We Were Fighting Before This

Pickleball recap, dealing with haters, and should you let friends borrow money? 

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:30 Pickleball video thoughts 

15:35 Dealing w/ online stalkers 

20:21 Being hyper aware as a woman 

22:24 Getting pepper sprayed

24:30 Riding in Ubers by yourself 

26:11 Yvonne’s Ultrasound appointment 

29:25 Seeing yourself in the mirror 

31:16 Asking a friend for money 

32:10 Toast lending a friend money 

36:54 Why Toast pays in group settings

39:11 Why Toast is pissed at his friends

41:20 The Vegas dinner re-explained 

45:46 Toast getting upset with an employee

47:35 Calgary trip 

49:50 What would happen if Toast did nothing 

51:55 Chelsea’s Miami trip 

53:57 Toast’s autistic comments 

55:32 Women paying for men 

1:02:10 Toast’s dating experience with $ 

1:07:03 High value man? High value woman? 

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The big 6 7 episode is here... 

Timestamps: 

00:00 EPISODE 6 7 

1:01 Yvonne’s bday! 

3:50 Happier in your 30’s or 20’s? 

4:55 Yvonne’s bday present prank 

8:10 Scarra’s bday present for Yvonne 

10:05 Congrats to DSG! 

11:44 Getting affected by comments 

13:15 Life of esports player 

16:45 Yvonne’s NFL trip 

19:40 Reflecting on the bro podcast

21:27 Thoughts on Nate

22:50 Chelsea calls out Nate 

24:03 Dissecting Chelsea 

28:55 Who’s the biggest ragebaiter in OTV 

30:20 How Yvonne feels deals with Toast

32:10 Did Scarra cross the line? 

35:01 Crossing the line with friends

37:45 Toast judges Chelsea

40:21 WWFBT book club? 

43:35 Raw dogging activities 

46:01 Taking business vs first class 

49:10 Pickleball video coming soon! 

53:16 Blind dating for Yvonne! 

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The boys take over! A full episode of Toast and Scarra and Nate chatting about life and it's changes and challenges. 

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

1:35 Male friendships 

6:01 Men and sports 

8:28 DSG wins in Riftbound! 

12:01 Toast and Scarra’s thoughts about events

15:12 Scarra’s favorite thing about Chelsea

16:40 Toast “celebrates” Chelsea 

21:03 The boys thoughts on Yvonne…. 

21:22 Why is Chelsea stressed 

23:43 Reading mean comments 

24:45 Toast’s thoughts on being alone 

25:55 Growing up as a man 

27:30 Living alone and being ok being alone

32:45 Benefits of being dragged out 

34:15 It’s hard to ask for help 

37:45 Leaving the door open for others

39:00 Scarra doesn’t ask Toast to hangout 

42:44 Being thankful for hangouts 

44:47 Trauma dumping on strangers

49:42 You can tell when your friends are struggling 

51:00 The Knicks game breakup 

54:02 Validating someone’s feelings 

56:30 Are men jealous of other men

58:45 Yvonne’s friends that she invites 

1:00:35 Toast recognizes he’s hard on Yvonne 

1:06:39 Toast wants to be alone but he still cares

1:09:22 Is Leslie and Nate extroverted? 

1:12:30 The art of putting together a content friend group

1:17:00 Finding the right balance between friends 

1:19:45 Would Chelsea and Toast be friends on the outside? 

1:20:10 Chelsea and her brother 

1:21:45 Pickleball video coming up! 

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 Toast is back in town and we have a lot to catch up on... 

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

1:01 Toast is back in town 

4:36 Is life different without Toast? 

9:15 Yvonne’s apartment is cozy 

10:10 Is Yvonne family? 

11:47 Yvonne questions Toast… 

13:03 Toast doesn’t want Chelsea to help him 

15:05 Chelsea’s HOT questions for Toast 

17:36 Is Yvonne an ally to men?

22:02 How many times have we hooked up 

24:44 Yvonne lists five men she respects 

25:30 Has Yvonne ever helped out Toast 

29:25 Setting boundaries with fans 

32:05 How can Yvonne celebrate Toast more 

33:21 AAPI months thoughts

36:00 Toast can’t make it to Yvonne’s BDAY 

38:20 Why do asians go to raves? 

43:12 Toast and Scarra have the same bday 

45:32 Introvert vs Extrovert personalities 

46:45 Eating alone at a restaurant 

49:50 Chelsea’s alone alot 

51:16 Toast likes to sleep on the floor ALONE 

54:50 Sleeping in separate rooms 

56:34 Who has the higher social battery? 

1:01:00 Toast hasn't made a new friend

1:03:21 Chelsea has a friend for Toast

1:05:51 Yvonne’s first date ettiequte 

1:08:34 Google-ing Yvonne on the first date 

1:10:41 How much $ would it take to be a stay at home mom/dad

1:17:55 Leaving mean comments online 

1:20:13 Who’s ragebaiting who?? 

1:22:30 Playing your attractive cards 

1:23:27 Flexing your car 

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Yvonne's accidental date might have been a blessing in disguise... This week, Toast forces the pod to play pickleball, stay tuned...

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Timestamps: 

00:00 intro 

1:13 The podcast lives on 

3:01 Toast thinks Yvonne is going through it

4:28 Does Toast have friends for Yvonne? 

5:50 Guys going for the same girl…

8:03 Yvonne and Leslie hypotheticals 

11:00 Can a woman or man be bumped up to a 10

12:01 Rewatching older clips 

13:20 Chelsea reviews if she is biased 

16:35 Fighting women on a public platform 

19:22 Fighting men on a public platform 

21:42 Yvonne’s rude date 

25:02 Creators feeling privileged 

27:11 Being direct 

30:28 Chelsea’s animation friend

31:33 Who’s the funniest OTV member 

37:40 What Toast is consuming these days

38:52 Peak OTV days 

40:20 Creative rut 

44:45 Predicting life 

45:55 Toast wants to play pickleball 

48:44 Toast comments on Yvonnes weight 

53:10 Yvonne’s been working out! 

55:04 Chelsea invites Scarra to play pickleball…

57:20 Tune in when we all play pickleball… 

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The trio is back together and Toast and Yvonne need to address the past couple of episodes...

Timestamps: 00:17 Intro 
1:04 Singapore trip + tournament drama
7:06 Is AI more accepted in Asia?
8:32 Toast’s mom watches the podcast
9:24 Is Toast being “squished into a ball”?
10:38 Does Toast need more backup?
12:56 Toast admits to rage baiting
15:04 How Toast & Yvonne handle tension
18:23 Chelsea is scared of the YouTube comments
20:05 Nate is secretly rage baiting??
21:11 Content creators vs pro gamers
24:22 Toast's Collab with Yunjin
28:50 OTV x SB19 Fear Pong
34:25 Team Toast vs Team Yvonne in Singapore
36:28 Pickleball + badminton in Singapore
37:37 Traveling with Toast’s mom
38:58 What relationships have taught us
50:21 Dating app openers 
51:48 Our upcoming blind dating episode…
53:44 Has the podcast affected our relationships?
57:02 Outro 

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 Scarra and Chelsea are back together for round 2! This time Chelsea needs answers. 

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Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:45 Scarra’s here!! Again…

2:18 Are Chelsea and Scarra friends now?

3:10 Getting Scarra to play tennis 

5:32 Chelsea on the courts… 

7:30 How Scarra REALLY felt playing tennis again

16:04 Being a tennis influencer…

18:17 Updates on Scarra’s dating life 

20:12 When did Scarra know he was straight

21:45 Female allies 

25:55 Is Chelsea an ally to Scarra? 

29:43 Chelsea proposes a NEW friend! 

32:27 Are streamers socially awkward? 

34:15 Scarra loves pickleball 

37:28 Finding Scarra’s perfect woman

49:00 Scarra doesn’t think Yvonne is a pro gamer 

53:12 Intelligent dream woman? 

54:25 Paying your therapist to laugh 

55:10 Having a close family 

1:01:25 Complimenting a guy 

1:05:48 Chelsea is here to help Scarra 

1:10:27 Toast and Scarra’s relationship 

1:14:31 Why Chelsea became friends with Scarra 

1:21:20 Fakefans is back! 

1:24:20 The don and the diva… 

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The Fu siblings are here! Leslie and Nate share how they reunited as siblings and past memories they had apart from each other. 

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

1:20 the Fu Siblings! 

1:55 Who is Nate Fu

4:54 Toast is being squished…

8:10  Does Toast needs backup? 

10:10 The reality of Yvonne and Toast 

11:22 Leslie’s OG streaming days 

14:35 Nate’s streaming POV 

16:25 Being a female streamer 

20:40 OTV parties 

24:34  Leslie on Ryan Higa’s Influence 

26:15 Nate Films with Ryan Higa in Hawaii 

29:54 The Canceled HyperX Commercial 

32:08 Leslie and Nate Discover Similarities 

37:49 Leslie and Nate’s 30-Year Estrangement 40:13 Lost Hamster Story 

41:46 How Leslie and Nate Reconnect 

48:54 Leslie on Being Vulnerable Online 

52:04 Yvonne's 4D Movie Date 

1:03:56 Nate’s First Time Going Live 

1:08:50 Nate Makes Aluminum Trophies 

1:12:53 Icing Toast in Calgary

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Streamers are low maintenance, and we're here to prove it to you.

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

1:20 Big 60th episode

2:42 Toast doesn’t want to be on a team with Yvonne 

8:01 Toast is a yapper 

10:43 Chelsea ranked in Brawl Stars 

12:27 Faker of Brawl Stars 

12:48 Craziest purchases by streamers 

17:03 Streamers are low maintenance 

20:08 Toast loves to sleep on the floor 

23:40 Yvonne is in with the kids 

24:58 Toast has a gripe with OTV 

26:03 Scarra like it COLD 

30:10 OTV master bedroom…

32:12 Toast’s bedroom makeover 

33:07 Chelsea’s interaction with Jeremy 

35:31 Yvonne is getting back into League 

36:52 Can you lose and still be happy? 

41:34 Toast’s role as a uncle

45:01 Having kids as content creators 

48:10 Giving kids balance

49:58 Nepo babies 

52:12 Child cheat code 

57:01 Yvonne’s school bullies 

59:55 Going to Chinese school 

1:07:52 Asian culture being more celebrated 

1:10:55 Netflix Avatar the Airbender was a flop? 

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Yvonne runs into a dilemma in the early dating stage and Chelsea makes an apology..

Timestamps:

00:00:00 Intro

00:00:26 Chelsea's Brawl Stars Update

00:01:27 Gaming and ranked anxiety

00:03:51 Drake vs 20

00:05:30 Scrapped Yvonne vs 10 video

00:12:04 Love is Blind: Yvonne edition

00:13:55 Age appropriate..

00:15:33 Chelsea is setting up the dating game

00:16:53 Dating exclusivity

00:17:15 When to disclose you're seeing other people

00:24:17 You should tell em

00:34:30 Best places to cry

00:35:43 Dont be afraid to hurt their feelings

00:37:32 They might be watching..

00:41:50 Yvonne’s standards

00:42:08 Yvonne's dating standards and the Android debate

00:43:52 Chelsea apologizes to Android users

00:46:14 Scarra and Chelsea go to Tennis

00:48:32 Yvonne's board game night

00:50:38 Toast's reflections on his family

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