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  • Announcement: Podcast Hiatus

    Hey friends! I wanted you all to know that the podcast is going to be taking a hiatus for the summer. I feel good about this decision, but it is bittersweet. I hope to know more about what the future holds for the podcast at the end of the summer. Thanks to listeners, guests, and patrons for going on this journey with me and sharing your wisdom and support.

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  • Episode 58: Financial Therapy with Elizabeth Hand

    In this episode I talk with Liz Hand about finances, reading financial tea leaves, helping women navigate their finances, and how to value simplicity and plan for retirement.

    Guest Plugs

    • YouTube Channel - Pleasant Financial Conversations : https://www.youtube.com/c/elizabethhandcfp
    • Pleasant Financial Conversations Online Community for Women: https://www.facebook.com/groups/pleasantfinancialconversations
    • LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/elizabethkhand
    • Website: www.pleasantwealth.com
    • Show Notes

      • Emergent Strategy by Adrienne Maree Brown - https://www.akpress.org/emergentstrategy.html
      • Carl Richards - https://behaviorgap.com/
      • The One Page Financial Plan by Carl Richards - https://www.amazon.com/One-Page-Financial-Plan-Simple-Smart/dp/1591847559
      • George Kinder - Certified Life Planner - https://www.kinderinstitute.com/george-kinder/
      • George Kinder Three Questions About Life Planning - https://www.getrichslowly.org/george-kinder-three-questions-about-life-planning/
      • God the Economist by M. Douglas Meeks - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/601496.God_the_Economist
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        Special Guest: Liz Hand.

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        58 min
      • Episode 57: To Dialogue or Not? with Aranza Torres

        In this episode I talk to Aranza Torres about dialogue, what’s it for, when to have it and when to walk away. Will it bring us to a glorious harmonious future? Or will it fail us miserably? Is there a third option? I’m hoping Aranza will be a recurring guest to talk about questions, ideas, and topics like this.

        Show Notes

        • Just One Listen Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/podcast-review-we-dont-talk-about-that-with-lucas-land/id1555172135?i=1000518681755
        • The Spectrum of Allies - https://world.350.org/colorado/files/2015/02/Spectrum-of-Allies2FTarget-Audience-Development-.pdf
        • It Could Happen Here Podcast - https://www.iheart.com/podcast/1119-it-could-happen-here-30717896/
        • XKCD Comic - https://xkcd.com/386/
        • Community Centric Fundraising - https://communitycentricfundraising.org/
        • Code Switch - https://www.npr.org/podcasts/510312/codeswitch
        • Radio Ambulante - https://radioambulante.org/en
        • El Hilo - https://elhilo.audio/
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          Special Guest: Aranza Torres.

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          58 min
        • Episode 56: Healthy Boundaries with Lauren da Silva Part 2

          I talk to Lauren da Silva about boundaries, what they are, how they work, normalizing codependency, and knowing what is our responsibility and what is not. This is part two of this conversation. If you missed part one, you might want to go back and listen to that first.

          State of the Podcast 2020 - https://wdtatpodcast.com/sop2020

          Guest Plugs

          • Website - http://laurendasilva.org
          • The Heart-Centered Woman's Guide to Healthy Boundaries - https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Centered-Womans-Guide-Healthy-Boundaries-ebook/dp/B08YNVB4VC
          • Healthy Boundaries for Heart-Centered Women: Burning Out To Boundaries Bosses Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/831898147554776
          • Show Notes

            • Codependency - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Codependency
            • Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend - https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-When-Take-Control-Your/dp/0310247454
            • Ubuntu - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ubuntu_philosophy
            • Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High by Kerry Patterson - https://www.amazon.com/Crucial-Conversations-Talking-Stakes-Second/dp/1469266822
            • Brene Brown - https://brenebrown.com/
            • Black Lives Matter - https://blacklivesmatter.com/
            • Prayer of St. Francis - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prayer_of_Saint_Francis
            • Nonviolent Communication - https://www.cnvc.org/
            • Nedra Glover Tawwab - https://www.nedratawwab.com/my-book
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              Special Guest: Lauren da Silva.

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              55 min
            • Episode 55: Healthy Boundaries with Lauren da Silva Part 1

              I talk to Lauren da Silva about boundaries, responsibility, ownership, normalizing codependency, and knowing what is our responsibility and what is not.

              State of the Podcast 2020 - https://wdtatpodcast.com/sop2020

              Guest Plugs

              • Website - http://laurendasilva.org
              • The Heart-Centered Woman's Guide to Healthy Boundaries - https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Centered-Womans-Guide-Healthy-Boundaries-ebook/dp/B08YNVB4VC
              • Show Notes

                • Codependency - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Codependency
                • Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend - https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-When-Take-Control-Your/dp/0310247454
                • Ubuntu - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ubuntu_philosophy
                • Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High by Kerry Patterson - https://www.amazon.com/Crucial-Conversations-Talking-Stakes-Second/dp/1469266822
                • Brene Brown - https://brenebrown.com/
                • Black Lives Matter - https://blacklivesmatter.com/
                • Prayer of St. Francis - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prayer_of_Saint_Francis
                • Nonviolent Communication - https://www.cnvc.org/
                • Nedra Glover Tawwab - https://www.nedratawwab.com/my-book
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                  Special Guest: Lauren da Silva.

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                  40 min
                • Episode 54: Southern Discomfort with Josina Guess Part 2

                  I talk to Josina Guess about our relationship with the South, why writing matters, microagressions, where we're "really" from, and white dudes like me "discovering" things. This is part two of my conversation with Josina.

                  Guest Plugs

                  • Website - https://www.josinaguess.com/
                  • Bitter Southerner - https://bittersoutherner.com
                  • Bitter Southerner Podcast - https://bittersoutherner.com/podcast-season-2
                  • Show Notes

                    • Vincent Harding - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vincent_Harding
                    • Dixiecrats - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dixiecrat
                    • Jim Crow - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jim_Crow_laws
                    • Southern Strategy - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Southern_strategy
                    • What kind of Asian are you? - https://youtu.be/DWynJkN5HbQ
                    • Microagressions - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Microaggression
                    • 4 Reasons Why We’ve Got to Stop Using ‘Ethnic’ to Describe People of Color - https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/07/stop-using-ethnic-to-describe-poc/
                    • Harriet Lerner and Brené I’m Sorry: How To Apologize & Why It Matters - https://brenebrown.com/podcast/harriet-lerner-and-brene-im-sorry-how-to-apologize-why-it-matters/
                    • The Watchmen - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7049682/
                    • Black Wall Street & TulsaRace Massacre - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tulsa_race_massacre
                    • Quaker/Friends Meeting - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quakers
                    • Nelson Mandela - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nelson_Mandela
                    • Frederick Douglass - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frederick_Douglass
                    • Rigoberta Menchu - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rigoberta_Mench%C3%BA
                    • Girl Trek’s Black History Boot Camp - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girltreks-black-history-bootcamp/id1516334638
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                      Special Guest: Josina Guess.

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                      38 min
                    • Episode 53: Southern Discomfort with Josina Guess Part 1

                      I talk to Josina Guess about our relationship with the South, why writing matters, microagressions, where we're "really" from, and white dudes like me "discovering" things. This is part one of two so make sure to check back for the conclusion of this conversation soon!

                      Guest Plugs

                      • Website - https://www.josinaguess.com/
                      • Bitter Southerner - https://bittersoutherner.com
                      • Bitter Southerner Podcast - https://bittersoutherner.com/podcast-season-2
                      • Show Notes

                        • Vincent Harding - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vincent_Harding
                        • Dixiecrats - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dixiecrat
                        • Jim Crow - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jim_Crow_laws
                        • Southern Strategy - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Southern_strategy
                        • What kind of Asian are you? - https://youtu.be/DWynJkN5HbQ
                        • Microagressions - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Microaggression
                        • 4 Reasons Why We’ve Got to Stop Using ‘Ethnic’ to Describe People of Color - https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/07/stop-using-ethnic-to-describe-poc/
                        • Harriet Lerner and Brené I’m Sorry: How To Apologize & Why It Matters - https://brenebrown.com/podcast/harriet-lerner-and-brene-im-sorry-how-to-apologize-why-it-matters/
                        • The Watchmen - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7049682/
                        • Black Wall Street & TulsaRace Massacre - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tulsa_race_massacre
                        • Quaker/Friends Meeting - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quakers
                        • Nelson Mandela - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nelson_Mandela
                        • Frederick Douglass - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frederick_Douglass
                        • Rigoberta Menchu - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rigoberta_Mench%C3%BA
                        • Girl Trek’s Black History Boot Camp - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girltreks-black-history-bootcamp/id1516334638
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                          Special Guest: Josina Guess.

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                          38 min
                        • Episode 52: Hypnosis with Douglas Sands

                          I talk with Douglas Sands about hypnosis, what it is, how it can help people, and whether or not I can be hypnotized on air.

                          Guest Plugs

                          • Anywhere Hypnosis - https://www.anywherehypnosis.com
                          • Making Meaning Podcast - https://www.anywherehypnosis.com/podcast
                          • Free Hypno Fridays on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/makingyourmeaning/
                          • Anti-anxiety Toolkit - https://www.anywherehypnosis.com/anxiety-7-tools
                          • Show Notes

                            • NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming
                            • Tony Robbins - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tony_Robbins
                            • Milton Erickson - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Milton_H._Erickson _
                            • Is Hypnosis Real? - https://www.healthline.com/health/is-hypnosis-real
                            • The Truth About Hypnosis - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/think-well/201301/the-truth-about-hypnosis
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                              Special Guest: Douglas Sands.

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                              37 min
                            • Episode 51: Understanding Islam with Ammar Ilyas

                              I talk to Ammar Ilyas about being Muslim, the Five Pillars of Islam, and I confess that I need more jihad in my life.

                              Guest Plugs

                              • Let’s Agree to Disagree - https://agreetodisagree.buzzsprout.com/
                              • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/_letsagreetodisagree/
                              • Show Notes

                                • Five Pillars of Islam - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Five_Pillars_of_Islam
                                • SUNNI vs SHIA: 9 Differences of Islam's Major Denominations Explained - https://youtu.be/z5lY6S5l5FQ
                                • Nouman Ali Khan's Bayyinah Institute for Arabic and Qur’anic Studies - https://bayyinah.com/
                                • Imam Omar Suleiman - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Omar_Suleiman_(imam) _
                                • Yaqeen Institute - https://yaqeeninstitute.org/
                                • Yaqeen Institute YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3vHW2h22WE-pNi5WJtRIjg
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                                  Special Guest: Ammar Ilyas.

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                                  44 min
                                • Episode 50: Agree to Disagree with Ammar Ilyas

                                  I talk to Ammar Ilyas about his podcast Let's Agree to Disagree. We talk about why we started our podcasts, what we've learned, and what we're still learning.

                                  Guest Plugs

                                  • Let’s Agree to Disagree - https://agreetodisagree.buzzsprout.com/
                                  • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/_letsagreetodisagree/
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                                    Special Guest: Ammar Ilyas.

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                                    52 min

                                  About We Don't Talk About That

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                                  The podcast where we talk about things we're not supposed to, learn how to have difficult conversations, and talk to people about what makes them different.