Pausing Before Moving Forward

As we approach the end of the year and step into a new one, this episode of W Ap Koute M M Ap Koute W is an invitation to pause — not to rush into resolutions, but to gently acknowledge where you are.

This conversation is about reflection, awareness, and honoring the season you are in, especially if change feels heavy or uncertain.

When Change Feels Unsafe

I share a personal reflection on how, a few years ago, the New Year filled me with anxiety. Not because the year I was leaving was good, but because change itself felt dangerous to my nervous system. Through my healing journey, I came to understand how past experiences taught my body to associate change with loss, instability, or pain, and how awareness helped me relate to the unknown differently.

Healing doesn’t remove uncertainty, but it gives us choice.

Intention Instead of Pressure

Rather than fearing what might happen, this episode explores how setting gentle, supportive intentions can help us move from reacting to intentionally responding. I talk about choosing presence, connection, and pacing over pressure — and why healing asks us to meet ourselves with compassion, not force.

Healing Is a Journey, Not a Finish Line

I also reflect on an important truth: healing is ongoing. You can process something today and feel lighter, only to discover deeper layers years later. That doesn’t mean you failed — it means your nervous system is ready for more awareness.

This podcast is part of my own healing journey too, and I share how speaking these topics out loud continues to bring new insights and growth.

Healing Ourselves, Healing Together

This episode honors the power of individual healing and collective healing, especially within the Haitian community, where conversations about mental health have long been silenced. My hope is that as we heal ourselves, we also create change in our families, our communities, and one day in Haiti itself.

A Gentle Invitation

As you step into the new year, I invite you to reflect:

* What am I ready to carry forward?

* What feels safe to release?

* What intention supports me in this season of my life?

There is no rush. Healing moves at the pace of honesty, gentleness, and self-compassion.

Thank you for being part of this journey. Thank you for choosing awareness, reflection, and healing.

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