In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack the meaning of the "soft life" for Black women, exploring how it intersects with cultural narratives, gender roles, and personal well-being. They examine the origins of the trend, the weight of the “strong Black woman” archetype, and how social media has reshaped perceptions of ease, luxury, and femininity. The conversation also dives into relationship dynamics, the economics of independence, and the importance of self-care and mental health. Throughout, the hosts emphasize that softness isn’t defined by material comfort—but by a mindset rooted in peace, boundaries, and intentional living. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into everything from their weekend recaps to the messy realities of modern relationships. They unpack Diddy’s latest legal troubles and the ripple effects of abuse and scamming within the community. The conversation takes an unfiltered turn into the idea of “dixcipline”—the practice of sexual discipline—and why it matters. Exploring the push and pull between masculinity and femininity, the hosts reflect on the state of the Black community and the power of self-awareness. With their signature humor and honesty, they wrap up with a reminder to stay mindful, stay disciplined, and make choices that align with self-respect. 

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off by recapping their weekend adventures and reflecting on themes of celebration, self-image, and growth. The conversation dives into the world of situationships, unpacking the emotional gray areas and the pressure of societal expectations in modern dating. As they share personal stories and honest perspectives, the hosts explore how views on love and commitment evolve—especially as women prioritize emotional stability and compatibility over fairy tale endings. With humor and candor, they highlight the importance of clarity, self-awareness, and the courage it takes to navigate connection in today’s dating landscape. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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In this week's episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack the latest SINS—from David Banner’s viral take on cheating and accountability to Cardi B’s album announcement and Offset’s unexpected celebrity crush on Sabrina Carpenter. Later, they’re joined by Emmy-nominated journalist Simone Boyce for an insightful conversation on authenticity, representation, and resilience in media. Simone reflects on her journey as a biracial journalist, the challenges of freelance reporting, and the evolving influence of social media and AI in shaping public narratives. With humor and honesty, the discussion explores what it takes to navigate the industry with integrity—ending with a rapid-fire round that puts a modern spin on the state of journalism today. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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This week on We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their weekends before diving into their S.I.N.S. of the week—starting with the lawsuit against Tyler Perry (and you know TamBam had something to say about that). The conversation takes a serious turn as they reflect on the heartbreaking news of former MTV VJ Ananda Lewis's passing from breast cancer, emphasizing health awareness and the benefits of natural products. The hosts also lighten the mood with hilarious takes on workplace harassment and a wild story of divorce deception. For the main discussion, they honor Juneteenth by exploring its historical roots, the ongoing fight against historical erasure, and the power of community in preserving cultural identity. It’s a call to action, reflection, and celebration—because real freedom means knowing your history. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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This week on We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a recap of AJ’s birthday festivities and weekend highlights. During their S.I.N.S. of the week, they cover everything from Keith Sweat’s comments on modern women to Coco Gauff’s big win, and Kevin Hunter’s tell-all about his relationship with Wendy Williams. TamBam also makes it known—don’t come for Tyler Perry in her presence. That leads into this week’s movie review: Acrimony. The ladies dive into themes of sacrifice, mental health, loyalty, and the emotional toll relationships take on Black women. Through it all, they challenge the expectations placed on women and explore what it really means to love, lose, and let go. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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This week on the pod, Tambam and AJ Holiday break down their S.I.N.S of the week, starting with a new study claiming women prefer traditionally masculine men. They also unpack recent comments from rapper and media personality, Cam’ron on the Diddy trial, adding their own insights to the ongoing conversation. Later, the duo dives into the difference between “clinical” thinking and what they cheekily call “clitical” thinking—highlighting how emotions, intuition, and logic show up differently in decision-making. You ever heard of clitical thinking? Let’s discuss. 

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This week, AJ Holiday and Tambam kick things off by recapping their weekend, including a stressful ER visit for AJ’s beloved cat. During their S.I.N.S. segment, they unpack the public fallout between Remy Ma and Papoose, and weigh in on a couple who made headlines for charging guests to attend their wedding. The conversation then shifts to Dawn Richard’s controversial testimony in the ongoing Diddy trial, sparking a deeper dialogue around loyalty and accountability. Later, the hosts dive into the main topic—examining the roles and expectations in romantic relationships. Is it wise to take on “wifey” duties without the ring? Tap in as they explore the pros, cons, and cultural pressures surrounding partnership dynamics. Tap in and join the conversation.

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This week on We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tambam unpack their S.I.N.S of the week, including public reactions to the Nottoway Plantation burning down, the custody battle involving Halle Bailey and DDG, and the bizarre story of a woman found alive after missing for three weeks in the California mountains. The conversation then shifts to a deeper analysis of the legal controversies surrounding Sean “Diddy” Combs and Tory Lanez. The hosts explore layered topics such as abuse, victimhood, power, and complicity—raising important questions about accountability, celebrity culture, and public empathy. They also examine the nuances of false accusations and the long-term impact of high-profile legal battles on survivors and the accused alike. Tap in and join the conversation.

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This week on We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tambam dive into their S.I.N.S. of the week, unpacking everything from Toni Braxton’s headline-making graduation outfit to a recent stabbing incident involving Tory Lanez. They also reflect on Marlon Wayans’ relationship with his mother and how it may have shaped his perspective on commitment. The conversation then shifts to the rise of social media panhandling—where people request money online, sometimes from total strangers. With humor and honesty, the hosts share personal stories, question the ethics of digital fundraising, and explore the fine line between need and manipulation in the era of GoFundMe culture. Tap in and join the conversation.

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