In this episode, Ethan Ross and Adam Smith dive into the impact of personal finances on marriage, highlighting that 36.7% of divorces are caused by money issues. They share practical advice from their own experiences—including the importance of budgeting together and communicating financial goals as a couple. They also discuss the value of generosity and tithing, emphasizing how being a good steward leads to blessings.

Timestamps:
00:00 Money Disputes and Divorce

06:19 "Financial Peace for Families"

07:41 Struggling With Outdated Payments

12:43 Shared Finances Explanation

16:25 "Rewards for Generous Giving"

17:58 "Struggles and Future Determination"

22:08 Living for Now, Not Later

26:06 Utility Billing Error Revealed

27:22 "Utility Refund Covers Braces"

31:50 "Finding Purpose in Struggles"

34:21 "Honest Tithing, No Exceptions"

40:14 "Separate Checking Accounts Debate"

43:11 Fixers vs. Time Seekers

45:09 "Collaborative Problem Solving"

47:23 "Syncing Calendars for Coordination"

In this episode, Adam Smith and Ethan Ross dive into the importance of morning routines and how planning the night before can set the tone for a successful day. They talk about challenges with consistency, but say their personal mission statements and creeds help them stay focused and motivated. They also discuss C. S. Lewis’s "Abolition of Man," unpacking the dangers of abandoning moral objectivism and the need for a strong guiding principle in society.

Timestamps:
00:00 "Prepping Habits and Flaws"

10:14 "Finding Faith and Moving Forward"

11:53 "Push-Up Challenge and Batman"

18:05 "Splinter Cell's Sneaky Protagonist"

23:45 "Sleepy Eyes and Positivity"

30:16 "Morning Routine and Adjustments"

36:21 "Morning Mobility and Yoga"

43:05 "Multi-Purpose Notebook Use"

48:42 "Men Without Chests Overview"

51:24 "Rejecting Truth: A Slippery Slope"

55:04 "Embrace Open-Minded Moral Dialogue"

01:00:28 "Limitations of Men"

In this episode, Adam Smith and Ethan Ross talk about purpose, calling, vocation and whether or not they feel they've "missed" their calling. Ethan opens up and shares several stories from his time in the Army and on the police force and why he left both roles. Then, it becomes a bit of a therapy session when Adam admits he feels he missed his calling, only to discover, with help from Ethan, that he’s right where he’s meant to be.

Timestamps:
00:00 Carrying the Weight of Manhood

03:24 Aligned Hobbies Benefit Professions

07:18 Rejecting People, Embracing Events

11:32 "Showing Up as Your Best"

14:49 "Reflections on Loss and Time"

20:17 Preparing for Four-Star Visit

22:57 "Finding Purpose in Faith"

25:41 "Push-Up Punishment in Training"

31:03 Military vs. Law Enforcement Dynamics

32:48 "Final Episode Reflections"

36:28 Law Enforcement Struggles Shared

39:29 "Reflections on Law Enforcement"

44:50 Legacy of Sacrifice

47:44 Skeletons in My Closet

51:35 "Declining Reenlistment Reflection"

53:10 "Finding Perspective and Purpose"

In this special Veterans Day episode, Ethan Ross and Adam Smith bring on a range of guests including Dan Rodenbar, Matt Gribble, and James to share their personal stories and reflections on military service. The conversation explores what Veterans Day means to those who served, the lasting impact of military experiences including the challenges of readjustment, and the meaning of brotherhood both during and after service.

Timestamps:
00:00 "Veterans Day Reflections"

06:09 "Slick Sleeve Deployment Reflections"

15:56 "Gym Helped Me Overcome Anxiety"

18:45 "Larger Than Life Hero"

25:10 "Know Your Why"

27:25 Family, Leadership, Fitness Purpose

37:41 Veterans' Sacrifice and Reflection

41:46 "Military Bonds and Friendship"

48:34 "Facing Potential and Responsibility"

51:04 "Seize Opportunities Every Day"

59:28 Veteran Reflections and Gratitude

01:05:16 Americans' Role in WWII Italy

01:07:37 From EMT to Paramedic Journey

01:11:44 "Grateful for Life's Journey"

01:17:54 Mental Health Stigma Fading

01:22:42 Military Dedication and Resilience

01:29:56 "Lessons Learned, Carried Forward"

In this episode, Adam and Ethan reflect on the 4-day fast they did last week. Adam had a family emergency that kept him from joining the group's celebratory meal, describing how caring for his injured grandson fostered deeper spiritual dependence and empathy. They also dig into C.S. Lewis's "Abolition of Man," discussing how modern education shapes moral character and emphasizing the importance of reading and critical thinking in personal growth.

Timestamps:
00:00 The "Rundown" Segment is NO MORE!

05:23 Thursday Struggles and Fast Reflections

08:33 Hospital Chat About Restaurants

16:25 "Reading Sparks Deeper Thinking"

17:34 Book Moving Struggles

21:23 "Shared Struggles and Spiritual Growth"

27:22 Sleepless Night and Cast Issues

29:44 "Overthinking and Apologizing Thoughts"

33:06 "Faith Beyond Understanding"

37:06 "Being There for Others"

39:41 Objectivism vs. Subjectivism Debate

42:57 "The Inklings: Tolkien & Lewis"

47:18 "Threat to Traditional Values"

48:01 "Heartfelt Truth vs Individualism"

52:37 "Green Book Philosophy Critique"

55:43 "Men Without Chests"

In this episode, Adan and Ethan talk about being in the middle of their 4-day fast. Hunger does odd things to you. There are also many strong positives that they've learned about and encourage you in if you're considering doing a fast as well. They also connect the discipline of fasting to the broader theme of manhood, emphasizing its role in strengthening both mental toughness and spiritual growth.

Timestamps:
00:00 "Antibiotics Caused Unexpected Reaction"

08:36 "Hunger or Habit?"

11:32 "Avoiding Afternoon Energy Crash"

14:37 Fasting Journey and Self-Deprivation

17:58 "Ketosis Explained Briefly"

23:26 "Discipline and Parenthood Challenges"

24:48 "Fasting and Food Obsession"

27:47 Stress Affecting Weight Loss

31:51 "Fasting Intent and Reflection"

37:25 "Fasting for Clarity"

39:50 Youth Trip Hurricane Cleanup

42:23 "Diving In: Overcoming Doubts"

47:07 "Understanding Dense Texts Tips"

50:40 Subjective Nature of Value Judgments

51:19 "Sublimity Inspires Imperfection"

55:06 "Read This Book's Introduction"

Today, Adam Smith and Ethan Ross dig deep into common challenges and responsibilities they see in modern manhood. They break down the importance of spiritual, mental, and physical preparation for life's battles, emphasizing routines like devotion, prayer, and physical conditioning. Adam and Ethan also explore the shifting societal attitudes toward masculinity, the impact of coddling on young men, and the significance of accountability and resilience.

Timestamps:
00:00 "Public Phone Etiquette Issues"

05:07 "Working from Home Challenges"

08:01 "Son's Football Bruises"

10:17 "Supporting Family and Others"

15:13 "Struggling to Meet Weight Limits"

18:44 Ephesians: Learning Biblical Context

20:35 Scripture and Literature Reflection

26:37 "Praying During the Commute"

28:07 Balancing Work and Family Life

31:10 "Business Mindset and Discipline"

35:19 Anger, Chains, and Regret

37:30 Mindful Reading and Meditation

43:27 "Bridge Encounter Turns Violent"

47:07 UFC Fighter vs Bigger Guy

48:06 "Stop Coddling Your Sons"

52:20 "Abolition of Man: Men Without Chests"

In this episode, Adam and Ethan share personal experiences and thoughts on what it means to truly become a man. Adam brings up how becoming a father marked a major turning point in his own journey, while Ethan points out that manhood is a daily, conscious choice rather than a one-time milestone. They also talk about the importance of building oneself mentally, physically, and spiritually, and announce the launch of their new book club featuring "The Abolition of Man" by C.S. Lewis.

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Timestamps:
00:00 "Early Riser Adjusting Routine"

05:47 "Overview and Podcast Structure"

07:40 "Daughter's Weekend Call"

11:58 "Defender of Free Speech"

14:03 Balancing Business and Family Life

17:59 "Early Mornings and Childhood Weight"

22:03 "First Feeling of Manhood"

25:07 "Fatherhood Defines Manhood"

29:48 "This Is Not A Joke"

32:03 Reflections on Tough Decisions

35:44 "Struggling with Manhood"

37:22 "Journey to Faith and Identity"

42:15 "Boy vs. Man's Inner Struggle"

45:48 "Praying for Future Spouses"

49:27 "Praying Together Transforms Marriage"

52:04 "Checking Boxes, Seeking Meaning"

55:10 "Delaying Book Club Start"

57:26 "One Chance Per Day"

It's episode 2!! Can't believe we've come this far....HA! In this episode, Adam and Ethan dive deep into the responsibility men have to provide for their families. Ethan is feeling the pressures of this in his life more than ever right now...since he just quit his full-time job! He opens about what the added anxiety and pressure this decision has caused. They also cover the importance of self-reflection, building strong habits, and supporting each other through challenges. Hope you enjoy!

Timestamps: 

00:00 "Defining Manhood's Weight"

08:08 Financial Stress and Family Responsibilities

12:41 "Expecting Another Boy"

14:36 Family Planning and Future Limits

17:22 Taking the Leap into Uncertainty

21:46 "Finding Motivation and Inspiration"

25:33 Eventful Week with Eric

29:44 Perception of Southerners' Cognitive Decline

32:56 "Abs Made in Kitchen"

34:43 Embracing Fasting Over Feasting

40:15 Embrace Trials for Growth

42:13 "Reflections on Growth Amid Busyness"

45:05 Military Sacrifices and Family Regrets

48:21 "Revisiting Key Topic"

THIS is our first episode!!!!! To say we are excited to begin this journey with you would be a COMPLETE understatement. Just to let you know, we have NO IDEA what we are doing. But that's what this journey of life is all about. Figuring stuff out together, and not being ashamed or afraid of what it takes to grow. Will you join us? 

In this episode, Adam Smith and Ethan Ross start episode one with an honest look at what it means to carry the weight of being a man today. They reflect on their journeys as veterans, fathers, and gym enthusiasts, exploring how physical and mental strength are both challenged by the comforts and conveniences of modern life. They also forecast what their goals and dreams are for the show. To cover things like fasting, overcoming struggles, and building meaningful relationships in their community. Hope you enjoy! 

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Timestamps: 
00:00 Bodybuilding Beginnings

04:21 Decline of Traditional Masculinity

07:53 Accountability and Health Awareness

11:06 Four-Day Fast Experience

15:04 Carrying the Weight of Manhood

18:57 Mark Wahlberg Update Needed??

20:34 Unexpected Personal Growth Reflections

26:37 Influence of Fathers on Children

30:13 Surround Kids with Positive Men

33:10 Struggle with Challenges Ahead

34:48 Air Conditioning Debate - Is It Necessary? 

38:40 Military Service Eligibility Concerns

42:47 Amish Dust Study 

46:26 Commitment to Helping Struggling Men