Recognizing that there are two additional areas that we wrestle and contend with.  Like Jacob, we also wrestle with the Lord.  Will we hold on to the Lord until He changes us and our nature or will we continue to be who we desire.  Lastly, we decide whether or not we are going to take the fight to the enemy and wrestle with him. Are we willing to contend with him to advance the Kingdom of God or will we remain inactive and let the enemy advance and conquer.