Based on Revelation 7:15-17; John 16:20-24
If you are able, save them a place inside you,
and save one backward glance when you are leaving,
for the places they can no longer go.
Be not ashamed to say you loved them,
though you may, or may not have always.
Take what they have left, and what they have
taught you with their dying, and keep it with your own.
And in that time when men decide, and feel safe,
to call the war insane, take one moment,
to embrace those gentle heroes you left behind.
(Written by MAJ Michael Davis O’Donnell, 01 January 1970, Dak To, Vietnam)
This is a poem one of my friends posted on social media with the picture of a headstone of one of his battle buddies killed in action during Operation Iraqi Freedom. Then he posted, “Until we dismount at Fiddler’s Green . . .”
I had to look it up because I wasn’t sure of the reference. Fiddler’s Green is a legendary afterlife for sailors but also for soldiers, particularly cavalrymen, who have used this name for the place you go after death. Fiddler’s Green is a gathering place for rugged professionals, a place of perpetual joy, where the fiddle plays incessantly, where dancers never tire. It’s a place where the weather is always fair and there is a constant supply of friends, family, food, and drink. A place of rest and reward for those who have served honorably.
It sounds a lot like a place the apostle John saw in his revelation of heaven: “They are before the throne of God and serve him day and night in his temple; and he who sits on the throne will shelter them with his presence. ‘Never again will they hunger; never again will they thirst. The sun will not beat down on them,’ nor any scorching heat. For the Lamb at the center of the throne will be their shepherd; ‘he will lead them to springs of living water.’ ‘And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes’ ” (Revelation 7:15-17).
What John describes is a very real place with real people whose souls have been reunited with their resurrected bodies. They are with their Shepherd, Jesus, who, as the Lamb, laid down his life to redeem all from their sin and guilt, who rose from the dead to die no more, and whose resurrection gives us the sure hope of a resurrection from the dead. He will bring us to a place of perpetual joy, of friends and family members, of an abundance of food and drink, and, yes, there will be music and dancing.
Until then, the poem from MAJ O’Donnell and Scripture itself gives us permission to be sad, to cry, and to grieve. But let Christ’s resurrection give us proper perspective when we stand before graves lined with American flags this weekend.
Listen to what Jesus said to his disciples as he prepared them for his own death: “Very truly I tell you, you will weep and mourn while the world rejoices. You will grieve, but your grief will turn to joy. A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world. So with you: Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy. In that day you will no longer ask me anything. Very truly I tell you, my Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. Until now you have not asked for anything in my name. Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete” (John 16:20-24).
Ask Jesus, the risen and living Lord, to give you proper perspective as you observe Memorial Day. Ask that your sorrow be turned to joy. Ask that your joy may be complete. Find that joy in the good news that Jesus is raised from the dead. Find that joy in the good news that he will raise your loved ones and friends and battle buddies who died in the Lord, never to die again, and we with them.
Until we dismount at Fiddler’s Green . . . until we walk with Jesus in heaven, my dear friends, find your joy in Christ’s resurrection from the dead this Memorial Day.
Almighty Father, strong to save, ruler of nations, we bring our thanks to you this Memorial Day weekend for all the blessings you have given our nation, the United States of America. Help us to know and to acknowledge that freedom, prosperity, and other blessings come from you, and make us thankful.
As memories go back to those who have died to preserve our liberties, make us grateful and humble that others would stand up, raise their right hand for us, serve, and die. Turn our sorrow into joy. Turn the hearts of those who grieve by the power of your resurrection. Use us to share that good news with those who are sad, so they may find their joy in you.
Make us diligent in our prayers for our country and her leaders. Guide them with your wisdom and counsel. Keep us as a nation at peace so that we may carry out our vocations in peace and safety. In your Son’s name, Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Written and recorded by Rev. Paul Horn, WELS National Civilian Chaplain to the Military, San Diego, California.
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