We Talk Back

AJ Holiday and TamBam return to We Talk Back with their signature unfiltered humor, catching up on Tam becoming a “grandma” after her cat Dasha gives birth to kittens, Costco adventures, and Black college homecoming season, including AJ’s Benedict College homecoming experience and concerns about event safety. The conversation takes a serious turn as the ladies react to reports about Laurence Fishburne acknowledging past domestic abuse while portraying Ike Turner, sparking a discussion about intimate partner violence, consent, trauma, and accountability. They also examine research linking supportive partners to career success and debate masculinity, dating expectations, and gender roles following Justice Smith’s comments about no longer dating women.

The ladies then dive into the episode’s central debate: Should men be more generous with women, and is generosity about more than money? Exploring the spiritual connection between money, energy, giving, and receiving, AJ and TamBam challenge traditional relationship dynamics while emphasizing mutual respect, emotional investment, and financial generosity. From recognizing when a relationship becomes transactional to knowing when to walk away from resentment and disrespect, the duo delivers a candid conversation about love, boundaries, self-worth, and what it really means to show up for your partner. 

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*Originally aired January 21st, 2021

On the first episode of "We Talk Back" listeners will meet co-host AJ and Tambam! These ladies kick off the episode with a favorite random "Sex fact" of the day. AJ & Tambam speak with three gentleman, all from different backgrounds, but one thing they have in common is their familiarity with the term cheating. We all understand the emotional distress caused by stepping out on a partner, especially if the partner finds out, so AJ and Tambam explore to find out what is the reason for the cheating? 

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AJ Holiday and TamBam welcome Chantal Heide, known as “Canada’s Dating Coach” and author of No More Assholes, to We Talk Back for an unfiltered conversation about modern dating, relationship standards, and the importance of boundaries. Chantal breaks down her “corporate model” for intentional dating, encouraging women to date multiple people while avoiding kissing, sex, sleepovers, and exclusivity for at least three months. She explains the difference between “guys” and “men,” challenges questions about body count, and argues that rushing physical intimacy can make it harder to recognize red flags and walk away from unhealthy relationships.

Drawing from 20 years as a stripper, her personal dating experiences, and the journey to meeting her husband, Chantal shares why screening potential partners matters just as much as setting boundaries. The conversation explores emotional attachment, self-worth, meditation, accountability, and choosing long-term compatibility over instant chemistry. Ultimately, AJ, TamBam, and Chantal challenge listeners to rethink their dating habits, communicate expectations early, and prioritize character, consistency, and emotional maturity when looking for lasting love. 

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AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after AJ’s relaxing Jamaica getaway and Tam’s busy salon season before jumping into “SINS.” They debate whether Savannah James should be expected to upgrade a friend from coach to first class, defend Jasmine Guy against criticism of her appearance surrounding the A Different World revival, and discuss Kendrick Sampson’s comments about potentially having children with close female friends rather than within romantic relationships.

For the main topic, AJ and Tam explore “cliteracy,” inspired by Regina Thomashure’s Pussy: A Reclamation, and the importance of understanding and communicating what brings you pleasure. The candid conversation covers desire, boundaries, sexual communication, faking orgasms, and becoming more comfortable expressing your needs, before closing with a self-date exercise centered on self-care, affirmation, and prioritizing yourself. 

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with some Jamaica banter before diving into “SINS,” including a disturbing Florida arrest involving alleged bestiality caught on home surveillance and reported changes involving FBI background-check disqualifiers. They also react to the controversy surrounding Every Woman, artist Tschabalala Self’s new “Lady in Blue” sculpture in London’s Trafalgar Square, before unpacking racism, prejudice, and violence within communities. The conversation gets even more personal after discussing a Kansas man who discovered a racial slur printed on an oil-change sticker from a Ford dealership.

For the main topic, AJ and TamBam ask a question many people confront after a relationship ends: Did you waste your time—or did you stay too long? They unpack why women may feel the weight of lost time differently, accountability for ignoring signs and overstaying relationships, biological clocks, boundaries, and the contrast between women regretting time invested and men regretting money spent. Ultimately, the ladies encourage listeners to choose themselves, demand reciprocity, stop waiting for the “perfect” time to make a change, and release relationships and situations that no longer serve them to create space for something better.

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after Labor Day, from AJ hosting her mom’s 70th birthday celebration at Smoke and Bubbles in Columbia, South Carolina, to Tam preparing for a girls trip to Jamaica—with white Hennessy and parasite cleansers on the shopping list. During “SINS,” they react to Boosie Badazz’s 60 Minutes appearance, where he said he paid $600,000 to consultants while seeking a presidential pardon that he never received, sparking a debate over whether publicly exposing the situation counts as “snitching.” They also discuss the reported death of 22-year-old rapper Bloodhound Q50, social media and safety, and a viral conversation about escaping from a Tesla during an emergency.

AJ and TamBam then unpack the Lindsay Clancy case, which ended in a mistrial after jurors deadlocked 11–1, and the intense backlash and scrutiny surrounding the holdout juror. They compare the conversation surrounding Clancy with the case of Latarsha Sanders, whose Massachusetts murder conviction was overturned after the state’s highest court ruled that excluding medical records related to her mental-health defense was prejudicial error. After the break, the hosts debate whether moving abroad really offers a better life, weighing peace and quality of life against taxes, healthcare, racism, cost of living, and the glamorized version of expat life often presented online. They close with practical thoughts on rebuilding community abroad and using astrocartography as one tool for exploring where your next chapter could take you.

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap Labor Day, from AJ buying a new bike to conversations about drinking, accountability, and why splitting the bill doesn’t qualify as a date. During “SINS,” they react to backlash over DaBaby’s Charlotte restaurant and its viral menu prices, sparking a debate about Black-owned businesses, food quality, customer expectations, and price gouging. They also discuss a viral video of a mother calling police after being attacked by her son, weighing safety and mental health against sharing family crises online, before unpacking a cruise scam involving $1,100, a canceled reservation, and a very public confrontation.

After the break, Selling Tampa star Juawana Colbert joins AJ and TamBam to reveal what happens when reality TV meets real life. She opens up about production manipulation, restrictive contracts, and how appearing on television impacted her personal life and business, while sharing lessons from transitioning beyond the show. Juawana also discusses her continued work in real estate and entrepreneurship, including The Sip Room and Pilates and Pretty Vibes Charlotte, and how she’s building her next chapter beyond reality TV. 

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after low-key weekends before debating rising grocery prices, the cost of eating out, a wild DoorDash accident story, and AJ’s experience volunteering through the Be My Eyes app. During “SINS,” they dive into a shocking Canadian sperm donor case involving a father and son who allegedly fathered more than 600 children, raising concerns about donor regulation, genetic risks, and people turning to informal Facebook groups to find sperm donors. They also react to the conviction of Duane “Keefe D” Davis in the murder of Tupac Shakur after years of public statements surrounding the case, before unpacking viral scam stories involving a woman accused of faking her way into Duke’s physician assistant program and a man who allegedly impersonated a San Francisco 49ers player to scam 26 women out of $1.3 million.

For the main conversation, “Till Debt Do Us Part,” AJ and TamBam tackle the uncomfortable realities of lending money to friends, family, and romantic partners. They debate proper repayment etiquette, whether paying someone back in installments is acceptable, how loans can complicate family relationships, and the warning signs that usually mean your money isn’t coming back. From setting financial boundaries to deciding whether some loans should simply be considered gifts, the hosts offer plenty of laughs and relatable lessons about money, relationships, and accountability—before sending one final message to everyone with an outstanding debt: if you owe somebody money, send it.

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap a chaotic weekend, from AJ balancing nonstop work, family time, and a broken-pinky scare to Tam dealing with a home-improvement nightmare after installers allegedly drilled into a sprinkler line, flooding her home and leading to firefighters cutting into the wall to stop the damage. The hosts then turn to the latest viral conversations, discussing domestic abuse allegations involving social media relationship personality Yadon Yada and Aj'a, while emphasizing the importance of financial independence and recognizing unhealthy relationship dynamics. They also react to Texas tightening penalties around certain THC products and lighten the mood with a “men only” social media thread debating women’s fashion and beauty trends, including bonnets and oversized lashes.

After the break, professional sports bettor Elizabeth Taylor Conley Marcel joins the show to break down sports betting for beginners, explaining everything from moneylines and point spreads to over/unders, prop bets, and understanding odds. She shares how research and strategy influence her picks, why disciplined bankroll management is essential, and how bettors can avoid making emotional decisions while remembering that sportsbooks are designed to maintain an advantage. Blending relationships, viral news, personal chaos, and practical sports betting education, this episode delivers another entertaining mix of humor, real-life conversation, and useful game. 

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In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a hilarious debate over South Carolina slang, arguing whether “bo” belongs to Charleston or Columbia before recapping their weekends and teasing the Patreon with details from AJ’s latest date. The conversation turns to Young Thug’s court-ordered school appearance, where the hosts react to reports that he told students “fame is the most important thing” and debate the potential impact of that message on young people. AJ and TamBam also unpack the complicated case of a surrogate who reportedly traveled to Texas to give birth after refusing to follow an abortion provision in her agreement when the baby was diagnosed with serious heart conditions, sparking a nuanced discussion about bodily autonomy, surrogacy contracts, parental expectations, and quality of life.

After the break, the hosts lighten things up with “Smash or Pass: Lifestyle Edition,” putting modern dating, relationships, money, and everyday habits under the microscope. AJ and TamBam weigh in on dating someone with children, large age gaps, living together before marriage, long-distance relationships, separate bedrooms, joint bank accounts, splitting bills, quick engagements, prenups, lending partners money, and navigating major income differences. They also debate designer spending and financing, quitting a job while in a relationship, GLP-1 medications, Botox, long voice notes, bonnets in public, and plenty more. Funny, candid, and relatable, the episode explores which lifestyle differences are worth compromising on—and which ones are an automatic pass. 

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