KW is a Licensed Professional Counselor who was identified as AuDHD in his 30s. He lives with his neurodivergent spouse and five fur-kids in Midwest-USA. He is an artist, writer, photographer, and musician. At present, he is excited to be creating his first podcast: a music deep dive show that will air on the Autistic Culture Podcast Network this summer. He shares his diagnosis journey, his passions, and the process of "unbecoming" as he unmasks.
00:13 Introductions
01:28 KW's diagnosis journey including suicidality and trauma from being misunderstood * Trigger Warning *
04:45 KW's process of becoming a Licensed Professional Counselor
05:12 KW's confusion about diagnosis despite being an LPC
05:28 The therapist that suggested KW should be assessed for ADHD
06:43 Why KW became a counselor
08:32 The necessity of unpacking your own "stuff" as a counselor
09:00 How becoming a counselor was rewarding for KW
10:08 KW's reflections on providing a safe space for his clients and being your authentic self
11:37 KW's first session conversation with his clients
12:12 KW's case load of Autistic middle and high school boys before he understood Autism and instinctually following the client's lead
15:28 KW's lived experience presentation to his co-workers *Trigger Warning*
17:42 Turrell's response to KW's list of personal characteristics he had accumulated
19:10 KW's response to the value of having supportive people in your life
21:13 KW's most powerful realization and best advice
23:03 Daria's response to KW's lived experience of having personal support
23:58 The importance of seeking out support
25:01 The importance of letting go of fear when it's necessary to move on from what doesn't feel right
25:55 KW reconceptualizing himself as a musician, writer, photographer, and an artist starting with his love of music and his favourite band
26:25 Daria's response to KW
27:25 Reconnecting with his creativity as he unmasks
30:30 Maya Angelou's inspiring quote and KW's focus on "unbecoming"
31:11 KW's passion for music
33:36 KW's upcoming podcast mini-series on the Autistic Culture Podcast Network
35:27 Turrell's upcoming podcast mini-series on the Autistic Culture Podcast Network
36:09 The Autistic appreciation of sharing passionate interests
36:47 Wrap-Up
KW on Substack: https://substack.com/@mraskmore?r=3cfq85&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=stories&shareImageVariant=light
DIRFloortime https://affectautism.com/what-is-dirfloortime/
The Late Diagnosis Club https://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/
Maya Angelou's most famous quote on creativity is: "You can't use up creativity. The more you use, the more you have."
KW's favourite band The Color Morale
https://fearlessrecords.com/artists/the-color-morale/
Turrell's and my past episode on our love of the band Nirvana https://affectautism.com/autistic-viewpoints/
Another band KW is a fan of "Good Charlotte" https://www.goodcharlotte.com/
* Thank you to Hungarian recording artist Post Analog Disorder for the intro/outro music permission: https://postanalogdisorder.bandcamp.com/album/still-i-rise