 – Getting back to center: remembering that God is for you
42:19 – Why believers need each other to speak truth in hard seasons
43:37 – “When has God not shown up for you?”
44:00 – Looking back at the evidence of God’s faithfulness
45:40 – Gratitude, remembrance, and seeing God walking with you through pain
46:14 – When God’s plan doesn’t look like what you wanted
47:27 – Facing fear in a changing world and trusting that God will take care of you
47:39 – “My life was not my plan” and why God’s road was better
49:00 – God using hard seasons, football, and personal story to get people’s attention
49:57 – Signs, wonders, and seeing God’s fingerprints in your life
51:16 – “I can’t question the faithfulness of God”
52:17 – God’s blueprints versus our own plans
52:37 – The hardest part: leaning not on your own understanding
53:44 – Why it’s wild that we trust ourselves more than the Creator
54:04 – Final takeaway: trust God, trust God

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/39AbPMTDMhA

Build Different Podcast  |  Danny Woodhead & Paul Lanphier  |  Released May 22, 2026

We all go through moments where we feel stuck, overwhelmed, or like we can’t move forward on our own. In this episode, we talk about why you were never meant to do life alone—and the importance of having “mat carriers” in your life. Looking at Luke 5, we unpack the story of the paralyzed man and the friends who carried him to Jesus when he couldn’t get there himself. The question is: do you have people like that in your life… and are you willing to be that for someone else?

Key Moments:

00:00 – “We need some mat carriers in our life” - Preview
00:08 – Personal reflection: being carried to Jesus in hard moments
00:38 – “Getting in the zone” 
01:42 – Freshman football story: feeling unstoppable
03:29 – Turning 40 conversation starts
04:41 – “How old does your body feel?”
07:29 – Honest moment: “I am a little sad about turning 40”
08:11 – Reframe: “This will be the best year of my life”
09:13 – Plastic surgery / Botox / elf ears?
11:37 – San Francisco & Santa Cruz trip plans
13:07 – Dolphin conversation - Paul loves dolphins
19:26 – NFL Draft & quarterback discussion
26:32 – “Glad God didn’t let me be great—I’d be arrogant”
28:56 – Transition to Scripture (Luke 5 begins)
30:21 – The moment: friends lower the man through the roof
32:59 – Core message: “We need mat carriers in our life”
35:16 – Real-life examples of being “lowered to Jesus”
36:26 – How to be a modern day mat carrier for others
39:06 – “I’ll believe for you when you can’t”
40:34 – Why we’re meant to live in community
41:37 – Pride vs. letting people help you
42:24 – Closing: “Lower people down to Jesus… and let people lower you”

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Uxxg_kb4cuU

Build Different Podcast  |  Danny Woodhead & Paul Lanphier  |  Released May 5, 2026

I thought I knew exactly where my life was headed… until everything fell apart.

In this episode, Danny talks about what happens when your plans don’t work out the way you expected—and how God can be working in ways you don’t see.

From ridiculous debates about camping and the frequency of Paul's showering to real stories about faith, setbacks, and trusting God, this one goes deeper than we planned.

Key Moments:

00:00 – I Thought I Was Done (Life Took an Unexpected Turn)
00:20 – When God Changes Your Plans Completely
01:07 – Spring Break Stories and Dolphin Chaos
03:10 – Why Some Cities Just Feel Different
05:30 – How We Like to Travel (Very Different Styles)
06:20 – The Worst Hotel Experience Ever
08:15 – Why I’ll Never Go Camping
11:10 – What a Camping Trip Is Actually Like
13:30 – Why Camping Sounds Miserable to Me
16:20 – The No-Shower Story (You Won’t Believe This)
19:30 – Morning vs Night Shower Debate
23:30 – What Makes a Great Vacation?
30:00 – Travel, Rest, and Recharging Your Life
34:20 – When Life Feels Overwhelming
35:40 – Trusting God’s Plan (Jeremiah 29:11)
37:00 – When Everything Falls Apart Unexpectedly
39:30 – God Had a Better Plan Than I Thought
42:00 – Learning to Trust and Surrender
44:00 – Holding Onto What God Promised
47:30 – Trust God Even When It Doesn’t Make Sense

Watch our conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/2skZpIHyNTA

Build Different Podcast  |  Danny Woodhead & Paul Lanphier  |  Released April 23, 2026

This episode starts off chaotic (as usual) — from terrible (or epic?) car ideas to some wild stories about addiction and what it results in.

But then we take a turn as we talk about what it actually means that God is watching over your life — and why that’s way better than most people think.

If you’ve ever felt like God is distant, disappointed, or just waiting for you to mess up… this might completely change how you see Him.

00:00:00 – Hardest thing I’ve ever had to quit
00:00:33 – The haircut conversation begins
00:01:16 – What should our kids remember us by?
00:01:45 – Funeral perspective changes everything
00:02:44 – I want my kids to know I loved them
00:03:21 – That escalated quickly back to normal
00:04:16 – Danny: "I want a terrible car so bad"
00:05:00 – Pulling up to the country club in a beater
00:06:14 – The unhinged truck idea
00:08:20 – Paul's Wheelbarrow taxi business idea
00:09:44 – What a cigarette bender feels like
00:10:05 – I’ve smoked 25,000 cigarettes
00:12:07 – 60 cigarettes in a day
00:13:36 – Hardest thing I’ve ever had to quit (full context)
00:14:36 – Danny's First pedicure experience
00:19:05 – The face tattoo resurfaces
00:21:03 – Psalm 121 and where our help comes from
00:21:51 – There’s so much safety in that
00:22:23 – God has your life figured out
00:22:50 – God never sleeps
00:23:34 – God is watching you, but not how you think
00:23:57 – He actually enjoys watching your life
00:27:05 – God is camping out over your life
00:30:47 – God doesn’t just love you, He likes you

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Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/shorts/TTvNjzVJN6E

Build Different Podcast  |  Danny Woodhead & Paul Lanphier  |  Released April 7, 2026

We talk about the craziest healings we've seen with our own eyes even when we didn't have faith for them...

This episode starts off exactly how you’d expect… sports talk, random debates, and some absolutely ridiculous moments - but then it takes a turn.

We get real about healing — what we’ve seen, what we’ve experienced, and the tension of believing God heals… while also walking through moments where He doesn’t.

We share personal stories of miracles, answered prayers, unanswered prayers, and what it really means to trust that God is still good no matter the outcome.

If you’ve ever wrestled with questions about healing, faith, or disappointment with God — this one’s for you.

⚡ Topics we hit:

* Nebraska March Madness heartbreak (we’re still recovering)
* The most intense game we’ve ever attended
* Injuries, injections, and pain tolerance
* The wild idea of Paul entering a bodybuilding competition
* Can God heal through medicine?
* Real-life miracle stories
* What to do when healing doesn’t happen
* Why believing “God is good” changes everything

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share if this episode encouraged you.

00:00:00 – “The Wildest Healing Story Ever (Cold Open)”
00:00:40 – “We’re Back (Life Got Busy)”
00:01:12 – “Nebraska’s Heartbreaking Loss”
00:02:05 – “Why Iowa Might Be the Most Boring State Ever”
00:03:44 – “Wait… Why Are They Called That??”
00:06:29 – “What Do You Say After a Crushing Loss?”
00:08:00 – “The Most Intense Game We’ve Ever Been To”
00:11:17 – “I Thought It Was Just Pain… It Wasn’t”
00:12:23 – “Cortisone Shots Are NO Joke”
00:14:41 – “The Fake Bodybuilding Career Begins”
00:17:06 – “Mr. Olympia Dreams (Delusion Mode Activated)”
00:22:28 – “Can God Heal Through Medicine?”
00:22:41 – “What We Actually Believe About Healing”
00:23:25 – “Healing Isn’t Always Instant”
00:23:46 – “If It Doesn’t Happen… Is God Still Good?”
00:27:39 – “The Craziest Healing Story (Full Version)”
00:29:28 – “My Dad Was Almost LifeFlighted…”
00:31:00 – “The ‘Leg Growing’ Moment 👀”
00:32:31 – “What Are We Actually Called To Do?”
00:33:14 – “Just Pray for People”
00:34:08 – “The Real Healing (Bigger Than Physical)”
00:35:27 – “When Healing Doesn’t Happen”
00:36:19 – “The Enemy’s Biggest Lie”
00:36:37 – “Final Encouragement: Pray Boldly”

Build Different Podcast  |  Danny Woodhead & Paul Lanphier  |  Released April 2, 2026

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/lSYP8YpkbBY

We kick off this episode with some new stories: the spilled LaCroix trauma, a Buffalo Wild Wings phone crisis and the legendary Ohio Nachos incident. Danny then explains why Paul should never, under any circumstances, be allowed to coach in the NFL. Then our conversation takes a sharp turn into work ethic, accountability, victim mentality, and why being “busy” is not the same thing as being effective. By the end we have a powerful conversation about spiritual warfare, distraction, identity, and why sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is whisper the name of Jesus and truly put your trust in Him. 

Watch the conversation unfold on YouTube: https://youtu.be/LYqZBJLqU00

Build Different Podcast  |  Episode 13  |  Danny Woodhead & Paul Lanphier  |  Released 03/11/2026

Key Moments:

00:01:02 – The running joke: Paul constantly saying “I’m just joking.”
00:03:16 – The LaCroix spill incident and the parenting apology tour.
00:05:32 – The legendary Buffalo Wild Wings phone disappearance panic.
00:07:39 – Was the missing phone actually… spiritual warfare?
00:08:41 – The infamous Ohio Nachos lie resurfaces.
00:13:53 – Nebraska basketball depression and the psychology of sports fans.
00:19:24 – Why some coaches rise quickly in the NFL.
00:23:24 – The accountability crisis in sports and society.
00:26:05 – Why chasing career success can cost you your family.
00:34:41 – Spiritual warfare and the enemy’s main strategy: distraction.
00:44:44 – The power of speaking the name of Jesus when you’re under attack.

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How do you handle loss and adversity? What's it like to lose the Super Bowl? Can burnout be avoided? - All this and more in E12!

In this episode we start with some crazy stories from Paul's high-school days - one of which ends with "like 20 cop cars." Danny then shares how he handled haters and hecklers while playing in college and we share our conviction that youth sports (parents - we're talking to you!) have gotten out-of-control.

Some of our best life lessons came from being on a "bad" team and handling losses. Danny talks about what it was like to lose the Super Bowl and how he personally walked through it with his family. We then chat about raising resilient kids and how burnout is a trap you can take simple, concrete steps to avoid.

We hope you're strengthened and encouraged by spending this time with us! And, as Paul says, "be blessed!"

Build Different Podcast  |  Episode 12  |  Danny Woodhead & Paul Lanphier  |  Released 03/04/2026

Watch on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/Ei7UCdsOsxI

Key Moments

00:00:00 – “It’s a great life lesson to lose.” Youth sports perspective right out of the gate.
00:01:02 – The brutally honest roast of Paul's deformed Omaha hat.
00:03:02 – Instagram generosity videos and the $600K crowdfund story.
00:06:25 – “Real fight stories” begin.
00:07:48 – The egging incident that started it all.
00:10:27 – Parking lot showdown… and 15–20 cop cars show up.
00:15:08 – College hecklers call Danny out for being “short.”
00:16:13 – 200+ yards and touchdowns later… best revenge ever.
00:21:44 – Why many youth sports parents have completely lost perspective.
00:26:30 – What it’s actually like to lose the Super Bowl.
00:32:20 – Burnout, overcommitting, and people-pleasing exposed.
00:39:30 – Sabbath, trust, and what it really means to rely on God.

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#Burnout
#WorkLifeBalance
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#FaithAndFamily
#SuperBowl
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#LifeLessons
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#SportsParents
#SabbathRest
#TrustGod
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#DadLife
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What do you do when life hits hard and grief shows up unexpectedly? In this episode, we talk about real suffering, real faith, and whether God is still good in the middle of it all. But first, we begin with arthritis complaints, fake medical credentials, tornado sirens, and whether neck tattoos are spiritually responsible decisions. Along the way, we debate Adam Sandler movies, sneaking into theaters, high school basketball trauma, and if a middle-aged man could lead a powerhouse football team to a state title.

But then life gets real. A fresh family crisis opens up an honest conversation about grief, memory loss, and watching someone you love slowly fade. In the middle of it all, we wrestle with one big question: Is God still good when suffering shows up? And how do we actually receive comfort so we can give it to others?

Build Different Podcast | Episode 11 | Danny Woodhead & Paul Lanphier | Released 02/23/2026

Watch on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/haHDb7-nzTU

Key Moments

00:00 – Elite Medical Advice
“Three enemas and four ibuprofen” might not be FDA approved.

02:34 – Windex Heals Everything
My Big Fat Greek Wedding treatment for arthritis pain.

06:32 – We’re Doctors… of Life
Not licensed. But confident.

07:24 – The Friendly Tornado Personality
A breakdown of emotional vortexes and survival strategies.

12:05 – Kicked Out of the Movie Theater
Mom calls mid-date. Immediate humiliation.

14:01 – Billy Madison Is Biblical?
Childlike faith… via Adam Sandler?

15:57 – Celebrity Look-Alike Debate
Gerard Butler? Mark Wahlberg? Leonardo DiCaprio? (Debatable.)

20:34 – The Anthony Kim Comeback Story
Injury, addiction, redemption, and God’s grace.

27:00 – “Life Comes at You Fast”
Achilles injuries, tattoos, and perspective.

30:07 – Family Crisis Hits
A grandmother’s sudden decline shifts the tone.

31:59 – 2 Corinthians 1:3–4
The God of all comfort in the middle of grief.

41:00 – How to Actually Receive Comfort
Vulnerability, community, and letting others in.

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